Wife don't like sex

[Tazz]

Yest my wife wear tshirt wt braless n a strawberry panty at Hme walk ard...my bb gal is ard so abit hard to ask her...I was only wear short wt boxer,due to I train abit wt abit muscle but she seem not interested...then we went back rm to watch tv wt my gal.then I more clear n closer to her,sometime she didn't notice I was peeping her panty n smooth butt n big tits of her.I bio tahan but still cannot.maybe when my gal nt ard then I will ask her...I thk she got shaved again...

[lonely_12kev]

To all bro, only to said woman once married think they can have their way with hubby. Only when they need they want u to give if not u go PCC urself. So guys if we can't find happiness at home, go find outside lor. But dun forget to wash mouth before go home.

[decove]

To the guys in this thread, you are not alone.

My Story.

Married with 2 kids for 5 years.

Reasons for her rejecting sex,

1. scare of getting pregnant again?! (WTF, I used condom she still scare?)
2. Tired from work
3. Stress from work

Sometimes I finger her to orgasm then end of story full stop.

When I asked sex from her, she will say why is my whole mind occupied with SEX and nothing else. I had to tell her that she should be glad at least I show interest in her and not at other women outside.

She can stay up late surfing facebook, updating mummies forum. Ask her for sex after kids asleep, she also don't want.

Ask her what will happen if I have gf outside, she says she will castrate me. KNN...

She always uses the kids and work as excuses to push it away.

However, when at times we are doing it, she is very satisfied with it and she says damn song. But I ask her why she never initiate sex, her reply was she's lazy!

Sigh..

[TickTock]

Originally Posted by Muffbandit

Same here and the D letter word got no effect on my wife. Mentioned to her once, gees what she said. Be my guest! I already got my daughters so I dun need u anymore. So fucking sad rite!

Whoa lol!!! Thats quite funny man...

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by decove

To the guys in this thread, you are not alone.

My Story.

Married with 2 kids for 5 years.

Reasons for her rejecting sex,

1. scare of getting pregnant again?! (WTF, I used condom she still scare?)
2. Tired from work
3. Stress from work

Sometimes I finger her to orgasm then end of story full stop.

When I asked sex from her, she will say why is my whole mind occupied with SEX and nothing else. I had to tell her that she should be glad at least I show interest in her and not at other women outside.

She can stay up late surfing facebook, updating mummies forum. Ask her for sex after kids asleep, she also don't want.

Ask her what will happen if I have gf outside, she says she will castrate me. KNN...

She always uses the kids and work as excuses to push it away.

However, when at times we are doing it, she is very satisfied with it and she says damn song. But I ask her why she never initiate sex, her reply was she's lazy!

Sigh..

guess your wife wants quality sex and not quantity sex.

[samyboys]

in short, most of the married guys sex life drops drastically after marriage, esp with kids.

somehow i also feel both parties not that willing to sit down and discuss as well.
too used to their own world

[hotsoup16]

Add me to this club. Maybe for a start, we should give a name tom this club

[justcurious29]

Originally Posted by blk437

I am having the same problem as TS. I had not have any physical contact and sex with my wife for 1 year and 3 months. I have been D.I.Y all the way till now and do not have the courage to eat out.

I have quarrel with my wife many times regarding this issue and everytime she kept silent. I never suspect she is eating duck meat or anything because she is always busy with 2 kids and work.

And also sharing this problem with bros here doesn't mean i need extra justification to eat out. I am sure there are more couples experiencing sexless marriage with some unknown reason.

Those with the same problem or had experienced on this issue can share with us your valuable opinions?

I think such things happened to most marriages...As a man, we should take initiatives to spice up the sex life....communicate with your wife about your needs...for me....I always remind my wife that we won't stay young to enjoy sex...she agreed.....we have much better sex than before....to the point that she may have the urge to eat out....

[hsbc]

Originally Posted by Ah Goo

Any bro has this experience?

I wanted to stop the FL activities. But wife don't like to have sex. Don't even let me touch.

Have to find somewhere to release, so got to find other girls.

So have you tried the Germany Sex Drops I recommend you???

[Hytronic]

My scenario same as all the bros… after married for 7 years & 2 kids… I literally have to beg her welfare.. strictly on FRI & SAT or SUN… NO weekdays only twice a week. The rejection same excuse as all he Bros OC.. Tired lar, watch her IPAD drama or sleep.. on weekdays. WTF… sometimes better to eat out.. pay and forget it.

[analog]

Bro decove:

"When I asked sex from her, she will say why is my whole mind occupied with SEX and nothing else. I had to tell her that she should be glad at least I show interest in her and not at other women outside."

Same conversation with my wife except I had already had enough. I was blunt, told her the ENTIRE REASON i got married in the first place was sex. I wanted the same lover all the time, its that simple. And if she didn't want to be my lover, she had to go. Then crying, kids, etc.... you know how these discussions go. But, I also when through our marriage vows and pointed out how the frilly language actually boils down to "CONSENTS TO AND AGREES TO HAVE SEX WITH...". There are two ways to break marriage vows:
1. Have sex with someone other than your spouse,
2. Refuse to have sex with your spouse.

Both of those are the same, there is no difference.

"Ask her what will happen if I have gf outside, she says she will castrate me. KNN..."

Yes, typical. Don't threaten about FL, threaten about divorce and the fact that it will be granted if she refuses to fuck. The law is very clear, husband and wife MUST consent to have sex.

There are no quick solutions for this stuff especially when daddy is trying to keep the family together. I just wish these bitches would look at life a bit from our perspective.

Try and stay happy bro.

Cheers,
jim

[analog]

Originally Posted by Hytronic

My scenario same as all the bros… after married for 7 years & 2 kids… I literally have to beg her welfare.. strictly on FRI & SAT or SUN… NO weekdays only twice a week. The rejection same excuse as all he Bros OC.. Tired lar, watch her IPAD drama or sleep.. on weekdays. WTF… sometimes better to eat out.. pay and forget it.

Bro Hytronic:

Twice a week!!!! Fuck man, you're in heaven and you don't even know it.

my wife watches all those cantonese crap videos as well.

Shit..

Life lah.

Jim

[analog]

Hey Bros:

As a general comment, you can sure tell which bros are married with kids when reading the responses.

For example, "you should sit down and talk, try and communicate....."

For fuck sakes, would all you kids with all the advice just fuck off! you think the bros in these situations haven't tried all that metrasexual crap? Sheese...

Cheers,
jim

[ilove2cim]

All you guys are lucky..... I have sex like for once in a month! We are only married for like 2 years with a kid! Every time PCC damn sian one lor...... Actually come to think of it I think my sex drive is dying also...

[Lefegordon]

Mi have the same problem. Wife Alway tired and can have sex only on friday saturday or sunday. After her period, must rest fro 10 days. Do not get me wrong, wife got mood only one of these days. Nowaday Have to count myself lucky to have one fuck a month..