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22-03-2005, 12:18 AM
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I think using Starhub service to make call to Bangkok is not cheap.Buying those phonecard which have a face value of $10 but normally cost $9 will be much cheaper.I think the most is 1 min $0.20.You can get it in many places like interchange or those SPH kiosk at MRT station.
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22-03-2005, 12:21 AM
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有
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22-03-2005, 12:40 AM
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Those People who try to haolian how rich, how good they are in Sammyboy forum, in real life, we can call them Cannon Fairies. Men will only be troubled by 2 issues. 1 is Money, 2 is Women. When these 2 issues combined together, it becomes the biggest problem encountered for Men...
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#139
22-03-2005, 12:44 AM
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i can sure she do ST. Because all my f who staying in thailand for years got same experince. I TOO. Don't get uself bite . That's my advise.
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22-03-2005, 01:10 AM
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I guess I am a bit late to offer my views here but then late is better than nothing. My views might be totally different from what other bros have posted. They are based on what you, yourself want and feel rather than the situation itself... After reading the entire thread, I personally feel that deep inside you, it seems that you have more or less decided to give up the relationship with her. I will estimate that more or less, you have 70-80% of wanting to break up with her... It could be because you are mentally stressed, financially stressed and emotionally stressed after all the frequent trips that you have made, to look up for her over the past few months... To me, it's like you are just trying to find excuses to break up with her. You just need assurance from others that you have did the right thing if you are to break up with her... Why would I say so??? It's because from all the postings that all the bros have advised, it seems that you just want to find fault on her... Although it's good to know the truth, but then it seems that you are more towards of wanting to know the results that she is indeed going out with customers for ST or LT so that it can prove that she did you wrong and not you did her wrong... Think about it yourself... Are you feeling this way deep inside you?? Ask your sub-conscious. Are you trying to give yourself excuses to break up with her so that you can feel better that it's not because that you doesn't want her??? I do not deny that you might have loved her a lot initially, but then after all the tiring trips which burn out your financial stability, you find that your love for her has actually become lesser. This is why you are able to hold back your emotions and want to find out the so-called truth on whether she did lie to you... You just want to give excuses for yourself... Deep inside your heart, what do you want the outcome to be?? If deep inside you, you have already decided to give her up, why bother about other people's opinion... If you truly loves her deep enough, I do not think that you will have wanted to test her and resulted in her being "deeply hurt" by it if she was ever to find out...After reading all your posts about her, I strongly believe that she has feelings for you... It's just that your love for her is not as strong as her love for you... And you doesn't want to commit into it as you find it too "troublesome"... Is that considered loving her deep enough? Only you yourself know whether her love for you is true and from your postings, I believe that you have more or less, know that she is indeed true to you and she loves you very much... What results do you want? To know that she is lying to you so that you can find excuses to break up with her and you will feel better?? Or to know that she is not lying and then you will continue with this relationship??? Frankly speaking, I think your heart is more towards of wanting to know that she is lying to you since it will make things simpler for you... Even if you know that she is not lying to you this time round, sooner or later, you will still try to find other excuses for yourself.. Sad to say, but this is really selfish... If you do not love her deep enough and wanting to take care of her for the rest of your life, please do not find excuses for yourself... Do not be selfish in just thinking for yourself.. Think for her as well.... Think of how she will feel if she ever find out that you, in Singapore, is trying to find means to break up with her so that you will feel better for yourself.. And she will be totally heart-broken by your actions... 
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22-03-2005, 01:16 AM
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22-03-2005, 01:18 AM
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22-03-2005, 01:20 AM
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有
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22-03-2005, 01:25 AM
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22-03-2005, 01:26 AM
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pls hold yourself together.........i know that this is not the result you're anticipating BUT this result has been highlighted to you as one of the possiblity right..... now the thing to do is........you have to ask yourself.......do you really love this woman enough
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有
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22-03-2005, 01:29 AM
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There are a lot of other more handsome guys out there and I will say that there are also a lot of nice guys who can treat her better than you... Why would she choose to be with you in the first place? Why would she choose to pay for your expenses if she doesn't love you? Why would she choose to lie to you if she doesn't love you deeply enough in order to protect your feelings??? Calm down first and talk to her when you are there.. Listen to what she has to explain before you vent your anger on her..
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22-03-2005, 01:33 AM
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22-03-2005, 01:36 AM
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Frankly speaking, I don't think so leh....
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22-03-2005, 01:42 AM
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but then again, Threadstarter didn't say what he's going there for so meantime, your guess is as good as mine  now hia........when you free for coffee????? it's regarding your situation one
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有 Last edited by ryanlim; 22-03-2005 at 01:47 AM.
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