I quit from now

[Skypiea]

Originally Posted by alan0338

gd for u TS for quitting the scene....dun come back anymore bye bye, happy new year

Bro Alan, when are you free so we can go check up together

[Oh yes]

I also want to quit, but after awhile, come back again

[sea321]

i agree that the girl been selected by the OKT is not that pretty . maybe only 1 to 2 from each OKT girl that is beauiful maybe find some friend to chit chat or find a girlfriend

[Greg]

There are so many types, girls in SBF D1,2 and 3, ktv girls, HC girls, streetwalkers, legal houses. How you quit ? I think it is all in the nature and also money in pocket.

[astrozz]

Seems that you have a high sex drive, can you quit ? no sex , no DIY ? I doubt la . DIY is one way to reduce your frequency of visiting FL , too much of course is not good for body , but if you want to quit FL and also dont want to DIY, its gonna be tough , impossible may be .

Find a hobby to occupy your time , may be it'll help , but got to "release" once in a while . Good luck to you bro.

[yitiaolong]

few years back, most of my deal was from fl2. now fl2 become like fl1...sad
recently i kena few times very bad services and quality also drop, some with fake field report. maybe this is like 老李mentioned, you have to 居安思危,not to be 安逸。FL2 will be like fl1 and fl3 one day

anyway, got to look carefully in fl2 to get good fl, there are still somes.
for my case, i have divert my dick to petain for cim or local cim and thai legal wl for fj, massage lady for hj.

price is cheaper and better services.

[EatPussyToo]

Originally Posted by usmjordan2

You been around so long and still cannot tell difference betw OKT and true cheongster sharing?

I thot' I 'smart' enough, there's some TS as cheongers previously, but due to English powderful, could write exceeding well, but have now collected some money from these FLs too (informed by the FLs). These TS' points are pretty high, several hundreds, some in thousands.

Anyway, only when I cannot take it any more, then I'll visit. Else, I'll be in China, usually goes to 常平. I bet that soon 常平 will be getting more & more expensive.

BTW, up you bro. dirtyguy with 7 points.

[nosealedfate]

I up up TS and wish him all the best.... whatever it is moderation is the key...

"Hoot" too much my anaconda goes on strike and demand for OT, medical benefit at private dentist, 5 day work week, 21 days annual leave, high variable bonus apart from AWS, longer lunch hours, pension, long service award etc etc etc....

WHen I busy with work and never "hoot" pwah... Anconda on crazy... everything also steam, everything want to hoot, my ugly plumpy HR dept manager he also want!!! KNN si kwee kia....


So in anything in life there's no such thing as going for excess unless it's $$$$ lah.... best do it moderation lah.

TS, don't fret over it too much....

When you wanna come back, you just come back.... we welcome you with open arms and some with open legs.....

And remember "I love you" in a brotherly manner lah... so don't panic and don't cover your "Ka-Chng" hor!

Oi! You there stop snickering! Be mature lah

[nosealedfate]

Orh... sorlee hor forget to remind you hor that if you happen to come back for a leisurely screw... don't forget safesex practise hor....


My anaconda's safesex reminder video for you....







HUAT ARH!!!!!

[noobiedick]

Originally Posted by dirtyguy

PLS before anyone zapped me, please read 1st n if zapped pls leave nick n tell me why hor

As u can see, i m not a new member, i rarely write FRs, BUT I did fl alot, almost once per week since many many years time.....

Why quit??? Nowadays fls in here are not like those back in 2-3 yrs time, lao jiao will agree with me. Too many OKTs around even in Dome2. Girls are not as pretty, body not that good and service kinda sucks too.

I calculated roughly I have spent app. 5k over these yrs... sometimes i questioning myself does it worth it???? I can buy myself or family things which is more value in this way.....

Also health is another issue, when small head rules, I can ring up a fl middle of the nite ard 2-3 am just for a short bonking session. and next day wake up, headache, body ache....over the yrs, I also find myself very weak and face complexion not very good, cause I work shift and when in off day, I wen to bonk, then went to OT, so basically not enough rest.

I am not a smoker, now I know why it so hard for them to stop immediately. 1st day of CNY, I visited a fl and I hope I can stop all this in 2011.

So, any bros out there want to share some tips to control my urge??? I dont want pcc as it hurts body too. Exercise is good, but it wont work as I remember I finished my ippt, i straight went to visit a fl. Maybe I got a strong body but a very very weak brain to control my urge in having sex.....
kinda sex addictor like Mr Wood.

Hope I can cure this 'illness'

Gong Xi Fa Cai to all bro out there.... huat arhhhhhhhhhhh

Here's a suggestion. Go fuck spider

Don't be pissed off. You are right and I've given up FL a long time ago but now itchy again. Sigh.. men are lustful but it is in our nature. We are hard wired to ogle at things with curves and gets horny without the slightest teasing.

I'll place my bet that you won't last 3 months. We'll see you back soon enough, bro. In the meantime, enough your break.

[owl888]

TS, crave for sex is not an illness its wat makes us MAN

Oso, $5k is not a lot of money, u work out over 10 years it's only $500/year! U work hard, u reward yourself with your most immediate needs. If your top priority is sex, den juz do it! Until your priority changes in life, i think sex is still your no. 1.

How do change your life priorities? May b get married, raise a family have kids? Career change? Make yourself centre of many pretty mei meis til u have overdose of sex? Relocate overseas for career advancement?

So, my 2 cents of advice. Do think about your priorities? Do you wanna change it?

[Tension68]

First of all, there is such thing as Sex Addiction. Our once FBI agent, Fox Mulder, actor David Duchovny had such an addiction before.

But, I am not a doctor and can only advise you to seek consultation from a psychiatrist if u think u haf sex addiction.

However, having a strong sex drive can be controlled. It only takes discipline. I have friends who have strong sex drive and urges, and most of them take up very very active sports... contact sports like martial arts, muay thai or boxing.

They tell me after one solid fight or training session which involves kicking and/pr punching, they feel so drained of energy and feel tired, they can't bonk until next day.. and need rest. Of course, next day if still got urge, go train somemore.

Now 3 of the 4 who have strong urge n sex drive have very good physique and stamina. One found a sweet gal.. but olso wif a strong appetite for sex.. at the same gym. Both fuck like rabbits during weekends and are planning to marry soon. They met only last year.

So bro, u nid to find your avenue of release if u really want to stop visiting fls. Nobody can advise u the right way, cos nobody has your exact urges, physique or actual needs and wants. Try stuff like martial arts or if u don't want to exert too much, meditation or yoga. for me.. martial arts helped me contain and harness the horniness in me.. but after stopping training.. i'm like a caged animal, re-released into the wilds.

haha... take care bro.

[kenl]

Not sure what I am going to say is relevant to this thread but anyway....

Everyone senior members would agree the Sammyboy of the past (about 2 years ago and before) are the best but it is gone....confirmed gone. Back then we have many independent referrals/samsters/members (I am referring to non-OKTs) whose credibility while uncertain but strangely though most of the FLs we got from them turned out to be good and value for money. I think the spirit of care and share during then was very strong. There is no commercial benefits to gain, just pure and simple sharing of good stuffs.

These days...2 main factors contribute to the present situation which lead to many senior brothers (including the TS of this thread and me!) to lament at the state Sammyboy is in now.....

Factor 1.
Some members took advantages of the situation. They started with some good recommendation and slowly by words of mouth, many of these FLs knew and started to recommends their own friends coming to Singapore to these members. These members started to "collect" fees in return for their advertising favors for the FLs. How do we know? Simple, the FLs themselves told us. Most collect fixed fees regardless of the no. of customers referred to the FLs. Sammyboy moderators soon come to know of this situation and of course would not let these members cash-in and earn income from Sammyboy for free. So Sammyboy administration decides that they should start charging these memebers with fees. Sammyboy administration began by discreetly identifying which are genuine brothers putting up good recommendation and which are brothers cashing in on Sammyboy. Threads that are deemed to be commercially motivated are removed if they do not pay Sammboy a fees. These days almost all of such independent threads put up by non-OKT are removed as soon as they are put up, even if some are genuine recommendation. Seems that Sammyboy are not taking any chance. So many genuine brothers gave up and stop recommending good stuff.

Factor 2.
So now, whether it is FL1, 2 or 3 they are mainly dominated by OKTs. Competition among OKTS are strong. So OKTs tends to put up good FRs (regardless of the actual quality of the FLs). Ask this question - Have you ever seen a thread by OKTs that will tell you something like "honestly I am not sure about her service. I find her to be ugly but because I received referral fees, I have to put up the thread and I will leave it to you brothers to take the risk". I do not think so there is. So all threads by OKTS will surely say nice thing and FRs. This is understandable. It is therefore really up to brothers to exercise some judgment and intelligence to siphon out the genuine from the fake ones.

Okay that is all I want to say. Thank you for reading.

[SAR22]

Originally Posted by dirtyguy

Hmmm maybe I should state that I wanna quit and nothing to do with the FLs

I was a regular blood donor b4 I entered FLing.... now I think donate blood is much better than 'donate' sperm and money to Fls.

Me too. since started this expensive "hobby" (FLing), cannot go donate blood leow. Already few yrs.

I also believe it is not easy to simply put a full stop to FLing, afterall you must have been so used to life of cheonging leow. Yes, I also agree, FLing lesser and lesser, then until stop. If you can control, you can do it man Bro!

cheers!

[Coelus]

Long ago, those gold prospectors would get big bucketful of dirts and then sieve through the dirt in water to find the gold nuggets.

I believe sbf have gold nuggets, just need to be like those gold prospectors, slowly sieve. We have to just carefully observe the FRs, and sieve out the gems from the earth.