would you marry a girl with low sex drive?

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by turbo_slk200

One handsome bro also mentioned that it may be a emotional scar from childhood... and I strongly suspect that this is the case...[/B]

Is this handsome bro a Japanese or local?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by miak

You can't really mix low income or low sex drive together.
If you love the girl, and accept everything she is...and not what you want her to be...then yeah why not...afterall there are many things in a relationship that is more precious than "sex".
Although the sex may be boring...but still nothing beats the feeling of real love..

Sex is just an added bonus to me...

Love is the main picture.

IMHO, Bro turbo_slk200 was addressing individual's selection criteria. Some people "Key Selection Criteria" revolves around money and some on sex. Whatever romantic love's origins and purpose, we all still want to have sex and have perfectly normal levels of desire.

Originally Posted by turbo_slk200

Remember the choice is yours... whatever you choose... dun regret it ![/B]

I concur.

Making the right choice when finding true love is an important business, many factors add up to make of a desirable potential partner, sex is 1 of the factor.

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Is this handsome bro a Japanese or local?

Ha-Ha, referring to you la

[paul55ho]

TS, u tried watching those well made porn movies with ur grfd b4?

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by loster

Well, TS. I have the same scenario as you. My wife has a low sex drive. She can live without sex but not me. She also encourage me to fling around but in the end i realize that sex is not all that matters in a r/s. If have sex, then is a bonus to me. Else, just take it in ur stride since you love her.

while most guys would prefer to have the best of both worlds in fantasy but in reality, is hard to do so.
as one gets older especially for men, the sex drive tends to go downwards.
there will be a counterpoint where sex without love is something emotionally empty even though is physically appealing.

[hamsapkwai]

LOW sex drive better than No sex drive . As long as she respond to your initiations to make love nothing is so bad about that.

I would rather have a gf with low sex drive than a high sex drive. I sleep better when i am not around her some nights

[Tai_zi21]

Hi TS

Let mi ask u a very simple ques here 1st

Would u wan to marry a gal with high sex drive,fuck like a pornstar,allow u to cim or even cof?

BUT with poor attitude,do not know how to respect ppl,lousy attitude,not truthful GF?

[Epix]

maybe can try a sex therapist if you really want to try to do everything you can ? I mean, from what you post, you do not desire, at the current moment at least, want to eat outside. So going to a therapist maybe a good options.

[Erick]

When you talk about marriage, it is about home and stability, care and warmth. If you truly feel that she can be a good wife, go for it. I know I would. Tho I won't deny that if she really does not want to do it, pcc for me or make love, I will definitely have to seek my release outside.

[burningicez]

Originally Posted by bulldog1234

Hi bros...my first post here would like to hear some serious advice or experience.

My current Gf has seriously low sex drive, I will get either sex or BJ once a week and each time it is the very boring fuck and get over with kind. she complains that penetration is too painful for her and tat to her sex is more like a chore. But she got hint to me la...if i wan to "eat outside" she don't mind, just dont let her noe and practise safe sex. Other than this issue she would be a real ideal wife material and i truly love her too

Recently it has gotten to be quite frustrating and pek cek to be doing it to a dead fish...to the extent that i wonder if i'll truly be happy with someone like tat and also whether will she truly be happy with me nt becos she really detest sex. I'm still very much sexually active kind...I'm 28 this year and she's 26.

Not sure if I should commit long term (marry) her. Any bros with experience can help me out here...appreciate any advise

Confirm she will be a faithful wife.

I dont mind being an unfaithful husband while still taking good care of the family.

[V|ernar]

I rather have a low sex drive wife , sex will became a chore for you too , if you facing the same woman for some years . I not young Anymore , sleep is very important to me ! Hehe

[lovetorn]

judging from what you typed, your gf is quite open-minded. i know i will definitely never allow my future husband to 'eat' outside, even if he keeps it safe and under control. perhaps some of the bros here who know me, might find it hard to believe, but now my sex drive is low. super low, not like before. i don't know what caused my sex drive to dip but it's actually kind of a good thing. except when my bf wants sex but i totally don't feel the urge to.

if you truly love her, you won't mind her low sex drive. love me, love my dog etc. (typical answer, i know) however, are you sure she won't mind you straying outside as time goes by? what if one day she decides enough is enough and brings it all up? women are fickle-minded. now i kind of prefer a guy who isn't all about sex, doesn't have a high sex drive. weird i know.

anyway, the choice is yours. we can give you our views here but ultimately, you are the one who is going to marry her. think it through thoroughly.

[see see only]

Once told by my ex-FB (married)

She said her hubby complained she low sex drive but when with me ... she can blow my little head out, in return i serviced her as well and sometime she even request for 2 times in one session.

So i teased her on why her hubby said she low sex drive, and she feedback to me that her hubby do not know how to make love and each session is like ....

--- kiss kiss a bit, open leg, shoot, wash up ... FULL STOP (she did not even come once with him)


So sorry TS, ... me hope that you do not fall into the above cat. .... as great sex need both hands to clap

[middleday]

hi bulldog1234

as a few bros here mentioned, love is most important and i agree lo

low sex drive not a problem,

just like her hint, eat outside but NEVER EVER let her find out lo... and ALWAYS DENY YOU EVER EAT OUTSIDE!!! tell her she is only woman for you and never want anyone else!

coz its like u really love her and u think she is ideal wife material... low sex drive is small matter in the long term marriage relationship...

as long as u do her once a week/month or watever time u feel she will not suspect u eat outside ok liao la

all the best to your future plans

[deelite825]

bro, if i am in ur shoes, i will marry her the next second.

[Coeus]

If you are sure that she will be a good house maker and a good wife, except for the sex part, go ahead. Sex just settle outside and be cautious. Or over time, slowly and slowly, bit by bit, arouse her and make her more receptive.

And again, marry her if you are certain she is the ideal wife type.