woes of a tirak

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

SM2, i can totally understand wat u're going thru. mine bail out on my bookings (special days ie: starting from xmas straight thru till vday this yr)saying someone booked her at the last minute. she also cancelled out on our outings, cos got booking n the bastard wouldnt wake up till almost lunch. or had the cheek to lie n say she's sick, but in the end she was still working as per normal.

after confrontation, she'd suddenly be nice again n give more attention.. sweet talk n all at most for few days. its a routine i noticed. cos thats only possible, so that she can rotate n pamper her other regulars. so its all a cycle for them...otherwise, whole time pinning hopes on 1 "robert" wont be able to feed the family. unbelieveable..u may say, bt my fren n i have been up n down this roller coaster ride for nearly a yr... this routine is as routine as their monthly check-ups can be:: just be thankful that there'll be some slight variations from time to time - to spice up ur life.

Bail out on your bookings? can like that one meh?? As for cancelling outing because got booking, this one I can understand lah, cos they definitely lack of sleep one. My "tirak" had told me that we will go out only when no booking the nite before, i respect that. It's not calling me to cancel our appointment that pisses me off

Telling me that she wants to go out with me one week in advance and then last minute cannot make it also piss me off. It happened quite a few times to make me suspicious. There was once she said got booking cannot go. So in the morning i actually went to see if anyone comes out of the house in the morning.But knn when i went there, didnt see anyone coming out. So i asked her what time her customer left and she said quite early, i was there like 1 hr late to see anyone coming out. I believe her even though i didnt see anyone coming out cos if she really wanna lie, she would say the usual time that customers leave.

Most of the time, she will ask me out. BUt then she is also the one cancelling the appointment. She win liao. Actually i dont have any problem with that if it's true that she cant make it. But thinking that she might be lying to me....this feeling is really not very good. I dont mind her going out with other guys, but flying me aeroplane and then lying to me, this I cant take it.

A few times I thought she lied, but in actual fact i found out to be that she didnt lie. But till now, I still cant believe her 100% for sure.

My "tirak" had said she only go out with me. But i was thinking how about her other tiraks?? Dont they ask her out too? How would she deny them? Maybe she kept them happy in the room, so going out is no issue.

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

now that my tirak's having her final countdown to ORD. she's been busy calling the other regulars except me. only time she calls is when she needs translation for sms. dunno wat to say lah... sigh...am i suppose to think she's being considerate for me to save up for flight to visit her hometown when she ORD? am i to think that she's trying to squeeze the last drops of $$ cash outta the patrons whove never treated her well enuff - feeling reproached for earning too much of my $? or is she desperately trying to earn more $ so she can afford to gimme a surprise bday gift?

it all remains a mystery. all i can say is.. if wanna fall in the 1st place.. dun complain later that u got aches n pains, cuts n bruises. just gotta look on the brighter side of things

If you are the last person she wants to see, I guess u are the ultimate tirak (in singapore)??

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

There was once she said got booking cannot go. So in the morning i actually went to see if anyone comes out of the house in the morning.But knn when i went there, didnt see anyone coming out. So i asked her what time her customer left and she said quite early, i was there like 1 hr late to see anyone coming out. I believe her even though i didnt see anyone coming out cos if she really wanna lie, she would say the usual time that customers leave.

Most of the time, she will ask me out. BUt then she is also the one cancelling the appointment. She win liao. Actually i dont have any problem with that if it's true that she cant make it. But thinking that she might be lying to me....this feeling is really not very good. I dont mind her going out with other guys, but flying me aeroplane and then lying to me, this I cant take it.

Why you go wait outside her house and see which customer come out? Even if got customer come out also maybe for other girls. U tiao her already, still don't admit.

Actually no one can tahan the girl lying to us. But many times is because they don't want to hurt us. But then must understand their culture not like us. For us, we expect the truth. For them, they prefer to lie so that everything looks beautiful. The clash of perceptions is why doubts set in.

When you know the girl lie, don't fret, and think of how to lie also lah. Lies are fun actually. To them, it doesn't hurt, so to us, telling a lie mustn't hurt too. When you feel telling a lie hurts, then please don't continue this relationship.

When the thai girl lie to you, remember you must spun a lie 10 times better than her, then you can survive in her world. Not our world. They are thai girls, they can survive anywhere.

SC

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Why you go wait outside her house and see which customer come out? Even if got customer come out also maybe for other girls. U tiao her already, still don't admit.

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When you know the girl lie, don't fret, and think of how to lie also lah. Lies are fun actually. To them, it doesn't hurt, so to us, telling a lie mustn't hurt too. When you feel telling a lie hurts, then please don't continue this relationship.

When the thai girl lie to you, remember you must spun a lie 10 times better than her, then you can survive in her world. Not our world. They are thai girls, they can survive anywhere.

SC

I went outside her house to see cos i got nothing better to do. I also wanna know if I can handle the TRUTH, hehehe... Like I told u, if i want to find out if she is really lying to me, I can easily do so. But then i do not see the need to go into that extent.

I like to tell lies too, but she seldom give me the opportunities to do so. I guess i have to create the opportunities for me to do so. But then i am not a good lier .

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

I went outside her house to see cos i got nothing better to do. I also wanna know if I can handle the TRUTH, hehehe... Like I told u, if i want to find out if she is really lying to me, I can easily do so. But then i do not see the need to go into that extent.

I like to tell lies too, but she seldom give me the opportunities to do so. I guess i have to create the opportunities for me to do so. But then i am not a good lier .

U cannot handle the truth, thats why you post it out here. Lousy, cannot even tell lies. Like that still want to find out things from her. You are not even at her level, you want to know more about her. Forget it. Till you can at least be better than her in this aspect, or else, you can forget about knowing the truth.

SC

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by sex_maniac2

I went outside her house to see cos i got nothing better to do. I also wanna know if I can handle the TRUTH, hehehe... Like I told u, if i want to find out if she is really lying to me, I can easily do so. But then i do not see the need to go into that extent.

I like to tell lies too, but she seldom give me the opportunities to do so. I guess i have to create the opportunities for me to do so. But then i am not a good lier .

The problem is not whether she lied to u or u lied to her, the main issue is that she doesn't care whether she get caught by u lying as it's clear that you are not the most important person to her. "TA SHI CHI DING NI LER". I know you are in a state of confusion but as a man dun go to a certain extent which will bog u for the rest of your life.

[Phucker]

Hey SM2, are u the old SM?

If u are, i really miss the old u. Arrogant u maybe, but u were more confident back then.

Never let the gal play u, there will come a day where u should state your stand. My tirak played games with me, i was like u until one fine day i decided to cut her off totally from my life. Painful it maybe but its less mentally draining compared to holding on something thats not yours to begin with.

Take Care

[sneksg]

Juz wanted to share my thots on this, since I am also currently involved.

Yes, it is important to be able to know if you are handling the truth. My gal did not tell me anything, but i know in the back of my head that she probably has some regulars and etc. I am aware that they call her and she calls them..... v.likely... but who cares. (Lesson is don't go in hoping for a bed of roses, there are always thorns)

The one thing always in my head..... if need to I bail.... juz stop goin to look for her etc... No point being affected. After all with the limited time u have with her, most imptly is to enjoy your stay with her each time..... if she is always happy or feel good about you, she will tend to care for you more. End of the day, everybody happy. (Easier said than done, but sometime better to think with ur mind than ur bro or ur heart)

Each time i see her, it is clear in my head that there is no future in this, but juz that during this short stay of hers and moment of my life, I want to enjoy it. So if it really comes to moving on, we can all do so, as I dont forsee moving my life permanently to Thailand.

Juz expressing thots on my current relationship with my gal.

[Hakoshu]

Its always the same old shit.... Repeating cycle on and on againz....

[peterfish]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

Its always the same old shit.... Repeating cycle on and on againz....

Now the rage is the green theme. Must recycle, reduce and re-used. That is the message that the National Envirnomental Agency is trying to bring across to us what.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

Its always the same old shit.... Repeating cycle on and on againz....

that's why I lazy to post here liow lah.... *sign*

thaivisitor
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Originally Posted by siamcutey

U cannot handle the truth, thats why you post it out here. Lousy, cannot even tell lies. Like that still want to find out things from her. You are not even at her level, you want to know more about her. Forget it. Till you can at least be better than her in this aspect, or else, you can forget about knowing the truth.

SC

If you think I cannot handle the truth , then so be it lor. If i like her more than she like me, of course I am not at her level and she will be the one controlling the relationship. I believe it happens in all relationship.

If i really want to know more about her, I believe all I need to do is ask and see if she tells (truth or lies is another matter). The fact is I never ask her about personal stuff. Maybe its becuase I cant handle the truth that is why I never ask??

I may think that she is playing games, but in the end, it could be just the way she is.

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

The problem is not whether she lied to u or u lied to her, the main issue is that she doesn't care whether she get caught by u lying as it's clear that you are not the most important person to her. "TA SHI CHI DING NI LER". I know you are in a state of confusion but as a man dun go to a certain extent which will bog u for the rest of your life.

You are right she doesnt care whether she got caught or not. If she cares, she would not have told the truth.

To set the record straight, she doesnt even care if I go and visit her, call her, sms her etc. She dont give a shit about nothing. SO how??

The fact that I continue visiting her is because of the good sex. Other things are secondary.

Sometimes I wonder what she stand to gain from playing all these games (if she is indeed playing games with me).

[collin_23]

Row row row your boat gently down the street...merrily merrily merrily live is but a dream.....here we go again....

Originally Posted by Phucker

Hey SM2, are u the old SM?

If u are, i really miss the old u. Arrogant u maybe, but u were more confident back then.

People nowadays are nicer. And you wonder if Chuwit is Siamboy. I am sure we all miss him too.

Originally Posted by phucker

Never let the gal play u, there will come a day where u should state your stand. My tirak played games with me, i was like u until one fine day i decided to cut her off totally from my life. Painful it maybe but its less mentally draining compared to holding on something thats not yours to begin with.

Take Care

hey thanks for the advice. The fact is I dont think she is playing games with me, but sometimes I cant help but think she is. Things has been the same for us since day one.

the past six or seven months has been emotionally challenging for me. I have no regrets.

Originally Posted by waslee

Everybody who gives advise here have most likely been through this one or more times. Sometimes the facts are there for you to see, if you think she doesnt give a damn abt you then you are clearly not top of her list, but you could mebbe be in the top 5? But it depends on whether u are able to accept this fact and let it be. Now you love is so profound that you must find her everyday regardless of what and when u reflect and find that she doesnt love you as much as you do, u get all fed up and upset. I tell you the solution is to find another one right now. Initially u may feel that the experience might be different, mebbe less chemistry or what, but when u found another that can give you the same kind of feeling as this one, then i guarantee u will forget this one fast. As u try more and more u will find that all of them are in fact the same and nothing is real except $$$!!!

The facts are there for me to see? If i had followed those facts, i would have stopped seeing her long ago.

Firstly, I have never tried to be on top of her list, up to u to believe. I dont care if I m top 5 or num 1. If i pay money to visit her, I expect a good time.

I also thought my love was very profound for her, so much so that i can dont go visit her for sex for 1 month.

I never think that she loves me very much. She also never show or say so. But I still go back to her because i like having sex with her. The reason i get fed up and frustrated because the sex is lousy and I don not want to go look for another one. I hope things would improve, if it doesnt, then I will look somewhere else.