Going out with KTV girls.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Come back to Viet land I will show u the way.

hehehhe... okie... since u insist, when u free to show me ard....

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

hehehhe... okie... since u insist, when u free to show me ard....

This week confirm free cos oversea trip cancel.

[alsahaf]

Like the passing of a sudden rain, its over as abruptly as it began.

I got kicked....sigh..... feel sad.

Shall have fond memories.

[Van Basten]

Originally Posted by alsahaf

Like the passing of a sudden rain, its over as abruptly as it began.

I got kicked....sigh..... feel sad.

Shall have fond memories.

wat happened bro? dont worry... like wat the bros here advise, this almost always happens with china girls cheer up... care to share more of yr story?

[alsahaf]

Originally Posted by Van Basten

wat happened bro? dont worry... like wat the bros here advise, this almost always happens with china girls cheer up... care to share more of yr story?

Don't know why. She just stopped it without giving reason. I don't want to push her for the reason. She either got bored of me, or got another guy, or didnt want to get too close.

Originally Posted by alsahaf

Like the passing of a sudden rain, its over as abruptly as it began.

I got kicked....sigh..... feel sad.

Shall have fond memories.

Take it as an experience and carry on life... there is no end to chionging... this is just the beginning.

Cheerz Mate

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by alsahaf

Don't know why. She just stopped it without giving reason. I don't want to push her for the reason. She either got bored of me, or got another guy, or didnt want to get too close.

jus move on, there are many gals up there.....

[sgmjplayer]

gd if you can forget it. Knowing the reasons may not be a gd thing.

Originally Posted by alsahaf

Don't know why. She just stopped it without giving reason. I don't want to push her for the reason. She either got bored of me, or got another guy, or didnt want to get too close.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by alsahaf

Don't know why. She just stopped it without giving reason. I don't want to push her for the reason. She either got bored of me, or got another guy, or didnt want to get too close.

bro whatever the reason, important thing is u come out of it with your pockets still intact. sometime better not to know the real reason.

scarly u call her and show concern and want to bonk her, she start sucking money from u. then in a moment of weakness, u give money. if she calls u 4 bonk again, go for it loh. anyway u do not have a gam cheng thing with her, so forget it lah. who knows, mayb she go back home already?

bro, feel better lah, i up your rep pts liao. sorrie cannot afford a bottle 4 u.

[mahalosux]

after reading about this, i feel like penning down wat happen to me during the past 2 days. pls bear wif me a bit. few weeks ago, my former PRC gf called me to ask me to raise 1500 RMB for her. the actual amt though not very big, but it's not small either as wif tat amt, i can do alot of things, such as paying my hp and credit card bills. i was hesitating and told her, i will try my best. but in actual fact, i wan to reply her a straight 'NO'! 2 days ago, i jus recieve my salary, she noe my payday, so she start sms me askin me whether i had remit the $. i din reply, i m still in a big dilema. i wanted to give her the $, but my mind tell me tat this is no the rite thing to do. bro, who had read my previous posts, know tat i had spent almost 30k SGD on this gal, and whenever she call me, it is about $ and whenever i call her, she will find it bothersome. yesterday, i was having a medical appt, while waiting for 3 solid hrs for my turn, my mind is still pondering on this matter. after thinkin for 3 solid hrs, i make up my mind and tell myself, this is it! no more remittance for her. after i walk out from the med center, i recieve 2 sms from her, askin me whether i had remit, i chose not to reply. this morning she sms me again, askin me about the money, i told her tat i unable to give her, as i hv a lot of 'debts' to clear, her reply is 'forget it! since u dun give me $ i will go indonesia and work instead'. i din reply, and i guess this will be the last time i will be hearing from her. i, myself dun feel good, and my heart is very heavy, as i m typing this post. i feel tat i m cruel, but at the same time, i m feeling sorry for myself. y? because of her, i hav been living miserably, unable to spoil myself wif luxury lifestyle and living like a beggar. as my fren told me, watever i earn, always end up wif her, pls spare a tot for yourself'

well moral of story is i tink i make the 'right move' but it is very hard for me, as i hv displayed 'cruelty' to a gal i luv for 1.5 yr.

[sadfa]

bro, my 1 cent advice is dont give her anymore. why she need the 1.5 k rmb for? i thot she took the money from u to start a small business there?

1. u may luv her, but does she luv u? if luv, got ask u to pay her for dates and bonking 1 meh? or she only treat u as mhs bank overdraft? dun need to pay back? she only pester u cos of money right? she call u lao gong, but in her heart and action to her family, got like that or not? or just call to make u feel shiok only? i hate charbor who use emotional blackmail.

2. u give her money, she got appreciate or not? what did she give or show u in return?

bro, sometimes u must decide and stick to your guns. u give her more than enuff already. move on lah.

[Looksee]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

well moral of story is i tink i make the 'right move' but it is very hard for me, as i hv displayed 'cruelty' to a gal i luv for 1.5 yr.

Bro

I'm not here to comment whether what u did is right or wrong. Please go with your head rather than your heart, although it's tough because relationships are very emotional.

I just want to share this with you:

1. Take a step back and look at the issue.

2. What would you do or say to your best friend if he is the one facing this issue.

Take care!

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

after reading about this, i feel like penning down wat happen to me during the past 2 days. pls bear wif me a bit. few weeks ago, my former PRC gf called me to ask me to raise 1500 RMB for her. the actual amt though not very big, but it's not small either as wif tat amt, i can do alot of things, such as paying my hp and credit card bills. i was hesitating and told her, i will try my best. but in actual fact, i wan to reply her a straight 'NO'! 2 days ago, i jus recieve my salary, she noe my payday, so she start sms me askin me whether i had remit the $. i din reply, i m still in a big dilema. i wanted to give her the $, but my mind tell me tat this is no the rite thing to do. bro, who had read my previous posts, know tat i had spent almost 30k SGD on this gal, and whenever she call me, it is about $ and whenever i call her, she will find it bothersome. yesterday, i was having a medical appt, while waiting for 3 solid hrs for my turn, my mind is still pondering on this matter. after thinkin for 3 solid hrs, i make up my mind and tell myself, this is it! no more remittance for her. after i walk out from the med center, i recieve 2 sms from her, askin me whether i had remit, i chose not to reply. this morning she sms me again, askin me about the money, i told her tat i unable to give her, as i hv a lot of 'debts' to clear, her reply is 'forget it! since u dun give me $ i will go indonesia and work instead'. i din reply, and i guess this will be the last time i will be hearing from her. i, myself dun feel good, and my heart is very heavy, as i m typing this post. i feel tat i m cruel, but at the same time, i m feeling sorry for myself. y? because of her, i hav been living miserably, unable to spoil myself wif luxury lifestyle and living like a beggar. as my fren told me, watever i earn, always end up wif her, pls spare a tot for yourself'

well moral of story is i tink i make the 'right move' but it is very hard for me, as i hv displayed 'cruelty' to a gal i luv for 1.5 yr.

Bro as I always say, in this cheonging scene, it's pay n fcuk off. I had these experience b4. When they need u, they will talk nicely to u, but when they dun need u, they find talking to us annoying. I guess all these shits is called education. We learnt n dun repeat the mistake again.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by sadfa

bro, my 1 cent advice is dont give her anymore. why she need the 1.5 k rmb for? i thot she took the money from u to start a small business there?

1. u may luv her, but does she luv u? if luv, got ask u to pay her for dates and bonking 1 meh? or she only treat u as mhs bank overdraft? dun need to pay back? she only pester u cos of money right? she call u lao gong, but in her heart and action to her family, got like that or not? or just call to make u feel shiok only? i hate charbor who use emotional blackmail.

2. u give her money, she got appreciate or not? what did she give or show u in return?

bro, sometimes u must decide and stick to your guns. u give her more than enuff already. move on lah.

bro, because of the abv advice and wat a lot of people had told me, therefore i make the abv move. yes, i felt not 'good', but by giving her the $, i felt worse. sometimes, this type of thing, must hv a full stop and after some thoughts about how she treated me, i tink she dun deserve all the good stuff i hav splashed on her. but anyway, bro thanks for ur advice!

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by Looksee

Bro

I'm not here to comment whether what u did is right or wrong. Please go with your head rather than your heart, although it's tough because relationships are very emotional.

I just want to share this with you:

1. Take a step back and look at the issue.

2. What would you do or say to your best friend if he is the one facing this issue.

Take care!

u r rite... actually in this type of issues there's nothing tat is technically wrong or rite, but the oni rite thing to do is do wat u feel is rite. by giving her $, i oni make my life miserable, y should i continued to live such a lifestyle, and missing out all the good things. anyway thanks for ur concern, bro.