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#2446
31-10-2008, 09:02 AM
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Re: Advise please
Hey CeiResident,
Why would you want to get hooked up with an FL again? I'm sure we can find some girls who are not in the trade as well. Wouldn't that be alot easier to proceed in a relationship? My tirak ever asked, if only we had met before she started on this line... It's one of those questions, for which we can always have the luxury of asking, but never truly knowing.
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#2447
31-10-2008, 09:05 AM
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#2448
31-10-2008, 10:59 AM
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and if i have not met u .. u will not be asking this question " ...
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#2449
31-10-2008, 11:13 AM
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Good question bro...
Like they said all wells that ends wells. Once the wound heals, all is forgotten....but before u know it, it hurt again.....the same old injury, the same old pain. When's all is said and done, there is no such things as the end. Does that answer your query, just dun wan to ruin another innocent soul again bro, perhaps its due to my lifestyle.... U have my blessings bro.. After reading all the posts asking advice on relationships with WLs ... just want to share my 2 cents on that and the whole the "Matters of the Heart" Section in general ... IF you believe everything u read in SBF you're jus screwing urself ... Practice some discretion in the tons of good intentioned but generic advice you want to follow IF you have to ask it here just to reinforce your decision ... simply just means you're not cut out for this sort of shit and have a 90% chance of screwing yourself ONLY you know the situation best ... why the hell would you think that anyone else here (people who sure as hell would not know you much less have interacted with you) would know it any better than you Quote:
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#2450
31-10-2008, 11:16 AM
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I think your tirak would be scolding u this everyday... "gung-teen na tirak"...
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#2451
31-10-2008, 11:30 AM
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.... well, i am telling the true facts here ....one shld really asked himself ... "how and where do i get to know my tirak" .. Quote:
A true friend will see you through when others see that you are thorough.
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#2452
31-10-2008, 11:55 AM
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That Time..
Confession of the day.. That time of the day. The moment you open your eyes. Do you dread this moment? Work. Colleagues with nothing better to do but gossip and back stab. Seniors with nothing better to do but bully. I fear neither. I fear bumping into people I know while working. It almost always happens. That time of the week. Weekends. I've never appreciate weekends before flying. I started hating jobs with irregular hours. I hate having to work while the people I know are sleeping or partying. Now that I'm a free spirit, I'm still burning it WITH MUCH LESSER PAY but of cos no risk of my life. At least I don't have to clear pools of urine 30 feet above ground on my weekends. Weekends are priceless. I still have my weekends but no one to spend it with. That time of the month. I see red but I can't stop it. I hate the monthly blemishes. I hate my beer belly, thus making me look pregnant. My worst fear is someone giving up their seat to me on a crowded train. Submitting inflight report. Reprimanded for not doing paperwork properly. Someone put a finishing touch and claimed they did it ALL for me. C'mon. I'm employed for doing serving not administration. Stop talking to me as if my IQ is only 65. Payday. I don't remember the time I remind people "It's payday!". I was either informed the pay is in or I see a larger figure via ATM after cash redrawal. I'm not making big bucks. I'm not looking forward to buy something expensive which require a whole month's pay. The miserable amount won't make much difference in my life anyway. No point getting excited over it. The time of the year. You start wondering if you're still on track with your new year resolution and what you have achieved. Not that I have any. No resolution nothing achieved??!! That time of your life you thought you could love no other. When you see the other person again after a few years, you wondered, "What did I see in him/her?" It's ok. There will be at least once in your life you Kenna gong tao ( got cursed). Who hasn't? That time you thought you're going to have great sex. How often do we end up disappointed? 4 inch was bad enough. 7 inch couldn't make you cum. A guy's dick is like a pair of woman's shoes. Some works fine. Some hurts. Some will be cast aside after a few times. Of cos there's a pair you'll want to wear forever. The perfect fit? (Mine's perfect) That time I attended a wedding AGAIN. I don't even know why I was invited and I don't know why I bother to turn up with a fat ang pow (red packet) loaded with cash too. Chinese wedding dinners are so BORING... The usual wedding march, the yum seng, cutting of a fake cake and taking of photographs. My table was right behind a big fat pillar. I wouldn't be able to describe it if I hadn't requested the waiters to shift the table. Quote:
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#2453
31-10-2008, 12:13 PM
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Dissatisfaction comes when our attention shifts from what we have to what we don't have. It's not what you dream of doing .. It's having the knowledge to do it. It's not the goal you set .. It's what you need to achieve it. It's not how high you want to rise .. It's knowing how to take off. It's not where you want to go .. It's knowing how to get there. It's not what you want in life .. It's knowing how to reach it.
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#2454
31-10-2008, 01:16 PM
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If one got perfect fit, it's nirvana But 1 thing I know, making love with some1 with affections beats transactional sex.
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#2455
31-10-2008, 03:57 PM
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Bro Cei....sometimes....true frens will give us a kick in the butt to tell us its time to get up....look around...take a deep breath and realise tat life owes us SHIT.... ...then its time for us to keep our chin up...move on and overcome watever the issues are one step at a time....I think its time for nme to go back to SG to give u tat much needed kick in the butt (or balls) if need it... See ya soon Bro... Chin Up my Fren... LMP
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#2456
31-10-2008, 04:14 PM
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#2457
31-10-2008, 06:59 PM
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To the bro who PMs me for advise.. Just my 5 baht worth...
When you are stressed out, or suffering from a love affair breakdown, or just feeling plain lonely, a smile from a beautiful stranger tends to lift your spirits up. When she moves closer to you without any inhibitions, plant kisses on you, it seems all your care and worries disappears as you respond in kind to her warm embraces, finding comfort in her hug. When she whispers ' I love you', your mind zooms to the highest heavens, leaving your sense of logic far behind, lost in the apparant magical power of a self perception of love, hearing words you had desperately always wanted to hear. You choose to believe and even do your utmost to convince yourself that it is all real, even if you have only $30 left in your pocket, ugly, with a pockmarked bald headed face and a bulging beer belly. Assuming that you had a lucky strike with love, you showered her with everything within your means, even borrowed some, when she so much as utter a request through her lovely lips. 'Kah Ching!!!', the jackpot machine in her mind sounds off quietly. Another fool entwined within her 'Kan Ching' web. An assured ATM (auto teller machine), a salary made within 20mins which takes her countrymen a month of toil and sweat to earn. Wake up bro. True love does not come easy. Pub goers are mainly adults and each adult would have found been in love before, or at least have a perception of what love is. In your eyes, that ktv girl is only an image of what you seek or hope to find. A physical reality but only of your fantasy. Use your common sense, which girl will ever say ' I love you' within 5 secs of meeting you, without even knowing who and what you are? True love takes time to develope, a total physical and emotional journey of exploration of each other to find if there are qualities each may admire to take them both exclusively into old age together. But love within 5 secs? Friendship perhaps, but love? Absurd. It is understandable that we all have our emotional weakness and needs, even if we are mentally and physically strong. Being human, we need to be loved and the comfort it brings to our lonely individualistic lives. Ktv/WL/FL/FB's love is nothing more than an illusion to fulfilled that need Mcdonald style, and needs to be treated as what it truly is - an illusion. In such moments of weakness, it is therapatic to escape into this illusion for that fantasy becomes a reality in the form of her presence. It keeps us sane for without even a reality to our fantasies, our lives will be wasted living and chasing forever an illusion that may never come true, getting wilder as each day passes, losing our sanity finally or forcing our natural urge upon unsuspecting unwilling partners. Treat that ktv girl as you had always fantasize love about - care and concern for her and being loved in return. Make love to her even and find comfort in her, for she is a willing party to your dream. But in the end, when you see the sparkle in her eyes and the wide grin on her face as she accepts the money from you for her time and efforts, let it be the wake up call for you that the illusion has ended. You will need to move on with your life in reality, for illusions only brings emptiness, like dreams that disappears with the mist when the sun rises... Dont even bother to take her phone number, for she is not the one you seek or the next. Your true love cannot be found in this manner within dreams and fantasies. Your true love is already living in your mind, the someone you had lost or else it would be a friend either waiting to be found or is already found but you did not look closer to let that friendship develop into love.....
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Free from desire, u realize the mystery. Caught in desire, u only see the manifestations. In lust we trust.....
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#2458
31-10-2008, 07:04 PM
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Depressed? i am not qualified to feel it that way bro... Perhaps suffering from hangover since i flew back to work here i would think of my 'her'. strange but ironic perhaps there isnt anymore substitutes unlike in krungthep. just went pubbing wif frenz at a thai joint yesterday wasnt even interested to talk to thos thai coyotes at all... Instead i was so bemused on how hard up those fishermans in the disco was.. its always entertaining to see them hang tons of flowers to the singers and one carrothead even change $200 into $10 bill and staple it to form a garland to present it into a singer... With the kind of money they spend here i think u would be treated like a king in krunfthep...
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#2459
31-10-2008, 07:07 PM
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Wah bro chak me so d..
for me i love the challenge in finding affections in transactional sex..[QUOTE=yinyang;3192535]CR, excuse my butting in. Couldn't help noticing from your earlier posts that you seem to be such a poet musing on life.. almost philosophical on r/s. Now you sound low (as adidas pointed out). Don't mind me, just a bystander in this forum. If one got perfect fit, it's nirvana But 1 thing I know, making love with some1 with affections beats transactional sex.[/QUOTE]
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Free from desire, u realize the mystery. Caught in desire, u only see the manifestations. In lust we trust.....
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#2460
31-10-2008, 07:09 PM
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i am depleted of sperm recently bro..
Thats why i need that amulet to replace the lost locket.. get me a good one na... i laid red carpet for u ok... first blood on mona dun give kelvin leh u ask mona who she like lor.. sure gana me wan haha..Quote:
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Free from desire, u realize the mystery. Caught in desire, u only see the manifestations. In lust we trust.....
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