Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[aczeta76]

Ya bro otur..

Things happen so I don get deep with other PRCs

For this GF, I already plan 2 scenarios below:

1. She realli loves me and so if she is my GF, I should take care of her and spend $$ on her anyway

2. She is lying to me hence she doesn't care about my feelings SO when we break up, it wun hurt her.

Key consideration for me is "She muz be happy and not be hurt"

Like for Shan Shan, I treat her as my little sister now.

Xiao Lu, Li Wei, Wu Li are my friends whom I care for.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

For this GF, I already plan 2 scenarios below:

1. She realli loves me and so if she is my GF, I should take care of her and spend $$ on her anyway

Spend money in what ways?? Give her monthly allowance???

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Spend money in what ways?? Give her monthly allowance???

Not yet... all depends on June trip.. hahaha

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Not yet... all depends on June trip.. hahaha

If monthly allowance, she is not called gf. Should be paid companion.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by naemlo

If monthly allowance, she is not called gf. Should be paid companion.

bro..we are talking about WL here leh

[Heart Break Kid]

Just to share something

My malay colleague earning only gross salary of $1,600 a month & he is able to feed his wife (not working) & 3 kids.

To compare ... to all these greedy PRC WL asking for monthly allowance of
$2,500 to $3,000. We should not to feed all these worthless people as to encourage their lavish lifestyle.

During bad times here.. $1,000 is good enough to support a family of 4.

Phew.. only those stupid people paid those worthless Chinese whores monthly allowance to feed or provide them a good life.

I hope some people can be sensible ..don't feed all these trashes.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

bro..we are talking about WL here leh

What is the different leh?? WL can also find a decent job and get salary end of the month and live decent life by herself. I find it crazy to give monthly allowance to so called gf and let the gf shake leg at home and only meet her once in awhile. Aren't this more like paid companion???

[i_12_have_fun]

Rather than go to Shenyang and take a risk, u might as well detour to Shanghai and try to get a OL there. Since u are willing to spend that amt of money anyway, might as well make use of the opportunity to bag someone of non-wl status. Do not think it will be difficult if u can afford the time. Plus, there is a lot of female to choose from and very much prettier. U stand a better chance of a relationship with a OL with very much less risk since language is also not a barrier.

Of all things, why settle for less? Cannot understand the rationale even with 'love' involved.

[i_12_have_fun]

To share my personal experience, i have a 23 yrs old shanghainese girlfriend who is a OL. Bagged her as a vrigin and till now have not committed a single cent. So having a relationship there is possible. I travel a lot for work (various countries and twice for SH only last yr) and so we are maintaining a 'long distance' relationship. How i know she is true......she does not have any personal details abt me, save for my mobile num. Now that is taking a risk, for her but not me. i can end it anytime i want without much to worry abt

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Just to share something

My malay colleague earning only gross salary of $1,600 a month & he is able to feed his wife (not working) & 3 kids.

To compare ... to all these greedy PRC WL asking for monthly allowance of
$2,500 to $3,000. We should not to feed all these worthless people as to encourage their lavish lifestyle.

During bad times here.. $1,000 is good enough to support a family of 4.

Phew.. only those stupid people paid those worthless Chinese whores monthly allowance to feed or provide them a good life.

I hope some people can be sensible ..don't feed all these trashes.

I know.. so I dun do it yet... till I go to ZH and see her

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by i_12_have_fun

How i know she is true......she does not have any personal details abt me, save for my mobile num. Now that is taking a risk, for her but not me. i can end it anytime i want without much to worry abt

Looking at another angle, maybe she dun bother...

[i_12_have_fun]

Still a win-win situation for me. Mitigate the risk but reap the benefits.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by i_12_have_fun

Rather than go to Shenyang and take a risk, u might as well detour to Shanghai and try to get a OL there. Since u are willing to spend that amt of money anyway, might as well make use of the opportunity to bag someone of non-wl status. Do not think it will be difficult if u can afford the time. Plus, there is a lot of female to choose from and very much prettier. U stand a better chance of a relationship with a OL with very much less risk since language is also not a barrier.

Of all things, why settle for less? Cannot understand the rationale even with 'love' involved.

Thanks for nice offer, I am set in going there already just finding a way to past by each day with answering to the urge of needing to rush down to GL to see her everyday till I go on trip with her.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Bro, not true here lah..

I actually broke up with my SG GF for this girl and she knows about it.

Key thing is my heart told me it was rite and she is still very young so I am giving her 2 years to mature and see if we have a future together.

WL or not... when feelings come, you cannot lie to yourself

I'm confused now.... bro aczeta76 and azzaro23, are you two the same person? I tot I'm replying to azzaro23 - the TS?

Anyway, u broke up with you SG GF for a PRC WL?!?

Ok, you could be the 1% lucky fellow, but still it's an up-hill/mountain life ahead. "Having a future together" is but just a point in the timeline where both are certain you wanna be together; it's just the foot of that hill or mountain, imho.

Well, as long as your love can fuel it, maybe should be ok lor...

[aczeta76]

No lah... I tink I still slightly in better shape than TS.

Haiz... see how whether our love can fuel it lah

My local GF still hoping I will go back to her