woes of a tirak

[rick924]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Maybe she feel heart pain that she might gonna lose a gold pit

No big deal 1 lah .. last time my Batam cewek cried in front of her frens in the house when I told her that I wanted to split .. she cried until 'fi li feh leh' like rain pouring. 3 months later, I saw her plying at GL 12

Goldpit? Im aint any goldpit...there are plenty outside and can offer more then me.....I only treat her food ...and so far a shirt and braclet that's less then $80bucks....Im careful with my $$ too...hmmm...

Originally Posted by rick924

Hmmm...

Well ..guess should post my woes here lah ....

Went out today with her....was rather happy at the begaining..but decided to confront her..

Questioned her y she sms "Miss you also" to other guy if she only love me...well got a lame answer " because working ma they are customer.."
Challenged her love to me and if she treating me just like a customer....she said " you no same...I told u many times y u keep asking and don't believe me...if dont believe next time you dont go out with me dont call me loh if no love u why everytime go out with u " ...( and the facts is ..from the sms..there are guys that asked her out..There is this guy sms her..House close when... you outside ar..if outside call me...) But then..After this I came to realise that perhaps afterall........Im just a KC Victim again.......

Probe further she rebuke by sms another guy that she is not working today...nabei~ ....got fed up and sped off..afterwhich parked along the road side and went out to smoke..she kept looking at the rear mirror checking what Im doing...( what does this implies? concern or finding out if i have die she could have not bother at all right....)

Got back to the car..probe her sincererity again...she remain silent this time...all the way when we reached kallang.parked along the road again...saw from her body lanuage..can tell she is sad+angry...she's fighting back her tears..can see her watery eyes althought she refused to look at me..(for what i know body lanuage doesnt lie)...fr0m here..I sank back deeper.....

Drove to East coast..all this while she was looking out of the window...she finally cried silently ..only found out this when I saw her eyelashes covered with water....but she refused to let me attend to her..(not wanting me to see her cry lah)..i LL and drove her back ...

What's this ...any conclusion or reasoning? .....KC trap ? ...I doubt so when i saw her body lanuage.........hmmm

Very similar case happen to me before, for me now i wake up, all this just KC trap. why most WLs like go to East Coast? is there because she home town no seaside or like go there n drink? God bless you bro.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by critic

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First of, you write, well, typically like him. Good for you since you stay in Punggol and he in Seng Kang. The proximity must have rubbed on you somewhat.

Back to Mr Ishak. That's his correct spelling. You seemed to enjoy the same fascination of using Mr 'Ishaak' in $ terms to highlight your point... just like suteerak1099. I did a search on the forum using this unique way of spelling 'ishaak'. Only the 2 of you have that.

So can I ask whether you are suteerak1099? You have the right not to answer, it's fine. And if I'm mistaken, I apologise. You write like sutterak1099.

Bro critic,
despite them writing nearly like each other, making the same mistakes in spelling, definitely not the same person lah.... Why? Because he say so mah... kekekekekekeke

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

hi critic, seems to me both u(analysing my style) n RP(mimic my style) been quite ardent fans of my posts, frankly i dont really give 2 hoots if RP really is who i think he is, but taking into account at the depth & level of how you both read my posts... i wouldnt be too surprised that u're RP in disguise??? (i mean no disrespect, apologies if i'm mistaken)

to set the record proper: i'm straight n take no fancy in mistaking the anatomic exit for entrance, so pls.. no intimacy between me n him. i'm not particularly keen on how he choose to post regardless in support or an attempt to defame me, cos its afterall a forum... as far as i'm concern, he's contributed a decent share of his opinions that seem quite neutral - no bad blood against him

Good try!!!!!!

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

his babe in L8H43 long gone b4 his 1st post in the forum as we've read. if he is who i think he is, yes we used to cheong together n dates back to our army days... but if its just another clone then i really am clueless hw he uncovered the past. )

kekekekekekeke, good try!
Funny the way you post as if you don't know who he really is, or can only suspect who is behind the nick, while he knows exactly who is behind your nick... kekekekekekekeke

Maybe it is possible hor? a long time friend from just reading the posts will confidently know exactly who I am without me telling him that I am the one behind the nick...

Want to cover up, at least convince yourself first lah...

like I said, good try!!

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by rick924

Went out today with her....was rather happy at the begaining..but decided to confront her..

Questioned her y she sms "Miss you also" to other guy if she only love me...well got a lame answer " because working ma they are customer.."
Challenged her love to me and if she treating me just like a customer....she said " you no same...I told u many times y u keep asking and don't believe me...if dont believe next time you dont go out with me dont call me loh if no love u why everytime go out with u " ...( and the facts is ..from the sms..there are guys that asked her out..There is this guy sms her..House close when... you outside ar..if outside call me...) But then..After this I came to realise that perhaps afterall........Im just a KC Victim again.......

Probe further she rebuke by sms another guy that she is not working today...nabei~ ....got fed up and sped off..afterwhich parked along the road side and went out to smoke..she kept looking at the rear mirror checking what Im doing...( what does this implies? concern or finding out if i have die she could have not bother at all right....)

Got back to the car..probe her sincererity again...she remain silent this time...all the way when we reached kallang.parked along the road again...saw from her body lanuage..can tell she is sad+angry...she's fighting back her tears..can see her watery eyes althought she refused to look at me..(for what i know body lanuage doesnt lie)...fr0m here..I sank back deeper.....

Drove to East coast..all this while she was looking out of the window...she finally cried silently ..only found out this when I saw her eyelashes covered with water....but she refused to let me attend to her..(not wanting me to see her cry lah)..i LL and drove her back ...

What's this ...any conclusion or reasoning? .....KC trap ? ...I doubt so when i saw her body lanuage.........hmmm

Actually when you confront her, you already sound her out your intention by telling her you have a liking for her, if not you will not ask her this kind of question. So she have to tell you that the others are not real while you are the chosen one. Which GL Cat40 girl, when you go bonk her and ask her whether she have tirak in sg will tell you that she have a boyfriend in sg?

You believe what she say? I definitely don't believe. Most impt is whether you believe or not

She can sms the other guy say she not working then later sms him back say she work again, when you are not around, you also don't know

You can like her but doesn't mean you have to accept her lies.

Cry so wat? I also know how to cry. She has to up her stakes because without doing that, she will lose one customer.
You see, she cry and your heart go jelly.

You not her match lah. She cry only, you like that. No need to play with her anymore. Play somemore, its you die.

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[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

dont understand y's there the need to speculate who's who. its not as if we're playing a game of cluedo or doing a virtual CSI in here. all it takes is for 1 person to start and the the whole world jumps in... sigh. stick to thread topic pls...

I agree 100% that we should stick to the thread.... provided it is not fill with fantasies supported by fake posts, etc, etc...

If the thread is fill with genuine posts, do you think that fellow bros will come out to query, rebutt, etc?

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Good try!!!!!!

kekekekekekeke, good try!
Funny the way you post as if you don't know who he really is, or can only suspect who is behind the nick, while he knows exactly who is behind your nick... kekekekekekekeke

Maybe it is possible hor? a long time friend from just reading the posts will confidently know exactly who I am without me telling him that I am the one behind the nick...

Want to cover up, at least convince yourself first lah...

like I said, good try!!

I was shocked at the replies in this thread. Because I read L8 Hse43 thread, don't fit the scenario posted by suteerak that both he and redperrier don't know each other.

Initially were like so failiar with each other, suddenly become like strangers.

I also can't convince myself.

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[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by free

hey, gotta disagree with u on this one lah. There are exceptions leh. The tirak (if she is sure about wanting to marrying him) can rank very high hor.

No matter how high the tirak ranks, the girl will still continue to be a WL for the very same reasons she came here for unless the tirak is able to relieved her of that burden. I do not see in anyway that that the WL will ever forgo her reasons for coming here just because the tirak promises to marry her.

Those WL who "cut short" their tour of duty here do so because they have already made enough to settle whatever problems that brought her here.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by rick924

Hmmm...

Well ..guess should post my woes here lah ....

Went out today with her....was rather happy at the begaining..but decided to confront her..

Bro, sometimes it is not better to "think" or analyse too much. Just follow your heart.

If you like her, then go for her. Maybe she is truthful to you, maybe she is not. The point is not to worry too much and dampened your own spirit. Very few people marry their first girlfriend anyway. But that doesn't mean that their gf was not being truthful to them or whatever.

Let fate decides even if you eventually have a heartburn. It can't be that bad. Cherish while it last.

Cheers
thaivisitor

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I was shocked at the replies in this thread. Because I read L8 Hse43 thread, don't fit the scenario posted by suteerak that both he and redperrier don't know each other.

It is very possible the suteerak1099 don't know red perrier leh... afterall, sometimes I also don't know myself mah... kekekekekekekeke

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Bro, sometimes it is not better to "think" or analyse too much. Just follow your heart.

Cheers
thaivisitor

When Thai WL cry, Men's legs go jelly and heart go soft. When men cry in front of Thai WL, the WL smile in her heart cos know the man kenna from her liao.

No matter what its lose-lose situation for us. Come out money, come out sperm, still must come out heart pain.

Men damn chumzzzz

hahaha
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[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

When Thai WL cry, Men's legs go jelly and heart go soft. When men cry in front of Thai WL, the WL smile in her heart cos know the man kenna from her liao.

No matter what its lose-lose situation for us. Come out money, come out sperm, still must come out heart pain.

Men damn chumzzzz

Well, it looks like if men wants to get involved in a tirak relationship, he has to go thru the experience leh... kekekekeke

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

No matter how high the tirak ranks, the girl will still continue to be a WL for the very same reasons she came here for unless the tirak is able to relieved her of that burden. I do not see in anyway that that the WL will ever forgo her reasons for coming here just because the tirak promises to marry her..

I agree with you. Plus promise is one thing, when it happens is yet another. But I think u can accept there will be cases that for some, their original big, hairy audacious goals (borrowed from the book - Built to Last) of making a big sum of money so as to live confortably thereafter may get thrown out of the window and/or morph into "We are willing to have a lower standard of living than intially planned for cos we now have each other and "mee kwaam suk". As for her parents, I am sure their basic needs (or a bit more) will not be ignored by both of them as well.

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Those WL who "cut short" their tour of duty here do so because they have already made enough to settle whatever problems that brought her here

True, that is w/o a doubt. Question is really when is enough Enough? For some it means stretching it another 3-6 months more cos got the chance to, since she is already here. For others, it is "I have enough and I dun want to be here doing this for a day longer, if I can help it". Big difference in attitude if u know what I mean.

[ABCinSG]

I have to say, it's tough to draw a line between a tirak relationship and one which is created because "I like her body, and she likes my money".

I am one of those who would rather have one girl (namely WH10G9) to go to constantly, rather then fishing the sea. As you can probably tell, I'm not much of a gambler. I also believe, that there are some like me. Having a "favorite" just because she is so, a favorite, because of the way she looks/feels/sounds/talks.

But such a relationship can have it's complications. Because, sometimes, you are drawn into something else, unexpectedly. When I first tried G9 and liked her for the way she feels and reacts to me, I started returning to her everytime I go. At first, I would choose another girl once in awhile (gave G12 a goodbye bonk ) but after awhile, it was her or nothing.

At first, I didn't pay much attention to it, but then, it started reaching the stage where we would be talking about everything after bonking for the remainder of the 2 sessions I paid for. I didn't think much about that either. After all, my purpose for 2 sessions was to take it slow and easy, enjoying myself instead of rushing.

It happened that way everytime I had 2 sessions, sometimes we would talk, sometimes we would just kiss and cuddle and stare at each other, sometimes she would give me fruits.

I started getting a little worried at the direction we were going. She mentioned on more then one occation that she loved me. That got me really weary of her actions. Is she saying that because a) she wants me to keep visiting her? b) she always gets an orgasm with me (I ain't saying I'm special, but I am at least sure about the orgasm and following wetness part) c) she really loves me?

I believe option c is very distant. And one of the last times I went for 2 sessions with her, she spent almost the other half doing something I wasn't very happy with (I ain't gonna say what, no, it has nothing to do with hygenie or anything that has to do with your safety or ability to bonk her).

And the last time I went, she was on leave, so I took G7, who seemed to know alot about me through her. I swear, these girls are 10x more effecient in passing information around then SAF! Anyway, I asked her what did G9 say about me, and she said G9 said that I was a very nice guy. I was perplexed. Nice? In what way? How does she know without even going out with me and knowing me more? (she did ask a few times to go though due to my busy schedule, I didn't)

Then G7 said something I could never forget. She said G9 said I was nice in the pleasuring way (I didn't quite understand what she said in chinese, I told her that, and she demonstrated by rubbing my belly and dick)

That really got me thinking.
1) While she is rather timid, there is more then meets the eye.
2) She is daring enough to do something she wasn't supposed to do.
3) She likes, or "loves" me, just because she enjoys sex with me, not that I am complaining about this part.

That sure shattered the dreams of having a family and what not with her! And while it is a VERY hard thing to accept, I have done so, and it makes sleeping much easier every night.

Does it mean that I would never lay eyes on her again? Of course not. She is after all, a wonderful fuck . But, well, I am now extremely careful when she approches the love subject, and I will not fool myself any longer.

This...lengthy essay is just written to remind you guys to constantly judge your...boundries, to make sure the line is clear between a "fuck buddy" and something more, as, sometimes, the line can be blurred by the actions of the girl, be it intentional or not, and that can lead to alot of problems. We all know the dangers of a tirak, but do we know when we enter into one unexpectedly?

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by ABCinSG

Does it mean that I would never lay eyes on her again? Of course not. She is after all, a wonderful fuck . But, well, I am now extremely careful when she approches the love subject, and I will not fool myself any longer.

This...lengthy essay is just written to remind you guys to constantly judge your...boundries, to make sure the line is clear between a "fuck buddy" and something more, as, sometimes, the line can be blurred by the actions of the girl, be it intentional or not, and that can lead to alot of problems. We all know the dangers of a tirak, but do we know when we enter into one unexpectedly?

wah kudos to you. One of the best part of this thread which I haven't seen for pages.... or ages.

I can guarantee not only G7 knows what happen in the bedroom between you and G9. The whole house girls all practically know.

Last time I even had bird's nest from my ex-tirak. Fuck finish must forget. Eat finish also must forget. Cannot think about them liao.

芽茏是魔鬼。我要解除心魔。

哈哈哈
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