Advise please

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by adidas88

dun liddat said lar ... me backup u mah ...

cold beer in BKK or PRC ??

KNN, SiBeh haolian sia, u know i am grounded here u suan me sia so bad nia, making me so gian now...


Confession of the day..

人之初 In the beginning
性本善 Sex is good
性相近 Basically, sex are all the same
习相远 But it depends on how the way you do it
苟不教 If you do not practise all the time
性乃迁 Sex will leave you
教之道 The way of mastering it
贵以专 Is very important to make love with only one person
昔孟母 Once a great mum, Mrs Meng
择邻处 Chose her neighbour to avoid bad sex influence
子不学 If you don learn hard
断机揉 Your dick becomes useless
窦燕山 Dou the famous
有义方 Owned an effective medicine
教五子 All his five sons took it
名俱扬 And their sexual ability were well-known
养不教 If your children don't know how to do it
父之过 It is your fault
教不严 If you are not strict when teaching
师之惰 Their teacher must be too lazy to teach them the details
子不学 If you refuse to learn
非所宜 It is a real mistake, because
幼不学 Your children will refuse to learn too
老何为 You will lose your ability when you're old...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

When r u treating me to cold beer bro, always chak me sia haha..

When u want to collect your KP?? I going again....

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

KNN, SiBeh haolian sia, u know i am grounded here u suan me sia so bad nia, making me so gian now...

u r grounded ??? ..
i thought this onli happen to 16 yrs old kid ....

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by adidas88

u r grounded ??? ..
i thought this onli happen to 16 yrs old kid ....

Love is blind, they say. But if there's one thing that restores clear vision, it's living with someone day-in, day-out. Nothing like that to topple a lover off their pedestal and expose their flaws, right? Well, sometimes not it seems. The idealised view of a partner doesn't always disappear when the early throes of passion have passed.

In the first flush of love, we almost all gloss over our partner's faults. But researchers studying married couples have found that in the happiest marriages, this overrating habit continues – in fact it's the glue that keeps these couples together over time.

These are spouses who tend not to notice their partners' shortcomings and recall only the good times in their relationship. This positive spin seems to not only keep them content, it's also good for their health. Spouses who see things this way have less chronic disease.

While the experts are still exploring exactly what's going on, the heart of the issue might be the way these couples approach conflict. When they have a dispute, they talk about the issue in a calm, rational way and listen to each other's point of view. This might mean they have less exposure to stress hormones, which are known to be associated with illnesses like heart disease.

Whether you can learn to see your partner as nicer than he or she really is, isn't known. In the couples studied, it happens unconsciously and has nothing to do with gender, religion, education or socio-economic background. But personality features, like being easy-going might make you more likely to idealise things.

Interestingly, the habit need exist in only one partner, for the effects to be seen. So if you don't tend to wear rose-tinted glasses yourself, at least choose a partner who does.

The Resident..

[Si Geena]

ฟ้าจรดทราย

I like this image. It literally means the horizon, (Sky-touch-sand). Sometimes, I feel me and her are like that, we seem to be 2 parts that look to touch each other, but no matter how far we go, we'll never touch, or be with each other. It's after all an illusion.

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by Si Geena

ฟ้าจรดทราย

I like this image. It literally means the horizon, (Sky-touch-sand). Sometimes, I feel me and her are like that, we seem to be 2 parts that look to touch each other, but no matter how far we go, we'll never touch, or be with each other. It's after all an illusion.

What Image??? wah bro so poetic suddenly sia.... u are physically together with her so its no illusion..

[Si Geena]

You must have confused me with another bro. I'm in Singapore, she's in Thailand. I do a once every 2 months visit.

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

Love is blind, they say. But if there's one thing that restores clear vision, it's living with someone day-in, day-out. Nothing like that to topple a lover off their pedestal and expose their flaws, right? Well, sometimes not it seems. The idealised view of a partner doesn't always disappear when the early throes of passion have passed.

In the first flush of love, we almost all gloss over our partner's faults. But researchers studying married couples have found that in the happiest marriages, this overrating habit continues – in fact it's the glue that keeps these couples together over time.

These are spouses who tend not to notice their partners' shortcomings and recall only the good times in their relationship. This positive spin seems to not only keep them content, it's also good for their health. Spouses who see things this way have less chronic disease.

While the experts are still exploring exactly what's going on, the heart of the issue might be the way these couples approach conflict. When they have a dispute, they talk about the issue in a calm, rational way and listen to each other's point of view. This might mean they have less exposure to stress hormones, which are known to be associated with illnesses like heart disease.

Whether you can learn to see your partner as nicer than he or she really is, isn't known. In the couples studied, it happens unconsciously and has nothing to do with gender, religion, education or socio-economic background. But personality features, like being easy-going might make you more likely to idealise things.

Interestingly, the habit need exist in only one partner, for the effects to be seen. So if you don't tend to wear rose-tinted glasses yourself, at least choose a partner who does.

The Resident..

Instead of focusing on looking for the right partner,
Focused on being the right partner.

The happiest people do not necessarily have the best of all.
They simple appreciate what they find on their way.

[CeiResident]

It has been 5 years... yes 5 long years. Somehow I feel that you are still here with me. We have been through so much, the ups and downs, the good and bad and ultimately it has helped me grow as a person. Many a times I look back at our journey together and where it has brought us. My greatest regret is that I have unknowingly hurt you deeply. If I was given a chance to turn back time, I would have it done all so differently. Nevertheless, memories that we have shared will always remain deep within me. The following is extracted from a quote and is dedicated to you...

People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

Lifetime relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person (anyway) and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life...

Like an angel God-sent to me, we knew our hearts both struck a chord. All our memorable times chatting, and caring for each other. Where did that spark come from, we never knew. All we could taste is our affection and desire to be with each other. If only desire was spelled as "r e a l i t y", I wouldn't be writing this now.

How I wish I am that man, to tuck you in bed and kiss you good night? How I wish I am that man to embrace you, keeping you warm at night? How I wish I am that man, looking at your beautiful face when the sun shines? How I wish I am that man, who brings you breakfast even if you drive? How I wish I am that man, to slip that ring on your finger as my precious prize?

Perhaps, this is what they call a wish. Perhaps, this is what I know as wishful thinking. I lost you, not because I cheated on you. I lost you, not because I wasn't real and true. The bitter disappointment will be here to last, even if we are being torn apart. Are you rushing? Or am I late? I guess, this will be a mystery for the rest of my life.

As I watched you fade away, all my hopes and aspirations burn to ash. What if I had been just that little earlier to make that dash? Would there be any chance that you would change your mind?

I am missing you this very minute. I wish I could love you, but you're not there.

Chok Dee na wherever u are now i hope u can be much happier than u were previously with me...

[Si Geena]

In line with the tone of this thread... Let us listen to a bit of old skool rock



Carabao, Mae Sai

คาราบาว แม่สาย

[CeiResident]

最远的距离不是从台北到纽约，而是当两个人在一起，但她不知道我爱她.....

There once was a genuine relationship placed before me, but i didnt cherish it, now i remourse & regret that its vanished, nothing can be more tormenting beyond this lost....... if heaven were to grant me another shot at it, i'd profess my love, telling her I Love Her. And if there'd be a time frame to be set upon the relationship, i wish it would be for 10'000 yrs! "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" ... Our day will come. If we just wait a while. No tears for us. Think love and wear a smile. Remember i used to whisper it to u over the phone when we were apart guess its has all became memories of the past.

I have been browsing thru the pages of the classic Woes of a Tirak thread. It truly shows that despite the respite & all the moment of our horniess, foolishness & irresponsible acts to our previous or current beloved ones that we have hurt, we shared & confessed in writings deep down from our heart within.

For some, the pure naivety costs some of our brothers to pay a very heavy price with broken ending of no return. I read with lots of heartfelt & heavy words that these are emotions of regretfulness from all the various contributors. This is absolute a great way of letting all out by writing as most man do not share our inner struggles even with our closest buddies due to our pride. However, the good thing I see here is that the thoughts of repent & seeking of forgiveness is something I'm proud of to all the brudders here.

Like God ever says, only for those who sincerely repent from all their sins can admit to heaven.

Kudos to all of you.....even the toughest lion heart from a man have its soft spot.


I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

~Alfred Tennyson - 1850

[takefive1937]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

最远的距离不是从台北到纽约，而是当两个人在一起，但她不知道我爱她.....

There once was a genuine relationship placed before me, but i didnt cherish it, now i remourse & regret that its vanished, nothing can be more tormenting beyond this lost....... if heaven were to grant me another shot at it, i'd profess my love, telling her I Love Her. And if there'd be a time frame to be set upon the relationship, i wish it would be for 10'000 yrs! "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" ... Our day will come. If we just wait a while. No tears for us. Think love and wear a smile. Remember i used to whisper it to u over the phone when we were apart guess its has all became memories of the past.

I have been browsing thru the pages of the classic Woes of a Tirak thread. It truly shows that despite the respite & all the moment of our horniess, foolishness & irresponsible acts to our previous or current beloved ones that we have hurt, we shared & confessed in writings deep down from our heart within.

For some, the pure naivety costs some of our brothers to pay a very heavy price with broken ending of no return. I read with lots of heartfelt & heavy words that these are emotions of regretfulness from all the various contributors. This is absolute a great way of letting all out by writing as most man do not share our inner struggles even with our closest buddies due to our pride. However, the good thing I see here is that the thoughts of repent & seeking of forgiveness is something I'm proud of to all the brudders here.

Like God ever says, only for those who sincerely repent from all their sins can admit to heaven.

Kudos to all of you.....even the toughest lion heart from a man have its soft spot.


I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

~Alfred Tennyson - 1850

bro,me same.......Try to thinkin....LAST timmme

[takefive1937]

Originally Posted by Si Geena

In line with the tone of this thread... Let us listen to a bit of old skool rock



Carabao, Mae Sai

คาราบาว แม่สาย

Bto Si Geena,Thanks Q for d song

Happi happi

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by CeiResident

最远的距离不是从台北到纽约，而是当两个人在一起，但她不知道我爱她.....

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.

I asked for strength and God gave me difficulties to make me strong.
I asked for wisdom and God gave me problems to solve.
I asked for prosperity and God gave me intelligence and muscle to work.
I asked for courage and God gave me obstacles to overcome.
I asked for love and God put people with problems in my path for me to help.
I didn't get exactly what i asked,
But i received all that i needed.

[CeiResident]

Originally Posted by adidas88

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.

I asked for strength and God gave me difficulties to make me strong.
I asked for wisdom and God gave me problems to solve.
I asked for prosperity and God gave me intelligence and muscle to work.
I asked for courage and God gave me obstacles to overcome.
I asked for love and God put people with problems in my path for me to help.
I didn't get exactly what i asked,
But i received all that i needed.

Pastor adidas, in PRC now right? chok dee na.....