How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her - Page 9

tanterry · #**121** 26-02-2009, 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by colins

Then why say "deep deep" and not just "deep" or emphasize it like "deep deep deep"?

Maybe he forget to take note that there are things called deeper & deepest during school days

"deep deep" emphasizes to go deeper. So how to out do you? Use "deep deep deep"

colins · #**122** 26-02-2009, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by tanterry

Maybe he forget to take note that there are things called deeper & deepest during school days

"deep deep" emphasizes to go deeper. So how to out do you? Use "deep deep deep"

I thought he is an accountant. But alas, he can't even differentiate between 1 deep, 2 deeps and 3 deeps.

LostALau · #**123** 26-02-2009, 10:20 PM

TS has given a lot of good info for new cheongster to follow as guideline. My opinion is, if u do not want to be KCed by the WL, then why bother to KC them in the first place.

If u have successfully KCed them and won their hearts and then throw them away, it is like trying to cheat someone of their emotion and hurt them.

My method is simply.....visit a WL for the purpose of visiting. Treat them nice and with respect. Make the session an enjoyable one for both. Then pay your due and say goodbye. If u feel that the experience is worth repeating, by all means RTF, then accomplish your mission and pay and say goodbye.

Never promise anything more or give them false hope. Never shortchange them. Pay them each them u use their service. If u feel generous, give some tips and stop at that.

If u like, continue your RTC until one day when she starts to KC u and ask for loan or more money. Then it is time for you to consider calling it a day. My two cent worth based on my decades of cheonging. So far so good.

Always remember that we can have only one gf or wife but countless number of WLs. If u fall into the trap, u will be breaking the golden rule of just having one wife and end up with two tigresses in your nest. You can imagine the consequence.

colins · #**124** 26-02-2009, 10:39 PM

The thing about visiting WL/FL is that the feeling always tend to be personal. I mean yes you can say there are thousands of WLs out there but you can only do one at one time (well minus groupies lovers la). If sex to you is a personal thing, it is an act to satisfy something you seek, perhaps even something you lost. So in the end, it is the original reason of why you want or need to visit WLs/FLs that determines whether you will be KC-ed, or not.

Put it the other way round and I am sure many bros also have this experience. If you deemed sex as impersonal, the only reason for you to RTF is becos you want to play with this 'toy' again. Then sooner or later, you will get sick of it and throw it aside. This is a proper closure to a good bonk. But if you find yourself getting more and more willing to RTF, something is wrong liao. And you know what that means dude.

So your attitude towards sex being personal or impersonal is a good check of whether you're going in to satisfy your emotion or your body need. Emotions can never be satis-ed and will build on you to form addiction and reliance.

slider_72 · #**125** 27-02-2009, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by colins

I mean yes you can say there are thousands of WLs out there but you can only do one at one time (well minus groupies lovers la).

Ahhhh.... bro, you must try the pleasures of shuangfei or sanfei one of these days. Not my personal favourite but can be quite an interesting experience.

pussyman72 · #**126** 28-02-2009, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by slider_72

Ahhhh.... bro, you must try the pleasures of shuangfei or sanfei one of these days. Not my personal favourite but can be quite an interesting experience.

: tama!!!!! lo wah u said shuangfei i wake up lei bro lol. i miss 2 v 1 last time i in thailand i always shuangfei in apnam and booking over nite LOL

wanted to try mass orgy knn go to SV area found one shop that can do mass orgy but lei knn gers there see liao cannot stand

planning to go on march to do shuang fei again not going to tell my gf i coming. going to off phone for 3 days n enjoy my bonks LOL

colins · #**127** 28-02-2009, 04:12 AM

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Originally Posted by slider_72

Ahhhh.... bro, you must try the pleasures of shuangfei or sanfei one of these days. Not my personal favourite but can be quite an interesting experience.

Did that in a parlour in xiamen. After that still went to the beach side 站街 for dabao. But you know what I mean...haha

ekemono · #**128** 28-02-2009, 06:44 AM

you guys are damm power

I can't imagine myself bonking 2 gals on the same session. Must be spoiled for choice on kama sutra.
Mmmmm, i am missing out alot in life

warbird · #**129** 02-03-2009, 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Harvest

OUT OF BED KC STRATEGIES

Some bros have highlighted that there is a need to KC the WL in a non-sexual setting esp for FL/KTV gals. Granted. But a gentle reminder is that you must be always ready to PULL HANDBRAKE when the alarm bell rings! For me, I'll only use it if I still want to RTF so in order not to break Rule #3... Here are some basic tips for survival:

...........................................To be Continued...

Hi bro Harvest,

I appreciate that u r sharing some of ur strategies n hope that u would continue.

I realize that ur topic "How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her" is very controversial n a very risky endeavor n may not sit well w/ some senior bros here. However, this being a forum n in the spirit of sharing, u should consider continuing ur instalments...n let's debate the various issues later.

I just like to give my 2 cents.

No matter how experienced w/ WLs/FLs n non-WLs we are, n regardless of what rules n safequards we use, none of us r immune to being KC-ed by them, meaning we still may fall madly in love w/ them. For many of us, if we play the game long enough, we will kena caught, eventually. The results could be catastrophic...

The reason is simple. Attraction (and falling in love w/ someone) is not a choice. It happens at the subconscious level. It applies to both sexes.

For some, one meeting is enough to seal the fate. I guess it's love at first sight or kena gong tao, to use the local Hokkien parlance. But w/ follow-ups or RTFs, the risks increase exponentially.

It happened to me 2 1/2 yrs ago when I re-entered the FL/WL scene after many yrs of hiatus.

To cut a long story short, I fell madly in love for a very young PRC MM, a FL, something I thought would never ever happen to me. At one point, I was seriously thinking of giving up my business/career in Gotham City, my family, my parents, etc. n move to China to take care of her...

I had enough money to live very comfortably w/ her indefinitely. I sincerely believe that she was also in love w/ me, although I can't be 100% sure. I was hesitant n later got cold feet becos I was much more than twice her age...n in the end I had to renege on my promises, she was devastated...n cut off all ctc w/ me. It took me almost a full yr to recover.

I still think of her occasionally n feel that I still owe her something.

So be careful, bros.

Good day!!

aczeta76 · #**130** 04-03-2009, 06:20 PM

Now is KC a good thing or not..

Many bros have given their take and I guess most of us will agree that we need to stop at "Promises"

Pillow talk is fine and we all do that esp after the deed but to go deeper requires committment and determination on both sides

Been there and was burnt too as I forgot that it has to be mutual "real" feelings... Now, I just treat them as friends and provide no promises of any future together in any way other than a friend.

Granted, I still get lost sometimes so that is why I am cutting down seeing new babes..

Anyway, I always remind myself that like warbird said, I am no longer that fella who came out of NS, fit and strong and full of vigor...

While I dun feel the strain yet, it will be a matter of time and Y would a young attractive girl chose me over others close to their age?

Friendship is so much simplier... juz that so long after I make clear my feelings that I like them, I can close the chapter since my piece is said... I require no reply as it is rhetorical ...

Yes, we can provide a life of plentitude or at least sufficient luxury for them but if they love us for that then it is ....

Age is a barrier, regardless how you look at it...

So for now, I think I will be on the run again to avoid someone so that I will not get into issues again...

KC is a double edge sword... used honorably, they make you good FBs and friends, used the other way... god have mercy on you

groo · #**131** 04-03-2009, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Harvest

...HOMEWORK
....1. Find a quiet place (Eg in your own bedroom) and close you eyes
....2. Visualize at the back of your mind your sexual encounter with your target
....3. Now this step may be slightly more difficult but if you've watched enough voyeur porn it should be easy
....4. Now continue to picture this customer leaving her room
....5. Take your time to go thru this whole mental sequence at least twice if time permits..

Bro-Harvest, you amaze me! You actually used the Visualisation Theory for Optimum Learning into Visualisation Theory for Optimum Prevention of KC Trap!

Thank you. I'm here for the ride and i'm sure it's gonna be a hell of a great one!

Cheers!

marlborotan · #**132** 04-03-2009, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by pussyman72

tama!!!!! lo wah u said shuangfei i wake up lei bro lol. i miss 2 v 1 last time i in thailand i always shuangfei in apnam and booking over nite LOL

Does it remind you of the 50 ...... kee kee

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

Now is KC a good thing or not..

Many bros have given their take and I guess most of us will agree that we need to stop at "Promises"

Agreed with the advise bros posted here. But sometimes it easy say than done loh. sign.....

TS, tks for all the effort.

FL Lover · #**133** 05-03-2009, 11:22 AM

KC KTV gers or WLs without been KCed by them? .....

Is this a joke or what?!!..... There is no such things as KC but not KCed by the gers. It is just a matter of time before you fall into the trap.

Always remb. We MEN are very WEAK creatures. When the right time, the right GIRL, the right feelings come, there is no way or very hard to resist the feelings. Sure there is always our BIG head to tell us when to stop or even yor buddies to help u along the way. How many of us managed to do that without geting burnt?

Stop wasting yor time to KC girls unless you are taking that as a challenge. I really dont understand why TS wants to do that when most of us are trying to get away from all these KC traps.

If you think that you are the only one having this idea of KCing the girls I can 100% tell you that those girls are also thinking the same as you.

Just PAY FUCK AND FORGET would save you alot of troubles later.

arpeggi · #**134** 08-03-2009, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by FL Lover

KC KTV gers or WLs without been KCed by them? .....

Is this a joke or what?!!..... There is no such things as KC but not KCed by the gers. It is just a matter of time before you fall into the trap.

Always remb. We MEN are very WEAK creatures. When the right time, the right GIRL, the right feelings come, there is no way or very hard to resist the feelings. Sure there is always our BIG head to tell us when to stop or even yor buddies to help u along the way. How many of us managed to do that without geting burnt?

Stop wasting yor time to KC girls unless you are taking that as a challenge. I really dont understand why TS wants to do that when most of us are trying to get away from all these KC traps.

If you think that you are the only one having this idea of KCing the girls I can 100% tell you that those girls are also thinking the same as you.

Just PAY FUCK AND FORGET would save you alot of troubles later.

I can't help but agree to whatever I just read above. He speaks the truth.

warbird · #**135** 09-03-2009, 03:05 AM

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Originally Posted by FL Lover

KC KTV gers or WLs without been KCed by them? .....

Is this a joke or what?!!.....

Just PAY FUCK AND FORGET would save you alot of trI fell madly in love for a very young PRC MM, a FL, something I thought would never ever happen to meoubles later.[/B]

Hi bro FL Lover,

The problem is that attraction or falling in love w/ someone is not a choice. It happens at the subconscious level...

"Just pay fxxk n forget" is not enough to prevent one from getting KC-ed by the "right" gal if one is fortunate (or unfortunate) to meet her. It has happened to me. See my post above: "...I fell madly in love for a very young PRC MM, a FL, something I thought would never ever happen to me..." I had not seen her for several days after the first meeting n I was ready to leave...n then she sent me a fateful text msg...

No one is immune, bro.

Cheers!