Woman offers but man refuses

[colins]

wondergal, if you need a male friend to tell you what you females are so damn capable of doing, something is wrong with either your six sense or your good 'man friend' who is clearly clouding your head with his banana note theory.

Only 小人 would want to inject doubts into your relationship in order to lead you to his conclusion, possibly to further his own ends or just doing it out of habit.

If you are in doubt, go ask your bf/hubby. Who else can tell you the real reason? If you can't even communicate with him on such matters, then perhaps he should be seeking another who could.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by colins

wondergal, if you need a male friend to tell you what you females are so damn capable of doing, something is wrong with either your six sense or your good 'man friend' who is clearly clouding your head with his banana note theory.

Only 小人 would want to inject doubts into your relationship in order to lead you to his conclusion, possibly to further his own ends or just doing it out of habit.

If you are in doubt, go ask your bf/hubby. Who else can tell you the real reason? If you can't even communicate with him on such matters, then perhaps he should be seeking another who could.

Ha ...

Bro colins ... me agree with you ... that "man friend" is very likely to have a hidden agenda. Scores of incident when gfs were fell "prey" by such 小人 then regretted.

Do watch out Sis wondergal

[colins]

Originally Posted by see see only

Ha ...

Bro colins ... me agree with you ... that "man friend" is very likely to have a hidden agenda. Scores of incident when gfs were fell "prey" by such 小人 then regretted.

Do watch out Sis wondergal

Yeah man, here is some reference and you can see striking similarities between the man friend and the so called 小人.

小人虽然难辨，但毕竟小人有许多特点，我们可以从以下特征来辨析：
1．小人口蜜腹剑
2．小人重己轻人　　
3．小人谣言惑众
4．小人大话欺人
and ESPECIALLY these
5．小人“八喜”
　　（1）喜欢造谣生事：他们的造谣生事都另有目的，并不是以造谣生事为乐。
　　（2）喜欢挑拨离间：为了某种目的，他们可以用离间法，挑拨同事间的感情，制造他们的不合，好从中取利 。
　　（3）喜欢拍马奉承：这种人虽不一定是小人，但这种人很容易因为受上司所宠，而在上司面前说别人坏的话 。
　　（4）喜欢阳奉阴违：这种行为代表他们这种人的行事风格，因此待你也可能表里不一，这也是小人行径的一 种。
　　（5）喜欢“西瓜倚大边”：谁得势就依附谁，谁失势就抛弃谁。
　　（6）喜欢踩着别人的鲜血前进：也就是利用你为其开路，而你的牺牲他们是不在乎的。
　　（7）喜欢落井下石：只要有人跌倒，他们会追上来再补一脚。
　　（8）喜欢找替死鬼：明明自己有错却死不承认，硬要找个人来背罪。

Hope this helps.

[dirtbag_26]

Originally Posted by MrGreen

Until today, I am torn from feeling "SHIT I SHOULD HAVE ACCEPTED" and "Glad I did that, I am loyal to my wife (then GF)" But I am more inclined to "SHIT...."

Originally Posted by Apple&Orange

ya you are rite~~you idiot!!!!

Tats what i did too~~

hahahahaha .....

bros ,i hear before a lot of story from friend ,from colleague,and i 100% can confirm that EVERY MAN WHO EVER TURN DOWN something like dis ALWAYS REGRET IT

ALWAYS

[dirtbag_26]

Originally Posted by creaminbread

I would agree to that point i guess.
My cousin was in a relationship with this girl and she has been opening hinting him about the need, but my cousin didn't accept it as he thinks its still too early for that.
In the end the relationship ended and within a month she was attached to another guy. The shocking thing was that she was going to get married because she was pregnant and they have been together for only 2/3 months.

a lot of girl just like to get fuck

that is why the JAV where the girl say "no!no! dont want!" is RUBBISH

a lot of girl WANT TO BE FUCKING

if any bro is with a girl who dont like ..... YOU ARE WITH THE WRONG GIRL

[Saviourflame]

Good for you to reject the advance of the free sex
Married guy especially with child should be loyal and faithful to their partner regardless of what temptations.
My friend married with children always say her wife not beautiful lousy in bed and cannot bbbj or whatever.
Then he involved in ktv,fl Or whatever sex that involved money.As his friend I advise him not to or if really need to then hj and pls be careful use condom!!
The fatalful day came when he called me in deep and shivering voice that he Kenna STD . it one of the nite that he had sex with the ktv gal and forget to wear condom and the best part is that the gal never refused!!
Now he scared that he pass the disease to her wife and regretted the whole cheonging and times seemed to passed very fast for him..
So pls pls think of the things u going to lose rather then the fun of sex that came with hidden daggers and knife that will mAke you regret forever!

[wondergal]

I was hoping to get an opinion but maybe didn't explain clearly. I think this thread has gone off-topic.

[ifucker]

Originally Posted by dirtbag_26

a lot of girl just like to get fuck

if any bro is with a girl who dont like ..... YOU ARE WITH THE WRONG GIRL

Totally agree, cos girls are also human beings, and they also want those feelings

Most time, "no" for girl means "yes" in talking ... If the girl says "yes yes" then the guy will most probably run away fast (fl/commercial sex scene different cos those girl just want fast $$)

[lovestar]

i reject girls b4 too cos i feel guilty cos got gf liao

[eating]

Originally Posted by lovestar

i reject girls b4 too cos i feel guilty cos got gf liao

Then you should not surf here and register here, mummy's good boy

[eating]

Originally Posted by lovestar

i reject girls b4 too cos i feel guilty cos got gf liao

Then you should not surf here and register here, mummy's good boy

[HungHubby]

i would say to a certain extend, i agreed with what ya "man friend" opinions given that he already stated most of the reasons like work, stress, health, religion and all that bull..

but then again, it aint only women that need a reason to make out, sometimes men too (maybe 1/100 times) besides, it's his very own wife ya talking about? so if he's like rejecting more than happily accepting like he ought to.. the lady ought to get the drift?

that said, i duno how well/close u and ya "man friend" are, like what the rest of the mates are saying, i do feel that he have a hidden agenda too..

[casanovano]

lady pls lar.. we also dun feel like having sex once in a while.. we are not like duracell battery which go on and on and on... or have a switch just flick it we are ready to go...
truth is there are lot more to sex to certain guys.... u need to find out more lady...

[freezetheDB]

Originally Posted by wondergal

Sorry, I should make this clearer.

My man friend was telling/advising me about how to tell if a man is losing interest with his relationship/marriage, and maybe seeing another woman for sex. His theory is, assuming that a man does not have religious restrictions, work exhaustion/stress, sexual health problems, and perhaps World Cup included, there is probably no strong reason for any healthy man to refuse sex from his wife/girlfriend.

It really depends on how the girl initate the sex.

For a typical guy,

If the lady starts off with a nice blowjob or some nice foreplay (physical initiation), most of the time the guy will not refuse if his body is ready (erected). If he is tired from work, his body may not be in tip form. If the lady is patient and encouraging, he should be able to perform with time.


but if the lady just tell the guy she wants sex and then just lie there waiting for the guy to start the ball rolling, then he might not be very keen.

[newbieboy]

When I'm with a girl for too long I take longer and longer to shoot. They think I'm getting better but I'm probably just losing interest. But men can separate sex from emotions. When I eat outside, I know when to go home, provided there's no pressure for me to stay physically faithful. To answer your question, I think rejection rate of 6/10 is high enough to start getting suspicious. Anything below that cannot be construed as breakup brink.