woes of a tirak

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by rick924

I am not trying to build a path..it should be ..waiting for a path to be built instead...when there's no assurance or complete truth about something...no point play "LEGO" lah...

Refer to your reply in bold..exactly! ..so now i wana know if she wan to build the path together and sincerely or simply just hitch a ride to some where else.......

My master teach me, if she want to build the path together with you, ask her take some money out and open a bank savings account in singapore. Contrary to beliefs that they cannot open a bank account, they actually can. The bank account in her name and not your name.

Then we move on to the next step once that is done. Otherwise talk too much crap on internet like what some people are doing now is of no use too.

SC

[Javanoob]

though i sound very superficial
if can,
go find a very chio local spare tire, then slowly move on away from the thai wl ..
if not, u wanna chop off urself lidat from her is very very very very hard..

dun zap me cos i seriously feel curiousity can kill, but who can tahan his curiosity and dun find out, even know canot find out, also wanna go in see see 1.

so the only better way out, find another one then slowly cover up..
its easier but not the best way out la..

hopefully.. the local gal also sometimes can make you think, whether all ur worries and doubts and all tose things is worth it or not..

then maybe after tat, ur heart still realli like the wl, but at least u not so jialat, must think tis tink that, worry tis worry tat.

or if u can, take her hp, if u can figure out what she has on her hp, then it will be easier already.

once you see what sweet sms la, wat picture or wat la.. - game over. she might say she doing a job, must kc or so la...
but lanjiao.. she also doing a job for you la. dun always think why u so special..

dun say thai wl la..
say singaporean gers can liao

give a yandao + rich + buaya good
who you think she will choose..
even she likes u, she also will choose him together with you.
unless she really really love you la..
but then, u really think she really really love you meh.
aiyah u know what i mean.. 1.

[magicafe]

Originally Posted by Javanoob

though i sound very superficial
if can,
go find a very chio local spare tire, then slowly move on away from the thai wl ..
if not, u wanna chop off urself lidat from her is very very very very hard..

dun zap me cos i seriously feel curiousity can kill, but who can tahan his curiosity and dun find out, even know canot find out, also wanna go in see see 1.

so the only better way out, find another one then slowly cover up..
its easier but not the best way out la..

hopefully.. the local gal also sometimes can make you think, whether all ur worries and doubts and all tose things is worth it or not..

then maybe after tat, ur heart still realli like the wl, but at least u not so jialat, must think tis tink that, worry tis worry tat.

or if u can, take her hp, if u can figure out what she has on her hp, then it will be easier already.

once you see what sweet sms la, wat picture or wat la.. - game over. she might say she doing a job, must kc or so la...
but lanjiao.. she also doing a job for you la. dun always think why u so special..

dun say thai wl la..
say singaporean gers can liao

give a yandao + rich + buaya good
who you think she will choose..
even she likes u, she also will choose him together with you.
unless she really really love you la..
but then, u really think she really really love you meh.
aiyah u know what i mean.. 1.

I agree with u. I suppose many of us cheongters have mistakenly what our tirak meant. like(shop Khun) and love(rak Khun). remember my ex say to me, ya tham hai phom shop khun(don't make me like u). after 8 mths of relationship, she start saying kit thung! rak na! (think of u! love u!). when i stay with her in bkk, start a joke and question her. she told me that she did not fall in love with me, she like the way i,m. maybe, after evaluating my sponsorship with others, she start to love my $$$ but not heart.

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by rick924

now wait for durian to drop loh....if drop..then gamble whether it's rotten or sweet...but trust me ..once beaten twice shy ....one odreal is enough...no more 2nd time...

Come to think of it....We doutb them.....guess they doubt us as much also ...hai~ ....duno what lah

Sigh! Why would you still insist on working out the relationships if there is no trust and doubt between both parties. Think about those loves one around you and how will they feel if they know the current state you are suffering. Hurt and sad.

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Some stubborn people realise that there is no road in front, so they decided to build a path for himself and his tirak to walk together, not knowing that his tirak actually doesn't want to walk. She wants to take a car ride instead to another destination.

SC

I do agree with U on this point. Cos 1 qns which I will ask the rest. Where is yr final stop?

Qn1. Will u marry her?

- I just spoke to my reg and she tells me she also wants to find someone that will marry and spend the rest of her life with her. Not just someone that just pay lip services. If u can not marry her, then why waste her time?


Qn2. What are yr plans?
- This is impt cos how long u want her to wait for U? Just because of yr statement " Wait for me." Or "I be there". What if there is someone that really cares for her as much or more than you?! She must give it a miss and assume that U be there at the end....


For me... I might not be a Super Lao jiao, just that knowing where yr limit can actually shed more light into the path u intend to take

[magicafe]

To summarise the woes of tirak, i would rate it in this order:
(1) The thrill part is when we first pay them a visit.
(2) The best part is when we are their regular customer...good service and good
sex with laugther and joy.
(3) The worst part is they don't treat u as customer but tirak......not so eager in
sex and not displaying skill but may offer u raw sex.start grumbling about this
and that. complaining our behavior and actions.
(4) The disastrous part is u are their tirak with feelings abd love for u.........
difficult to communicate. many issue cannot be brought up bcos it's their privacy. they are more reserve of their action and tend to get mad.
In conclusion, chose part 2 and fade if part 3 goin g to happen.set for new target and start part 1 again.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Otherwise talk too much crap on internet like what some people are doing now is of no use too.

SC

Ai ya SC, no sweat lah .. every now and then got Casanova come in and talk their romance with Thai WL then you would be able to list your own view here mah.

I must quote my si fu also ... 'Got $ got lor'

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Ai ya SC, no sweat lah .. every now and then got Casanova come in and talk their romance with Thai WL then you would be able to list your own view here mah.

I must quote my si fu also ... 'Got $ got lor'

A lot of tiraks talk on internet "talk too much", "do too little" in real life.

How I wish I never cheong before. If can turn back time, I wished I never cheong

SC

[rick924]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

A lot of tiraks talk on internet "talk too much", "do too little" in real life.

How I wish I never cheong before. If can turn back time, I wished I never cheong

SC

Hi bro SC

What do u mean by "talk too much" and " do too little" ? dun get you...

[rick924]

Originally Posted by Hasa Sas

Sigh! Why would you still insist on working out the relationships if there is no trust and doubt between both parties. Think about those loves one around you and how will they feel if they know the current state you are suffering. Hurt and sad.

Hi Bro hasa

Not forcing to work the relationship out...like I say ...to know the truth is much more better a remedy for getting out of Tirakship .....

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by rick924

Hi bro SC

What do u mean by "talk too much" and " do too little" ? dun get you...

Some people like to talk and talk on the internet what they can do for their tiraks, how good is their tirak and what kind of things they going to do for future. But in real life, did they carry out what they wrote on the internet? Nope, because things don't turn out the way they want it to be, thus they cannot do what they want to do like what they wrote on the internet.

SC

[rick924]

Originally Posted by magicafe

To summarise the woes of tirak, i would rate it in this order:
(1) The thrill part is when we first pay them a visit.
(2) The best part is when we are their regular customer...good service and good
sex with laugther and joy.
(3) The worst part is they don't treat u as customer but tirak......not so eager in
sex and not displaying skill but may offer u raw sex.start grumbling about this
and that. complaining our behavior and actions.
(4) The disastrous part is u are their tirak with feelings abd love for u.........
difficult to communicate. many issue cannot be brought up bcos it's their privacy. they are more reserve of their action and tend to get mad.
In conclusion, chose part 2 and fade if part 3 goin g to happen.set for new target and start part 1 again.

Nice theory......hmm if only it comes in earlier..

[rick924]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Some people like to talk and talk on the internet what they can do for their tiraks, how good is their tirak and what kind of things they going to do for future. But in real life, did they carry out what they wrote on the internet? Nope, because things don't turn out the way they want it to be, thus they cannot do what they want to do like what they wrote on the internet.

SC

Noted.....guess i aint one of them....

[siamcutey]

Waehn Gam (Thai Word) = Karma

Let me tell a short story.

Last time I was with my ex-tirak from GL and she has a good friend called (let's call her Ms P). Ms P on the outside always look so innocent, so angelic is her face. And always when I am around, talk very softly and say good things about me in front of my ex-tirak. However, when I am not around, Ms P will start to badmouth me in front of my ex-tirak. And could say she was the launchpad of many of our quarrels. Not that I really care as the days goes by when I see Ms P, she don't really dare to look at me in the face.

Being stabbed numerously that I was patronising other girls in other houses, how my thai language ability makes me a playboy, etc. One thing that I dare to say that is when I with this ex-tirak, I never visited other girls. Out of 7 tiraks I had, I only stay faithful with 2 tiraks by not going for other girls. Only 2 I really loved. Thus I felt helpless at times when such accusations come in. Gotta live with it. And I slowly get to realise that Thai WLs when you leave them in a group, they really have cb mouths.

On every occasion where I went for overnight, I seen Ms P with different guys all the time, and I kinda lost track which is her real tirak after all. Because the girls always tell me this is her boyfriend, but then how come the face always different?

Ms P after working for a few months in GL, started getting disillusioned with the flesh trade and wants to marry her Ultimate Tirak. The one whom she really liked and always wanted to quit and go back thailand. One year into her contract, she went back.

Out of goodwill, I ever told Ms P to make full use of her 2 years to earn some money and go back thailand rather than go home and wait get married. Only money can be trusted but she chose to go back. Maybe this is why she doesn't like me

Supposedly to say that she is going to get married end of this year. But guess what, her so-called Ultimate Tirak went back to her old house recently to book another girl.

Was she wrong to go back early from her 2 years and depend on her so-called Ultimate Tirak who promised her his love? It's her Karma.

Do more good deeds in life and less karma will befall.

SC

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by rick924

Noted.....guess i aint one of them....

If you fall in deeper and deeper, you might join in with them.

SC