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22-03-2005, 01:45 AM
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I am now looking for either a room or a house...  I just follow what fate has for me... We will chat in details when ThaiV is back in SG... Anyway, very soon already lah.... 
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22-03-2005, 01:46 AM
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i am not asking for her hand for marriage...i do admit i am very pissed off at being a fool and making the runs in between the calls to go for ST...as i calm down to think...i know she did it for me cos she planning to get apartment so i can stay with her...yes perhaps my love for her is not strong enuff to condone what she had done...i am sorrie my love was put to test...perhaps she loves me more than i do...but all i know is that I can never forget what she lied to me...be it to protect me or whatever..
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#153
22-03-2005, 01:49 AM
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Just do what your heart tells you to do... but please do not hurt her too much if you still love her....
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22-03-2005, 01:51 AM
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dun have to fly over cos it's going to hurt you and her more. just change your contact number and when she can't get thru to you, she'll get the hint. Cruel but Effective 
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有
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#155
22-03-2005, 01:52 AM
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To the threadstarter,
Dun know why u desperately wanna seek out the 'truth'??? so what she went out with customer?? Sometimes, being in the dark is being blissful. For some reasons, she trying to hide it from you or protect you. Talking about IDD calls to thailand, yes..it is expensive using IDD 018 starhub in the long run..If u talk a lot, no matter what power plan or talk u subscrible, it going to burn a significant hole in your pocket. Trying buying those phone cards from shop vendors. Try the sawadee card-- 100mins or the E card 135mins for mobile line calling. It is much more cost saving. But most importantly..learn to cut down on talking part. Talk so much for what? meet up face to face better.''
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#156
22-03-2005, 01:54 AM
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有
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22-03-2005, 01:56 AM
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#158
22-03-2005, 01:58 AM
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anyway the so-called "Truth" has oredi come out so let's just leave the Threadstarter alone and let him straighten out his thoughts ya....... P.S : won't be surpised if few days later, he comes in and declare that they are back together *sigh* the wonders of being in love with a Thai gal 
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有
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22-03-2005, 01:59 AM
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22-03-2005, 02:00 AM
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少了我的手臂當枕頭 你習不習慣 少了我的懷抱當暖爐 你習不習慣 我會耐心地等 隨時歡迎你靠岸 如果留下多一秒鐘 可以減少明天想你的痛 我會願意放下所有 交換任何一絲絲可能的佔有
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#161
22-03-2005, 03:59 AM
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What a long thread, after reading everything I feel sorry for the girl, not the threadstarter. It seems that the girl has genuine feelings and good intentions eventhough she has lied about going out with customers mainly to what it seems, to protect the guy's feelings. Look at it this way, if you're working as a gigolo, would you admit it if your gf asks you, or would you give some excuse and lie about your work to avoid her getting hurt? It was obvious from the start that it is part of her job to do that, otherwise why work in an agogo bar when you can earn a similar more respectable salary working as a waitress etc if she doesn't intend to go out with customers? Her lie was just a small one, compared to your lie of refusing to believe the truth when it is in front of your eyes.
It's not easy to be with a WL if she is still working and at most times it is heartbreaking and will cost you sleepless nights. I've been there also. There's only 2 solutions :- 1) Break up as soon as possible if you cannot go through with it. No point continuing hurting each other. It will hurt but in the end better for both if it's not meant to be. 2) If you truly love her, then you must bear the burden of waiting until one of you can afford to stay with the other. If you can't wait or stand the thought of her sleeping with other guys, then just call it quits. If you want to stay on, then control your spending habits. Whats the point of calling every hour if you cannot afford to and going there every weekend? Nothing wrong with seeing less if u both have the goal of saving up and being together. Well best of luck and I do hope that you go easy on her when you decide to break up. She deserves better.
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#162
22-03-2005, 07:37 AM
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Well best of luck and I do hope that you go easy on her when you decide to break up. She deserves better.[/QUOTE]
i am not angry with her when i realised that...for a moment i was filled with anger why she lied to me...and soon i do realised the reason behind it...I going down not to vent my anger on her as i realised what's done can not be undone...i just sad everything changed...I did not sleep the whole night and i am at airport now taking the first flight there...i do not know why i am going there too...what's for me to say...and wat's for me to do...i just feel i did her wrong and i am not good enuff for her...that's why things turn out this way...SHE did it all just to provide for my "coming trip" to stay for good with her...that's what i feel...anyway last nite was the first night she did not call me after since 11pm....painful 71/2 hrs i went thru...did i deserve it??well i do not know...cos i did not tell her i realised her going with customer...i so tired now...
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#163
22-03-2005, 07:44 AM
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Being together with her...i am a guy who is too rigid minded...i can not forget the hurts and stuffs people does to me.I can never bottled that thought for the rest of my life. Being back together will only hurt me more and hurt her too...I wish her well and hopefully she will find a well deserved guy for her. I am not worthy for her...my love is put to test and i failed...
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#164
22-03-2005, 09:38 AM
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Are u so naive? Please wake up from your dream lah. Love cant feed u but bread does.
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It doesnt matter where you are, is who you are with Skippe, Smeely Beancure, NeoNinja, Golden Finger & KimLin Many thanks for the above goodwill but please post and inform me so that I can do something about it.
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#165
22-03-2005, 09:54 AM
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i'm calling a BUY on the telco you are using!
jokes aside. i do not see the point in going to bangkok. i agree with waypastprime's comment. when the fund runs dry the fantasy will dies. the confrontation will lead to tear shedding. a very powerful tool that will leave you weak and go soft hearted again then "forgiveness", then many more months of daily calls and weekend trips to bangkok. if you do continue with the fantasy, please let me know. i will take position and amend my call on the telco to a STRONG BUY. Quote:
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