Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei
How to make your WL experience more pleasant
Got some messages on this topic, so perhaps I should share some brief thoughts here. Basically, treat her as a new friend you're meeting.
It starts with you during the booking process. Be cordial even before you meet her. Your initial contact with her should be via texting, please no calling. And the message should b along the lines of "Hello, are you free for a one-hour session between 3-6 pm?" As far as possible, try to let her have a 2-3 hour window so that there's more flexibility for the both of you. Regardless of the tone of her reply, respond to it with something like "Thank you, looking forward to the session."
If the booking was made the day before, confirm with her the timing a few hours before. Reach her locality at H-10 minutes or earlier. If she provides the condo name, do not go there directly and wait downstairs for further instructions. Instead, before departure, check out her locality and plan where would be an inconspicious place to settle down for a bit before heading towards her place. And yes, spare a couple of dollars or so to buy small food items like fruits to bring along.
When she has given you the instructions, follow it strictly, as failure to do so may upset her and affect the session. Oh yes, while heading towards the place, check out the vehicles parked near it. Take note of waiting vehicles with two occupants in front.
When she opens the door and you decide that you will not U-turn, greet her cheerily. Have a bit of small talk, crack a few jokes here and there and break the ice. Always behave as if you're the guest even though she'll provide a service to you the customer. Put on the table the food item you bought without saying anything.
During the session, state clearly what you want and come to an agreement with her. When the service is over and is good, compliment her. Crack a few more jokes there. If her attitude and disposition are good, but her physical bits make you decide you're unlikely to return, still ask for her WeChat nevertheless. You'll then leave on a good note. If her attitude is bad, then skip this. How about the food you bought? If she's good, tell her that it's for you before leaving. If she's bad, take it away and eat it yourself later. And because what you bought is some small, finger food type, she's more likely to eat it.
And when you're out of her place, check out the area again. The same drill: note any waiting vehicles with two occupants. Flag it out to her even if she can't avert the inevitable. She should appreciate you for that
Last word: go in well-groomed. Not asking you to dress like you're going to the prom, but at the very least go in clean and tidy clothes if possible. Check that your breath is fresh. That's all for now.
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