Why is it so hard to remain friends? - Page 2

asdfghjkl · #16 01-04-2005, 01:34 PM

yep.. 3 yrs ago got such a case in nus.. the girl reported rape..

JaguarLuv · #17 01-04-2005, 01:34 PM

C'mon.. The gal could not be feigning innocence when she asked a guy to go to her place becos her parents were not home. The way I see it, she was probably disappointed to know that the guy chose to act blur after realising what he had done.

#18 01-04-2005, 01:45 PM

Possible...

WWEF · #19 01-04-2005, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by young_ad

We both must have been really drunk as I cannot remember what happened except that I woke up naked next to her and there were some stains on her bedsheet.

If u are really drunk, do u think u still have the energy to have sex?
U see those ppl drunk in pubs? U kick them they also no feeling ar...Still can have sex meh.....
I think most probably are are onli high.........
The way u describe is like u wan to defend yourself by saying u are drunk....
Maybe she drunk, and u rape her leh? Come on, u have to admit u are horny, that night got alcohol anot also result same....
IMO, i think u can 4get abt her.....no chance liao...

nakamara · #20 01-04-2005, 02:03 PM

haha...at least he still remember to pull out in time...or else he might have a child too

WWEF · #21 01-04-2005, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by nakamara

haha...at least he still remember to pull out in time...or else he might have a child too

Ya lor...drunk liao still remember to pull out sia......
Maybe we can PM him for ONS contact...haha

nakamara · #22 01-04-2005, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by WWEF

Ya lor...drunk liao still remember to pull out sia......
Maybe we can PM him for ONS contact...haha

haha sorry bro...i prefer to hunt for my own ONS

easyeasy · #23 01-04-2005, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by nakamara

threadstarter oso never say his friend is virgin ma...i believe that that night she'll be too drunk to remember anything the next morning anyway so that maybe the initial awkwardness will wear off after a period of time? So what if she gets a bf over there? She's fully entitled to her freedom as she does not have the liability to be attached to you even if you bedded her b4...so if you get to find her one day, whatever the outcome would be you've gotta accept it bro and don't dwell too much into it.

I am easyeasy not meanmean, so whatever I imply is for the benefit of the bros here. whatever I say take it easy

faux · #24 01-04-2005, 06:24 PM

Maybe she feels bad about sleeping with you? She might not feel good that she had casual sex with a guy and so seeing you would remind her of what happened? Just my guess but if you do have serious feelings for the girl then you should go all out for her.

ahpaul25 · #25 01-04-2005, 06:34 PM

Bro, based from my experience, this ger must feel herself that she is cheap..... don dare to answer you....she is the 1 who horny and wan to ML.... bro, just a ques to ask u...........DO YOU LOVE HER TRUELY? if you are, give her a call and tell her I LOVE YOU, from the day we started till now, I truely miss u alot.........then you fly to Australia and find her lah...If you not......then don bother lah..........since she already upset on that nite.

tarzan69 · #26 01-04-2005, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by young_ad

We both must have been really drunk as I cannot remember what happened except that I woke up naked next to her and there were some stains on her bedsheet.

She woke up a little while after and we both didn't say anything. Maybe it was because we were embarrassed or something.

One day I got an sms from her and all she said was "sorry abt that nite".

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bro young,i know wat happened liao lah,tat nite when u were drunk,she asked her frenz to cum and raped u and she take photo

.After tat she feel 2 shame doing tis to u ......

but u really cant remember whether both of u had sez a not mah???

soccer_maniacr7 · #27 01-04-2005, 06:50 PM

is it the same when a couple brokeup after spending few yrs 2gether, been thru some storm but nw breakliao like strangers...

canary · #28 01-04-2005, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by young_ad

One day I got an sms from her and all she said was "sorry abt that nite".

And after that we totally lost touch.

So what I am wondering is, why is it so hard to remain friends?.

the fact that she sms you back that way showed that she regretted to have allowed it to happen that nite between both of you....and if your friend is not one that is into sleeping around with diff guys, she would find it hard to forgive herself?

Perhaps keeping a distance from you would be easier on her conscience. Hopefully time will ease her sense of guilt towards her action and you.

young_ad · #29 02-04-2005, 06:15 AM

no offence taken from any of the brothers comments.

firstly, she was not a virgin.. (but i dunno if she sleeps around)

and yes, Kalture did allow underaged people in, i went there when i was 16.

and she's rich and didnt mind hanging out with me even though i m not.

i m just upset that i lost someone i considered a close friend.

and flying to australia would be out of the question. i guess i will haf to wait until she comes back. if she comes back.

#30 02-04-2005, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by soccer_maniacr7

is it the same when a couple brokeup after spending few yrs 2gether, been thru some storm but nw breakliao like strangers...

dat one i duno bah.. but for me.. hmm juz went thru a breakup recently.. my gf of 6 mths left me.. u can consider 6 mths short la.. but i really love her alot.. well.. i can only say dat we are like strangers now.. almost a mth nvr msg, nv +++ le.. haiz.. saddening.. i miss her pussy.