Advise please

[Si Geena]

Originally Posted by Mean Boy

Bro Si Geena,

Hope everything is fine for both of you.
Wish you all the best, Good Luck...

Thanks! I'm back and very pleased with the outcome of my trip. Family made me bring back box of mangoes and local produce to share with my family. And she gave me some buddhist bead thing that's housed in a transparent bottle.

She told me to place it in a high place, i.e., the house altar, and asked that I place fragrant flowers next to it. Any idea what this actually does? She explained a bit but I'm not a religious person, so I'm kinda lost. Something about how it will increase in size over time or change colour. It's important to her that I observe her piety so any help would be much thanked.

[NobleEagle]

its a show of respect by putting at high place as you are not on the same level jus the same as going to temple or church you dun pray down but up towards them unless exception for some gods like "Tu Di Gong", Tiger God etc...

flowers are signs of your appreciation and caring for the gods back in return for their blessings n protection over us...its very common to see flowers hanging in the cars as well as places and homes in thailand...in singapore you will see more often r flowers placed on the altars in temples n offerings too

if you really want to know wat type of amulet she gave you n wat it is for, you could take a pic and put in tis thread, bros will advise you.

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[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

One thing I don't understand, though, is - I know she likes me, but I'll never understand why she said no when I asked her to be my girl.

After my latest trip, I finally know now.

She's been lying to me all this while. She has a boyfriend all along and she has been waiting for him for the past 2 years. He's not able to be with her right now, but she promised him she will wait patiently until he returns. That is why she was never able to fully commit to me in any sort of relationship. It all makes sense now.

Oh and just to round it all off nicely, she has a kid with him. Her daughter is 3 years old this year.

I could have slapped her and stormed right off. I could have verbally abused her and promised never to step back into the Land of Smiles again. But funnily enough, I was calm. It was almost a relief to hear the truth. She told me she wanted to tell me the truth for the longest time and it killed her for hiding this from me. She didn't want to tell me this at all because she just didn't want me to stop coming back to see her again - she only told me everything because I threatened to walk away for good (I had enough of her stand-off attitude and told her in no uncertain terms that either she come clean or never hear from me again). There was a lot of crying - from both sides. I'm pretty sure her tears are real.

The trip ended the best possible way - we fucked a lot and she promised me she will consider me strongly. One week after I left Bangkok, we talked about it in detail and she chose me over him. I promised her I will marry her and bring her to Singapore, and the next time I'm over I will meet her parents. She's over the moon with the fact that someone would even consider accepting her for who she was, together with a daughter that isn't mine to begin with. Of course I'm lying. The plan is to become the player now - I want her to suffer emotionally as much as I did. I don't know if what I'm doing will be right, but to be honest I don't really care now. It will be nice to meet her parents, members of her family, paint her this beautiful picture of how I'm going to take care of her for life then dump her when she has nothing left to hold on to. She's going to tell her boyfriend that she met someone new (ie, me) soon.

Not all men get played in Thailand. Sometimes the men bite back.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

After my latest trip, I finally know now.

She's been lying to me all this while. She has a boyfriend all along and she has been waiting for him for the past 2 years. He's not able to be with her right now, but she promised him she will wait patiently until he returns. That is why she was never able to fully commit to me in any sort of relationship. It all makes sense now.

Oh and just to round it all off nicely, she has a kid with him. Her daughter is 3 years old this year.

I could have slapped her and stormed right off. I could have verbally abused her and promised never to step back into the Land of Smiles again. But funnily enough, I was calm. It was almost a relief to hear the truth. She told me she wanted to tell me the truth for the longest time and it killed her for hiding this from me. She didn't want to tell me this at all because she just didn't want me to stop coming back to see her again - she only told me everything because I threatened to walk away for good (I had enough of her stand-off attitude and told her in no uncertain terms that either she come clean or never hear from me again). There was a lot of crying - from both sides. I'm pretty sure her tears are real.

The trip ended the best possible way - we fucked a lot and she promised me she will consider me strongly. One week after I left Bangkok, we talked about it in detail and she chose me over him. I promised her I will marry her and bring her to Singapore, and the next time I'm over I will meet her parents. She's over the moon with the fact that someone would even consider accepting her for who she was, together with a daughter that isn't mine to begin with. Of course I'm lying. The plan is to become the player now - I want her to suffer emotionally as much as I did. I don't know if what I'm doing will be right, but to be honest I don't really care now. It will be nice to meet her parents, members of her family, paint her this beautiful picture of how I'm going to take care of her for life then dump her when she has nothing left to hold on to. She's going to tell her boyfriend that she met someone new (ie, me) soon.

Not all men get played in Thailand. Sometimes the men bite back.

bro charmaine .... i'm glad that u have realise the truth and she have been honest and open to u now ...
but what u r planning to do is very childish and foolish ...

let it go, bro .... everyone suffer in a relationship ...
sometimes, it's never really abt who is right or wrong ....

getting revenge is not a wise thing .. nothing is achieve eventually ...
for her as well as to u ..
ur heart and mind will never be in peace if u hold this vengeance ...
let it go ....

there r many places in this world we can go to and enjoy ...
why waste ur energy, time, money and effort on something that's negative and hurting ??

move on ... and u'll be a much happier person than before ...

[NobleEagle]

Bro Charmaine, be a man and walk away, there are many fishes in the ocean still.

What she did was not wrong and she has kept her option open, all girls will do that until she has found a right man stable enuf for her to settle down with. Any girls tat are not married are free to see whoever guys they choose to, you must understand tis.

You must understand your culture and beliefs is totally diff. from Thai cultures and beliefs more so esp. for Thai girls. To them there are no binding restriction on seeing or dating whomever as long as they are not married yet, thus porbably why she stills sees you while waiting for tat someone, you cant be mad or angry with her esp. since she is not married to you and you and her are so far apart. So far what she can only see is words from your mouth and your frequent visits which EVERYONE is doing, have you shown her anything diff. for her to consider tat you really wants to settle down with her? To her, last thing on her mind is to have a boyfriend tat doesnt have a future to be together in the future and besides, she still has her kids to worry abt, to you is only a boyfriend girlfriend status tat you are her only man...is tat reasonable to her in the first place? You cant demand anything from her until ur married and she has the right to slowly choose whomever to be with and whom to settle down...be mature and understanding to this aspect.

By doing wat u intend to do not only hurt her for no reason but is totally childish and degrading not only for her but most importantly for urself. Dont do it.

[sstand]

Agree with adidas88. Let the force of nature and karma take over. u may appear to have won and taken revenge for the moment but u never know what may come next or befall next. If u believe in karma, the force of nature will run it's natural course in a matter of time.

Learn to let go and be happy. It may not be easy but once u can do it u'll be a happier man. Understand the pain u have been through but letting go is part of the healing process

Originally Posted by adidas88

bro charmaine .... i'm glad that u have realise the truth and she have been honest and open to u now ...
but what u r planning to do is very childish and foolish ...

let it go, bro .... everyone suffer in a relationship ...
sometimes, it's never really abt who is right or wrong ....

getting revenge is not a wise thing .. nothing is achieve eventually ...
for her as well as to u ..
ur heart and mind will never be in peace if u hold this vengeance ...
let it go ....

there r many places in this world we can go to and enjoy ...
why waste ur energy, time, money and effort on something that's negative and hurting ??

move on ... and u'll be a much happier person than before ...

[Charmaine]

Thank you for your wake-up calls.

You're absolutely right. I don't know what I was thinking. I shall move on.

[Playman]

Originally Posted by adidas88

bro charmaine .... i'm glad that u have realise the truth and she have been honest and open to u now ...
but what u r planning to do is very childish and foolish ...

let it go, bro .... everyone suffer in a relationship ...
sometimes, it's never really abt who is right or wrong ....

getting revenge is not a wise thing .. nothing is achieve eventually ...
for her as well as to u ..
ur heart and mind will never be in peace if u hold this vengeance ...
let it go ....

there r many places in this world we can go to and enjoy ...
why waste ur energy, time, money and effort on something that's negative and hurting ??

move on ... and u'll be a much happier person than before ...

Originally Posted by NobleEagle

Bro Charmaine, be a man and walk away, there are many fishes in the ocean still.

What she did was not wrong and she has kept her option open, all girls will do that until she has found a right man stable enuf for her to settle down with. Any girls tat are not married are free to see whoever guys they choose to, you must understand tis.

You must understand your culture and beliefs is totally diff. from Thai cultures and beliefs more so esp. for Thai girls. To them there are no binding restriction on seeing or dating whomever as long as they are not married yet, thus porbably why she stills sees you while waiting for tat someone, you cant be mad or angry with her esp. since she is not married to you and you and her are so far apart. So far what she can only see is words from your mouth and your frequent visits which EVERYONE is doing, have you shown her anything diff. for her to consider tat you really wants to settle down with her? To her, last thing on her mind is to have a boyfriend tat doesnt have a future to be together in the future and besides, she still has her kids to worry abt, to you is only a boyfriend girlfriend status tat you are her only man...is tat reasonable to her in the first place? You cant demand anything from her until ur married and she has the right to slowly choose whomever to be with and whom to settle down...be mature and understanding to this aspect.

By doing wat u intend to do not only hurt her for no reason but is totally childish and degrading not only for her but most importantly for urself. Dont do it.

Originally Posted by sstand

Agree with adidas88. Let the force of nature and karma take over. u may appear to have won and taken revenge for the moment but u never know what may come next or befall next. If u believe in karma, the force of nature will run it's natural course in a matter of time.

Learn to let go and be happy. It may not be easy but once u can do it u'll be a happier man. Understand the pain u have been through but letting go is part of the healing process

Fully agrees with you people, if he is going to do what he intent to do then the next person she meet is a dead meat as she distrust man and will hate them and will slowly play out all the men she is going to meet in the future....that is why some girl are so cold towards men with hard cold feeling....after talking to them...is that they have been cheated far too many time until they got no more "warm" hearts to go anymore! ( For my own experience) Like you people says..."revenge"

Tell her the truth and walk off like a man.........!

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by sstand

Agree with adidas88. Let the force of nature and karma take over. u may appear to have won and taken revenge for the moment but u never know what may come next or befall next. If u believe in karma, the force of nature will run it's natural course in a matter of time.

Learn to let go and be happy. It may not be easy but once u can do it u'll be a happier man. Understand the pain u have been through but letting go is part of the healing process

bro charmaine ... the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. U can't go on well in life until u let go of ur past failures and heartaches ...
3 things in life that can destroy a person:
Pride, Greed and Anger ...

[NobleEagle]

Originally Posted by adidas88

bro charmaine ... the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. U can't go on well in life until u let go of ur past failures and heartaches ...
3 things in life that can destroy a person:
Pride, Greed and Anger ...

Haha Bro Charmaine, follow Shifu Playman to BKK next month or join me and my friends in Nov and i assure you all the 3 things will be forgotten completely

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by NobleEagle

Haha Bro Charmaine, follow Shifu Playman to BKK next month or join me and my friends in Nov and i assure you all the 3 things will be forgotten completely

hahaha ... bro charmaine ... after u join bro nobleeagle and bro playman to BKK ... join me to PRC ... and i assure u these 3 things ...
you will forget what's ur surname; bkk and that woman ....

[NobleEagle]

Originally Posted by adidas88

hahaha ... bro charmaine ... after u join bro nobleeagle and bro playman to BKK ... join me to PRC ... and i assure u these 3 things ...
you will forget what's ur surname; bkk and that woman ....

Hahaha then i wont be surpise if you see other girls come here posting abt Bro Charmaine instead liao hehe

[Mr fucker]

Surprised this thread is being revived after such a long period. Good to be remembered as Bkk Resident. Bro Noble eagle when are u starting your new work?

[Mr fucker]

Bro, since u revive the thread u ought to spend some time reading from page one. whatever it is i wish u all the bests.. The road is long, Bkk Resident and Cei Resident will know.

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Time to revive the classic sadfuck thread with an updated dose of "Charmaine-nism"!

I called her on Saturday night after work - she didn't pick up.

I left her alone on Sunday but texted her a fresh serial number again on Monday morning (I assume she ran out of credits again); no reply. I texted her again later that day. No reply.

I texted her on Tuesday afternoon and there was no reply. I called her just after work (around 5pm Bangkok time where she should be getting ready for work at home); she didn't pick up.

Cue a million worries and worst-case senarios in my mind; I texted her an urgent "Are you alright? Don't make me worry." No response.

I called her on Wednesday afternoon; there was no response. Just when I was about to assume she either lost her mobile phone or got into a serious accident, I texted her a last desperate time. A while later I finally heard from her - from a foreign number.

"No credit. Can you give me the serial number again? I lost it."

It dawned upon me that she was ignoring me all this while. I was furious. I texted her a very angry response (something along the lines of "Do you really think I'm stupid? If you have another man just tell me. No need to hide anymore"); she flipped too and texted back angry replies ("You are always calling at the wrong time. We have talked about this before. Don't play games with me").

I've already made plans to see her in a few days, with air tickets booked and everything. But right now all I want to do is to bitch-slap her and make sure she's sorry for being so nonchalant about everything that's happened.

My dear friends, is she hiding another man?

[NobleEagle]

Originally Posted by Mr fucker

Surprised this thread is being revived after such a long period. Good to be remembered as Bkk Resident. Bro Noble eagle when are u starting your new work?

Haha hello there is tat u CeiResident?