sd pay sb to stay or to leave?

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

Seems like we thought wrong.

Didn't matter which ever it is babe. I never agree with putting a price tag on making love. Physical intimacy for me comes as a package in a relationship. I will never allow myself to be in such a scenario where I need to trade my pride for money.

[missj]

very long post but good read!

think i read somewhere either facebook, thoughtcatalog or from some posts here in sbf that some people pay so the other party will leave.

thought it was an interesting take that i didn't think of before...so wanted to ask what's the general consensus...

like insurance right, you don't pay because the plan is good, you pay to protect yourself.

Originally Posted by seabass

Why both?...

By the way, TS why do you ask the pay to stay or leave question?

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by missj

its like for fl, do you pay her for her quality or do you pay her so after enjoyment, you can ask her to leave.

i don't know...is the exchange of money like a signal of end of job?

You got to separate 2 things , payment and price tag .

Certain Quality of whore commands Certain price tag .

As for payment , yes ...you pay her to leave which is also telling her Game Over and FO. Thanks for the services rendered .

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Didn't matter which ever it is babe. I never agree with putting a price tag on making love. Physical intimacy for me comes as a package in a relationship. I will never allow myself to be in such a scenario where I need to trade my pride for money.

Totally agree .... never sell your soul to the Devil .

Whoring is betraying your body ...I cant imagine the opposite .

Imagine a sibei chui face cannot make it body pay me $$$ to screw her .....My LJ dunno got invert backwards or not ..

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

Totally agree .... never sell your soul to the Devil .

Whoring is betraying your body ..

True de. If you don't love & value yourself, who would. Esp more so for gals. I see so many young girls take the easy way out to trade their bodies for material stuff. I feel so sad for them. Just hope they feel happy with the branded items brought with $ from trading themselves. And I hope they don't live to regret when they grow up.

Fion very old fashion mindset, she wants her money earned from her own hard work, dignity and pride intact. This way she can spend with ease knowing she fully deserves whatever she buys.

[solarflare]

Originally Posted by fion.18

True de. If you don't love & value yourself, who would. Esp more so for gals. I see so many young girls take the easy way out to trade their bodies for material stuff. I feel so sad for them. Just hope they feel happy with the branded items brought with $ from trading themselves. And I hope they don't live to regret when they grow up.

Fion very old fashion mindset, she wants her money earned from her own hard work, dignity and pride intact. This way she can spend with ease knowing she fully deserves whatever she buys.

Sometimes old fashion mindset is the best!!

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by solarflare

Sometimes old fashion mindset is the best!!

Me think so too
Happy Friday to u!

[solarflare]

Originally Posted by fion.18

Me think so too
Happy Friday to u!

Happy friday to you too!! Tonight what program u having?

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by solarflare

Happy friday to you too!! Tonight what program u having?

I have a drinks date tonight.

But thinking of steamboat. Suddenly feel like it.

[AmeShin]

Originally Posted by fion.18

True de. If you don't love & value yourself, who would. Esp more so for gals. I see so many young girls take the easy way out to trade their bodies for material stuff. I feel so sad for them. Just hope they feel happy with the branded items brought with $ from trading themselves. And I hope they don't live to regret when they grow up.

Fion very old fashion mindset, she wants her money earned from her own hard work, dignity and pride intact. This way she can spend with ease knowing she fully deserves whatever she buys.

Respect you
nowadays youngsters very different liao

[solarflare]

Originally Posted by fion.18

I have a drinks date tonight.

But thinking of steamboat. Suddenly feel like it.

Wah!! Steamboat is one of the most shuang dinner/food event!!

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by solarflare

Wah!! Steamboat is one of the most shuang dinner/food event!!

Hehe, I only like it if I don't have to cook my food

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by AmeShin

Respect you
nowadays youngsters very different liao

I also youngsters laaaaa
Blessed Friday!

[xligne]

Originally Posted by missj

Hi all,

Just curious. What is the common mindset here?

Do guys fork out money for the quality of the lady, aka pay her to stay? Or to fork out money to ensure the female doesn't give any trouble, aka pay to leave?

Doesn't have to limit to sd/sb, what about those in sm/sb?

Do the mommies pay for the quality of guys or for the guy to leave at her convenience?

To me, and this is coming from a SB, sugar babies are treated as spoiled girlfriends by men who can afford to. My SD is paying me to stay, not leave. We are both refined people who have a vast amount of similar interests. Many would definitely perceive what I've done as prostitution but fact of the matter is, it is purely a mutually beneficial relationship. Many sugar babies are highly intelligent, attractive, articulate and ambitious. I, for one, excelled in school and work, hence any Tom Dick or Harry would not be able to understand my wicked humour nor feed my lust for life.

Then again, there is an inordinate differential in my arrangement and some I have come across on this site. So I would not be surprised that many men pay these SBs to leave at their convenience.

[missj]

thumbs up for your values. too bad in this dog eat dog world. not everyone of us is like that.

Originally Posted by fion.18

True de. If you don't love & value yourself, who would.

...

Fion very old fashion mindset, she wants her money earned from her own hard work, dignity and pride intact.

no hard and fast rule on who is right or wrong but i think you made a refined point here.

Originally Posted by xligne

Many sugar babies are highly intelligent, attractive, articulate and ambitious. I, for one, excelled in school and work, hence any Tom Dick or Harry would not be able to understand my wicked humour nor feed my lust for life.