HELLO DARLINGS =LatexDolly= NEEDS YOUR HELP

[lacoruna69]

Originally Posted by johnwong1970

for your info, the appointment WAS already made 2 days ago, time and location confirmed. i was there, waited for 45 mins and also tried to call her quite a few times, but she's not picking up. I can't contact her since and would like to know why. dun be so jumpy to define 'freelancer' for me.

I can understand your situation. Happened to me before. Nope, I was not waiting for LD. Just speaking from experience. That's why it is always good to have backup FL.

[bugmenot]

Originally Posted by =LatexDolly=

APOLOGIES! Will be disappearing from 22nd-28th cause of CNY! You can still send me sms's but I might not reply. HAPPY CNY TO ALL! HUAT AH!

Happy Holis ger, cheerz...

-bugmenot

[tengster]

Happy Chinese New Year

[Nuglut]

Latex Dolly, while on the topic of communication, where are you my dear?!?

I am a first responder in your time of need for raising cash in a short amount of time.

I return and write you a glowing - and if I'm not mistaken one of the few - real FR's on this board. Undoubtedly that has helped you win additional clientele.

And then, poof, you disappear.

No responses to SMS', save to say once that you're code red. No update on when it will be over?

What's up girl? Too busy thinking about matte black Lambo's? -

Professional is as professional does.

Bro Nuglut.

[forgetful]

I agree with Bro Noglut that communication could be better.


Think i will pass on LD already.

[lacoruna69]

Just give her and yourself a break. This is the way LD wants to do things. Let her be. She might have other 'commitments', priorities, principles. By commenting here after her messages/thoughts isn't going to make things better. We all know that.
In fact, the more agitated we are, the more we are playing right into her hands.

I had been emphasizing time and time again, prepare a backup FL for every firing mission. Choice #1 not free, move on #2. #1 never respond, move on to #2. And so on. It is that simple. Once you cummed, you will feel much more better. Better than cooping it all up, whined here and there after waiting in vain for her to appear. Then you go home and post KPKB comments here, do you guys seriously think it will work? Gimme a break....

Last but no least, I had nothing against LD. In fact I find her interesting. Might book her for a session once my $ allows it.

[juzdodo]

Had the opport to meet up w sis LD. I must say that LD is quite a character, in my pers opinion. While some of the comments here can be pretty true, I would say to set expectations accordingly, do not expect a full service oriented professional like a hotel counter staff etc. It is quite obvious that she is not here to be one.

I waited 1.5 hours in my first appointment, no reply to sms and calls but I persisted and finally got to meet her. Told her nicely about her poor time management and she said she will improve. So case closed, we moved on and I had set my expectation of LD possibility being late again the next time.

For the 2nd appointment, same no reply to sms and calls over a few days. Eventually I stayed back to work and got a reply when the time was very near. LD said once booked, she will definitely come. So this time I know that I do not have to remind her again. I'm ready to make the 3rd appointment.

Although there are gaps here and there, I would simply learn about LD's behaviour and handle accordingly. But will have to feedback to her so that she has the opport to improve. Do not get upset, must be happy spending time and money

Happy CNY sis LD.

[Edward_125]

Happy new Year! hope to have an opportunity with you!

[justl00king]

Have to give you guys props for being so patience with a FL.

No reply to sms or no response? I would have already moved on to give other FL my biz.

[bugmenot]

Originally Posted by lacoruna69

Just give her and yourself a break. This is the way LD wants to do things. Let her be. She might have other 'commitments', priorities, principles. By commenting here after her messages/thoughts isn't going to make things better. We all know that.
In fact, the more agitated we are, the more we are playing right into her hands.

I had been emphasizing time and time again, prepare a backup FL for every firing mission. Choice #1 not free, move on #2. #1 never respond, move on to #2. And so on. It is that simple. Once you cummed, you will feel much more better. Better than cooping it all up, whined here and there after waiting in vain for her to appear. Then you go home and post KPKB comments here, do you guys seriously think it will work? Gimme a break....

Last but no least, I had nothing against LD. In fact I find her interesting. Might book her for a session once my $ allows it.

Couldn't agree more with U bro, a back-up plan is always a must to load off, but then again, we always look towards our "first choice", don't we all...?

cheerz
bugmenot

[fk1269]

Ｕ　ｓｔｉｌｌ　ｏｎ？

[=LatexDolly=]

Sorry all, don't mean to not reply! But when I have 20 messages to reply... There is simply no room for chatting. Only what is necessary is conveyed. Also, phone inbox is insanely full and thus, messages may bounce. Sending too many messages may cause my phone to jam even more and delay my replies. I seek your understanding! I only have four free slots a week! Please let me know what I need to know in ONE message. Such as when you might be free, the location, and day. I plan my schedule around yours, so asking me when I am free is not a good idea because I cannot predict when my time will be taken up. I do go through accordingly and reply. I may be slow, but I will get to you eventually. Please do not be impatient.

The queue is really, really long. I do copy down names in accordance to who came first. So even though you might like to RTF, I have to apologise because it's a fair system. And giving very short notice will not help. Usually, my week is fully booked the week before. Early bird gets the worm. For example, if you ask whether I am free tonight, I probably will not reply. The best thing to assume is, when I do not reply, it's most likely a "Sorry, I cannot make it" or a "No, I apologise". Please just imagine me smiling and apologising to you, not ignoring you. I am already crashing and burning with the current schedule. I urge everyone to co-operate! It will help things alot. Thank you everyone.....

Bottom line: I am only a part-time FL, I try to give my best to this job, as I do enjoy it very much. However, I do have my own life and other commitments to fulfill. I need to spend time with the people I love and care about. I'm not a no-lifer. Please, please, cut me some slack. I'd be eternally grateful for it....

[=LatexDolly=]

WARNING: I have terrible time management. I have been like this for years, am doing my best to change. It's not so easy to turn around completely. I apologise to those who have met me for always being so late. One thing is, I WILL NEVER FLY AEROPLANE. I can be very late, but I always turn up, NO MATTER WHAT. Unless it's some HARDCORE emergency like: family member in mortal danger*, or I, myself actually am in mortal danger*. One method to prevent waiting is to tell me to turn up at 10am, if you wanna book 11am. Gives me an hour to be late and saves you the pain.

*accident, hospital, dying (touchwood x3), etc.

[=LatexDolly=]

Originally Posted by potentguy

My only concern is that what might become of this forum if more and more of the fls here decide to adopt your policy.. I reckon your answer to that would be that you are not like the other fls here, and that you are special.

I really hope I did not offend anyone here, and if I did, I offer you my humblest apologies.

Not because I am special. But because I dare to assert my rights and preferences. The 700 was a one-off emergency thing. Before this, I worked only between regulars. I didn't have a thread. I don't really do this for money. Hence, I see no reason to make myself feel miserable by putting up with things I prefer not to put up with. Unlike most other girls, who take anything that comes, either because they need the money bad enough/they are willing to throw dignity and self-love away for money/they have insanely high tolerance. And that is all. To each his own. You have high tolerance. I don't. And there is nothing wrong with that.

I thank you sincerely for your politeness.

[=LatexDolly=]

APOLOGIES! Will be disappearing from 22nd-28th cause of CNY! You can still send me messages here or to my phone but I might not have a chance to reply. HAPPY CNY TO ALL! HUAT AH!