woes of a tirak - Page 21

siamcutey · #**301** 06-04-2005, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by norigo77

Yo Mr TB! Long time no see and no drink stout with you liao. KX is lost in his little world of tirakland while Doomas is preparing for his trip to Bkk. So how is biz on your side?

Why u never ask about me????

For your info, I am doing a thesis on tirakship.

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suteerak1099 · #**302** 06-04-2005, 03:47 PM

wowow! only some days in meditation on my issues, suddenly so many posts, advises, testimonies/memoirs etc. kudos to all u who contributed!! been pondering on the issue at hand, n having ironed things out w my gal. things arent as bad as i assumed it to be.

wont disclose too much details, but lets just say that me n my gal r at the stage where we pour our hearts out to each other, exchange opinions n outlook on life n issues, needless to say...thoughts n plans for the near future. i cant be certain of wats to come for me n her for the next 5-10yrs, bt nothing can be more concrete than now. at least now, after the clarifications n reassurance, its not as painful to count the numbering days towards her ORD.

once again.. big thanx to all u who offered advise n comforting words. very much appreciated...10q 10q

norigo77 · #**303** 06-04-2005, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by siamcutey

Why u never ask about me????

For your info, I am doing a thesis on tirakship.

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Basket... that time asked you to come out lim kopi so that I can interview you for my thesis you also never come out. Now my thesis cannot be thicker than private dancer anymore.....

siamcutey · #**304** 07-04-2005, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

wowow! only some days in meditation on my issues, suddenly so many posts, advises, testimonies/memoirs etc. kudos to all u who contributed!! been pondering on the issue at hand, n having ironed things out w my gal. things arent as bad as i assumed it to be.

wont disclose too much details, but lets just say that me n my gal r at the stage where we pour our hearts out to each other, exchange opinions n outlook on life n issues, needless to say...thoughts n plans for the near future. i cant be certain of wats to come for me n her for the next 5-10yrs, bt nothing can be more concrete than now. at least now, after the clarifications n reassurance, its not as painful to count the numbering days towards her ORD.

once again.. big thanx to all u who offered advise n comforting words. very much appreciated...10q 10q

Prepare for shocks after she ORD. The real tests starts only after she ORD from sg

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siamcutey · #**305** 07-04-2005, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by norigo77

Basket... that time asked you to come out lim kopi so that I can interview you for my thesis you also never come out. Now my thesis cannot be thicker than private dancer anymore.....

Give me another 3-5 years, I will try to compile a collection of tales. Now still green. My internship in tirak university still fresh

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norigo77 · #**306** 07-04-2005, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by siamcutey

Give me another 3-5 years, I will try to compile a collection of tales. Now still green. My internship in tirak university still fresh

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Hey, your 1st tale still around in TC forum? Now then it suddenly occurred to me that I stopped somewhere halfway on my 3rd tale!

siamcutey · #**307** 07-04-2005, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by norigo77

Hey, your 1st tale still around in TC forum? Now then it suddenly occurred to me that I stopped somewhere halfway on my 3rd tale!

Don't think so. Anyway, no good to talk about past cos its better to look forward to future. The past holds good and bad memories. The good not very tock gong, but the bad seems chum.

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norigo77 · #**308** 08-04-2005, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by siamcutey

Don't think so. Anyway, no good to talk about past cos its better to look forward to future. The past holds good and bad memories. The good not very tock gong, but the bad seems chum.

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Huh? That bad meh??

Ok, shall shelf my tiraking diary aside while waiting for you to complete your internship.

suteerak1099 · #**309** 14-04-2005, 03:54 PM

hmmm... seems to me that there hasnt been much testimonials/stories from our fellow cheongsters to share liao... its quite obvious that some have still been stuck in their dilema as discussed in previous posts.. n to date.. no progress, no sound no shadow. hmmm

hardcore_bonkie · #**310** 14-04-2005, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

True also....I always preach Bonk and pay and forget esp for those who post something like "Need help, got involved with WL, think she really loves me". But for Bro Luna, don't know what his background settings is like...so just wish him the best for the highly anticipated arrival of the day when his WL's ORD......

Hi bros, i had similar exp with my tirak.. but the attention is on me.. i live in the kingdom of thousands smiles for sometime b4 coming back here. back there ppl r dun really mind whatever yr race is but in sg i got this problem...i always got the sick look from passerby.. maybe they think that chinese always must go with chinese..that kinda of thing.. but advise for all bro all out... JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!

norigo77 · #**311** 14-04-2005, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

hmmm... seems to me that there hasnt been much testimonials/stories from our fellow cheongsters to share liao... its quite obvious that some have still been stuck in their dilema as discussed in previous posts.. n to date.. no progress, no sound no shadow. hmmm

Bro, now Songkrang festival lah... everyone is taking a break to have some fun.

zunbo · #**312** 15-04-2005, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

hmmm... seems to me that there hasnt been much testimonials/stories from our fellow cheongsters to share liao... its quite obvious that some have still been stuck in their dilema as discussed in previous posts.. n to date.. no progress, no sound no shadow. hmmm

Ya.... Me learning how to let go.... Cos i always ask myself this qns... ' What can i offer her at the end of her tour'

suteerak1099 · #**313** 15-04-2005, 01:43 PM

well come to think of it.. yeah. its songkran this wk. many might have made their trip over to LOS to be in comforting company of their tiraks. hopefullly there'd be gd news for them to share when they return...

siamcutey · #**314** 15-04-2005, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

hmmm... seems to me that there hasnt been much testimonials/stories from our fellow cheongsters to share liao... its quite obvious that some have still been stuck in their dilema as discussed in previous posts.. n to date.. no progress, no sound no shadow. hmmm

Not free lah. Busy with work, busy make money, busy settle problems, where got so much time to post? Post here is provided got time to spare.

Anyway, the 1st step I believe that in order for this kind of relationship to work, both parties must have a common language where they can communicate. Either the guy learn thai or the girl learn english. But frankly who has more time to learn the language? hahaha. Not those learn how to say you eat already or where you go etc, but deep conversations.

Only by learning a common language, will you be able to understand the problems they face, and she be able to understand the problems you face.

Many people facing this problem because during my ONs I have been translating english smses from customers to the cat40 girls. most thai girls have problems understanding the smses. Even the customers "kaopeh" say that they have difficulty communicating in the smses.

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suteerak1099 · #**315** 16-04-2005, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by siamcutey

Anyway, the 1st step I believe that in order for this kind of relationship to work, both parties must have a common language where they can communicate. Either the guy learn thai or the girl learn english. But frankly who has more time to learn the language? hahaha. Not those learn how to say you eat already or where you go etc, but deep conversations.
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yes, its true that language barrier is 1 of the unfortunate deterents that causes misunderstading & lack of indepth conversations. culture & mentality too is also another cause thats hindering the progress in the relationship. i guess that explains the reasons y i keep myself occupied in my free time learning the language & researching more about the culture & Thai social sciences

have to admit that there have been so many incidences where i get tongue tied & in some cases.. it seems we're playing a game of charades haha. needless to say, there've been occassions where i'd be translating her incoming smses, as well as being requested to compose smses for her to her customers. cant say that its any honor or pride in doing so.. cos i expressed my jealousy & envy for the kind of attention/consistancy that she gives her customers/regulars. explaining "its very heartaching to be asking someone else to screw my gf...how'd she feel if she was in my position..etc"

at times, dun even dare to think if its my generosity or consider myself gullible in thinking/believing her rationales. at the end of the day, just slap myself w the fact that this is her rice bowl. unless i've got all the $ to redeem her n bring her back on land.. there's nothing i can do for now to stop her from what she's doing now, except to be blinded to her actions & pray hard that things will never be the same after she ORD.