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Originally Posted by Johndick
Actually there is a very simple way to wake the hell up for those who keep hallucinating the ML have genuine KC with you.
Try tell the ML you cannot patronize her anymore because sudden financial hardship.
Then you see if she still bother to chat with you on WeChat like before lor. Chances are you find her reply pattern dipped drastically, either not spontaneous, brush you off, disinterested or outright ignore. Then you understand that the moment you not a paymaster, there goes the KC you thought she has towards you lol. We are just ATM to them lah. No matter how joyful time you have during your sessions, off menu items, chemistry skyhigh, don't forget you PAID for it. No $ No Honey / 哥哥/亲爱的/老公
It's the same for people around us, the moment you cease to be of benefit to them and they disappear, that tells you there is nothing genuine in terms of how they treat you.
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Ok lah, I would say 95% are like that but there are the occasionally 5% that genuinely treat you as a friend. Only met 1 the past few years. Got posted to work overseas the last 2 months of her stay in SG. Still chats with me even though she knows I wont visit. Before that I was always visiting right around the dinner timing and she would suggest to grab dinner together even though she's usually quite packed around that timing. Initially I also thought just trying to get a free meal or something but after a while she insisted on paying sometimes since we are friends. We still keep in contact in WC and meet if I happen to fly to china even though she's very sure she wont be coming back.
Having said that, girls that this are seriously so rare they are almost non-existent so best advice to bros still just stick with acting along with them.