Gers Are Still Gers

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

...... All in all, I'd say, SG gals 生在福中不知福。

The choice is yrs!

this line carries the most weight! hands & feet up in agreement!

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

.... My PRC & Thai gfs, especially b4 I travel, whether 2 another city or province or country, they'd bonk me like they're gonna miss me a long time! Especially my Hubei gf, even during lunch time oso we went back 2 my hotel room 4 quickie, until I missed lunch & gotta eat snacks. Lucky tat my Korean gf is steadily constant.

for alota sg gals, they behave like they couldnt care less if you go round pumping others, but when she discover you're low on stock when she finally obliges to the "task", you'd be getting hell from her till your legs so nimb.

i agree with your testimonial on foreign gf... to them, sex may not be the most important thing, but she'd make sure sex is erased from your to-do list prior to your travels.

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

On the 1 hand, they like 2 be pampered, like things 2 go according 2 their wishes. But often, they dun really know exactly wat they want. On the other hand, they like the men 2 take charge, it's a form of manliness, masculine act. Especially when the men shows they know exactly wat 2 do, exactly wat they want, even though the gals may not like the decision, but inside them, they are impressed! On the outside, they may show their unhappiness, unhappy wif the decision, but deep inside, they are somehow impressed, & many of them (gals) may not even realise it themselves!

haha... so obvious that anyone can see that they really dont know what they want!!!

Did u notice, tat many of those Ah Bengs, wif tattoos all over their bodies, their gfs beside them are quite chio & obedient? These Ah Bengs, they are often short tempered & impatient. Any nonsense from the gals, & I'd seen it v often, they get verbal abuse wif expletives, bringing in parents, grandparents, etc etc, almost on the spot, in public, in anywhere! Yet these gals still obediently stay by these guys?

i dont know about that, bro. i know of some girls who actively go after these "troubled" guys... but they marry the nice guys eventually. well, unless kenna shotgun!!!

Originally Posted by 84gunner

In other countries such as China, Taiwan, Thailand, Vietnam, etc etc, it's not surprising 2 see the women bashed by their husbands. Especially in Taiwan, the news reports every other day, u will see such family violence cases. Mind u, it's every other few days, like normal daily business!!! There are even cases, when the wife is several months pregnant (tummy quite big oredi), the husbands still rained blows & kicks on the wife!!!

i m MCP as well, but beating wife, that's one thing i advise all bros not to do... a man would lose all pride and respect once he lays his hand on his woman. i feel even divorce is also better than beating up a defenceless woman. but then again, it's men like me who has the highest possibility of getting physically abused by SG women!!!

Originally Posted by Disgusted

Guys we need to teach them that they need to deserve us or we'll leave them alone! Please stop treating local girls like Golden CBs!!!

agreed!!! dont be such a desperado... and dont treat them nicer when u guys r going after them. they would expect that kind of treatment after she becomes yr gf/wife. in the end, the guy will suffer due to heightened expectations.

but sg women should be most afraid of globalisation. there r more men like bro 84gunner who r able to see the world and assess the foreign competition. SG women will soon be forced to change or marry foreigners. foreigners who have enough patience to deal with their crap or those too poor to dare to voice out.

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

as the old saying goes: 人比人，气死人。and the funny thing is, they never reflect if their frens did anything to deserve that treatment received? or perhaps the hubby struct lottery or had a promo/raise and so.. can better afford some luxuries.

simple economics: unlimited wants, limited resources. if they cant see and appreciate what we have done or bought for them, and instead, concentrate on what we didnt buy for them, it is time to reassess the relationship and be ready to kick the materialistic bitch out of the door...

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

not 2 mention the psychologically unbalanced!!!

Whoa! Very Apt! Hammered the nail on the head!

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

for alota sg gals, they behave like they couldnt care less if you go round pumping others, but when she discover you're low on stock when she finally obliges to the "task", you'd be getting hell from her till your legs so nimb.

I beg 2 differ on tis part. Many, if not most SG gals, have strong ego & r quite spiteful. Dunnit 2 wait till u r low on stock & she obliges 2 e task. The moment they know it, & if married, they'll use the Women's Charter 2 deal wif u, till u teng kor (脱裤子)! Make sure u regret & pay 4 e lesson u'll remember 4 life!!!

For those not married ones, the situation can be different. Either they break up wif u, or they may view it as e competitor(s) coming aggressively liao, u are not able 2 withstand e temptations liao, they gotta be on their toes or risk losing u, or simply juz 4 their ego sake, they'll wanna win u back. 4 ego sake, they'll likely dump u after they feel they win e competition, or they may dump u in such a situation u'll remember 4 a good long time.

1 of my ex-gf, juz days b4 I quit SG, I had quite some farewell parties. 1 of the parties, is wif her fren, a lawyer, we went KTV 2gether. It was crazy party in there. She's smart, & knowing her fren v well, she knew we went womanising. So I had no choice but 2 admit we went KTV. Dunnit 2 say, she blew her top, & intterogated me on e details. 2 keep her temper down, I said e furthest we went was, the KTV gal went topless, hj 4 me, while my hands "tour round e globes". She continued 2 throw her temper 4 awhile more, I apologised repeatedly, her sisters oso helped me, by saying tat not all men will be so honest, cool 2 let her scold so much & fierce, & oso apologise oredi. Since I oredi apologised, & it was only hj + e globes, at least my prick wasn't stained wif another gal's juices. Then she brought me out 2 drink herbal soup, saying I expended quite some ammo, it'll help me replenish.

Another incident was wif 1 of her best frens, again, during my last days in SG. I went 2 a pub, her fren oso going 2 tat pub, but she's not free. Under some pressure, I ended up dirty-dancing wif her fren & her fren's sister. Both gals r quite chio, her fren is avg size but great boobs! Imagine, 32C! She has difficulties buying bra, cos 32 is usually A or B cup, C cups normally 34 or bigger. I managed 2 tour 4 globes & quite some rubba, but didnt go further. Again, she's smart, knowing her fren is mischievious, she asked me about it. I managed 2 hide it from her, but her stupid fren let the cat outta e bag! Again, she screamed at me, but surprisingly, she cooled down abit after awhile, & then her sisters kept poking fun at me, "C cup shiok hor? Some more 2 pairs!" But they all said tis time, it's not entirely my fault. Yes, I should be scolded, but e other 2 gals should take more blame! Knowing tat I'm her bf, yet they still do tis kinda thing? How many men can resist such temptations? Again, at least, my prick wasn't stained wif their juices, tat I still know e limits! Then she brewed herbal tea 4 me, & bonked me till I almost hang white flag 4 my remaining days in SG!!!

We had plans tat she join me in PRC after I'd stabilised there, but I dumped her shortly after I left SG.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

i dont know about that, bro. i know of some girls who actively go after these "troubled" guys... but they marry the nice guys eventually. well, unless kenna shotgun!!!

4 tis, I'd say, they may be e case of dunno wat they doing, dunno wat they want, until they experienced/tasted both e bad & nice guys oredi, then they know who/which 2 choose.

Originally Posted by _AXL_

i m MCP as well, but beating wife, that's one thing i advise all bros not to do... a man would lose all pride and respect once he lays his hand on his woman. i feel even divorce is also better than beating up a defenceless woman.

I oso agree, as I said b4, I do not condone physical violence / abuse.

Originally Posted by _AXL_

but sg women should be most afraid of globalisation. there r more men like bro 84gunner who r able to see the world and assess the foreign competition. SG women will soon be forced to change or marry foreigners. foreigners who have enough patience to deal with their crap or those too poor to dare to voice out.

Some SG gals actually do know about it, but juz tat they continue 2 hang up & sell, & put on a tough front.

Quite some SG gals oso dun like life in SG, & are oso thinking of ways & looking 4 opportunities 2 get out or quit SG 2.

On the few times I went 2 SG, initially, the gals I met dun bat an eyelid. But when they heard I'm a quitter, & doing v well in PRC (in a previous project, I was the AsiaPac Team Leader in a Global rollout project 4 a famous Global MNC, holding several countries' employment permit concurrently), tat some MNCs closed/moved SG & Msian operations under my advice, their attitudes totally changed.

I told them, if they wanna be wif me, 1 of e basic criteria is tat they must be willing 2 quit SG (uproot, leave their frens & families). Otherwise, in no way will it be realistic 2 be wif me. Some of them actually nodded their heads! They even tried 2 keep me v occupied, tat they wanna occupy all, if not most of my available time. Of course, not 2 mention, no qualms about sextifying me. It's an eye-opener 2 see the "gentle" side of SG gals, hahaha!

But, looking beyond, dun u tink they're using their CB like a commodity?

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

But, looking beyond, dun u tink they're using their CB like a commodity?

Eddie Murphy calls it the Pussy Trap.... meow!

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

But, looking beyond, dun u tink they're using their CB like a commodity?

I bet till date you have yet to get the "onegina" syndrome.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

I bet till date you have yet to get the "onegina" syndrome.

huh wat's tat?

[Derelict]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

huh wat's tat?

I am guessing one vagina

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by Derelict

I am guessing one vagina

That's what marriage is supposed to be.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by Derelict

I am guessing one vagina

I oso guess so, after posting the qns.

I'm in favor of monogamy, though I oso do not oppose others who practice polygamy. If they can handle it well & all parties are happy, good 4 them & I oso congratulate them.

How many men have 1 & only 1 gf, b4 getting married wif tis gf? I do know some of such men, though I'd say it's v common 4 both men & women 2 have dated several other pple b4 eventually getting married wif 1. Same here, as far as I feel, I can & should date more than 1 gal, b4 deciding 2 settle down wif only 1.

But several fortune-tellers tell me tat it's in my life tat I'll be polygamous, hee heehee. But, at least now, I'm still thinking of monogamy only. I leave all these 2 fate, let things take their natural course.

[Derelict]

Originally Posted by surfer888

That's what marriage is supposed to be.

Correct me if I am wrong. Isnt some of the muslim countries (no offense meant to muslim members herein) still practice polygyny? I hear they can upkeep 4 wives. If I am not mistaken, our neighbouring state does still practice it still. Having 4 is extreme but I do know a few with 2 wives that is legal. Based on Singapore law polygyny marriages are still practiced lawfully but the applicant have to adhere to some facts such as below.

What is a Polygyny Marriage
A polygyny marriage is the term used for a man marries more than one wife at one time. This marriage is undertaken by those who:

Have the capability to provide a life that is well balanced where the financial, physical and emotional well being of his wives are concerned. Has a good marriage life currently and the adverse is not the reason he has decided to take another wife. Have specific reasons, which are benefits that his first marriage cannot provide but his second marriage can. In this context, love is not one of the benefits

What Processes are involved in a Polygyny Marriage
1. All applications are submitted to Kadi for his review. To view the Application Form, click here.

2. Upon reviewing the application form, the Kadi will give separate appointments to the first wife, the applicant and the proposed spouse within a month from the date of application. This appointment letter will be posted to their respective addresses.

3. During the separate interviews, all statements and evidence will be recorded by the Kadi and at the end of the interview; the parties concerned will sign on their statements.

4. From the statement and evidence given by all parties and with reference to the Syariah Law, the Kadi will then make his judgment.

5. His judgement will be notified by post to the applicant, with copies sent to his first wife and the proposed spouse.

http://app.romm.gov.sg/internet/abou...m_polygyny.asp for more details.


If I have erred in my assessment about the practice in other countries, please accept my apology. Just trying to make sense of things especially what marriage really means at these age and day in our society.

In a nutshell, Surfer888 your supposely answer I quoted could only apply in an ideal world context I am afraid since that will never be lawful especially in Singapore.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

huh wat's tat?

Meaning married and stuck to one virgina for good.

[Derelict]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Meaning married and stuck to one virgina for good.

If you're using it please learn to spell it mate. it is vagina. Lol

Cheers