31f in search of a m make out buddy

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

haha... I was thinking of that too. But she don't have to worry, there are loads of fools in shiny armour knights hoping to get into her good books.
if she has to come here to get a man, then she must be desperate...

I guess we're on par when it comes to depravity - I've gone through some of your posts. I have no time to go through many because I clearly have more life than you do. So stop being hypocritical or having double standards.

In the first place, having a need and having the courage to be upfront about it doesn't automatically makes someone desperate. And if it's the forum I'm on that makes me desperate in your books then you're the same as mentioned in above point.

You actually seem to have a good head on your shoulders based on some of the advice you've given to others here. However, I sense a lot of bitterness and arrogance and an eagerness to provoke in you. Tsk tsk.

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by blocky

good to be concise, but maybe too much requirements... such things depends on luck and fate too. just chill and enjoy the process... anyway, good luck to everyone

I know I do have quite a few requirements and it may be better to be less stringent and just go with the flow, thank you for your advice.

However, experience has taught me that regardless of what kind of relationship, and more so for such arrangements, it will be best for all parties to be on the same page in terms of expectations and commitment right from the get go. For instance, if a guy is not interested in a no-sex arrangement or companionship or regular meetups then he will know not to approach and he won't feel cheated or pressurized if we do proceed.

Also, I wasn't expecting much response for my proposal (for obvious reasons) but I was still expecting some response and the need to filter the potential candidates, setting up clear criteria just makes this process easier or I wouls have to spend a lot of time chatting and/ or meeting up with applicants whom I don't even know whom there will be any potential with or not. The 'luck and fate' part that you've mentioned only comes in at the next stage (or if you believe in real life unexpected encounters). I'm obviously not basing my decision just based on whether someone fulfils the requirements listed, there needs to be rapport and chemistry too.

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by Apollo

Good luck ts, happy searching ...

Thank you

[xtend84]

Hi, i do believe that your mailbox has been pile up.
Im 32 chinese local here, standing 178cm
Hmmm, maybe you are able to drop me back a msg?

[masterwanker]

Originally Posted by Apollo

Good luck ts, happy searching ...

You not applying ?

[AG04AG]

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

I'm relatively new here and this is the first time I'm posting so please be gentle!

I'm looking for a regular make out buddy.
I'm ONLY interested in making out (i.e. hugging, kissing, caressing, licking, rubbing, dry humping/ grinding, cuddling, NO sex). Protected oral sex MAY be considered at a later stage.
I'm comfortable with making out outdoors (e.g. park, beach, cinema, car, NO public toilets and staircases) and in hotels. Our respective homes MAY be considered at a later stage.

The make out buddy should be interested in engaging in conversations and hanging out over non-sexual activities (e.g. dinner, movies, games, sports).
I will pay my share for all expenses incurred when we meet.

I'm looking for something somewhat regular (maximum 1-2 times a week, minimum once a fortnight, a few hours each time).
I'm NOT looking for a BF but will be happy to provide the GFE if there is strong chemistry between us and the BFE is given in return. This can be discussed.

Exclusivity will not be required but will be preferred. No double standards will be entertained. Asking for empathy and honesty here.

A little about myself:

• Early 30s
• Chinese female
• 1.6m
• 53kg
• C cupper
• Rather fair
• Shoulder-length black hair
• Not bad looking, don't expect me to be gorgeous though
• English-speaking but can speak mandarin too
• Looks icy but can be very passionate

Any thing else you'd like to know about me, do drop a message here/ privately.

Criteria for make out buddy:

• Aged between 28-38
• Chinese or mixed-race with Chinese blood male (I'm not racist, just have a preference when it comes to things like this)
• Preferably 1.72m or above
• Slightly built, lean or pudgy (as long as not too muscular, too skinny or plump)
• Average or above average looking
• Preferably English-speaking and must be eloquent
• Must be presentable (e.g. takes basic care in appearance, possesses basic table manners)
• Must understand the importance of RESPECT, EMPATHY, MUTUAL BENEFIT and HONESTY in such arrangements

Realised this has gotten kinda long. If you're interested, do leave me a message.

Hi Autumnbreeze 7,

Unable to drop you a PM.

Aged: 30 (Neither old or young anymore)
Race: Chinese
Height: 1.76m
Body: Slight built (merged six countries to united nation)
Looks: I suppose average looking.
Language proficiency: English and mandarin
Respect to opposite party is very important no matter in what status of friendship/relationship. agreed to your terms and condition

[autumnbreeze7]

Hi all who are interested,

Would like to close this thread temporarily (please do not send any more pms or respond here for the time being until further updates from me here) as I have received more than enough messages to make my first round of selection. Also, I have already shortlisted a few peeps and am in the midst of replying. My inbox is almost constantly full now so messages are not getting through to me anyway, won't want you to be writing to me any your messages just keeps getting bounced back. Thank you for you time. I wish you all luck in other threads. I will post updates on here in due course.

[whoamii]

Hi Autumnbreeze7,

Saw your thread and me too are finding a similar make out buddy requirement too. Below are some details about me:

- 31 yrs old
- Chinese male
- 1.74m
- 74kg
- Normal build body
- Average look
- English and Mandarin speaking

Do hope to chat and know more about you. Look forward to your reply.

[Apollo]

Originally Posted by masterwanker

You not applying ?

not, let u young guys have more chance hehe

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

. Not sure if looking for solely companionship and making out is a new trend, I know I've been looking for this kind of arrangement for about a year else where but the experiences has been mostly disappointing so trying my luck here.

Not to worry, over here u'll be spoilt for choice, many many applicant!
Enjoy n have fun!

[whoamii]

Hi Autumnbreeze7,

I am relatively new to this forum too. Saw your thread and me too are finding a similar make out buddy requirement too. Below are some details about me:

- 31 yrs old
- Chinese male
- 1.74m
- 74kg
- Normal build body
- Average look
- English and Mandarin speaking

Do hope to chat and know more about you. Look forward to your reply.

[whoamii]

Hi Autumnbreeze7,

I am relatively new to this forum too. Saw your thread and me too are finding a similar make out buddy requirement too. Below are some details about me:

- 31 yrs old
- Chinese male
- 1.74m
- 74kg
- Normal build body
- Average look
- English and Mandarin speaking

Do hope to chat and know more about you. Look forward to your reply.

[autumnbreeze7]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Not to worry, over here u'll be spoilt for choice, many many applicant!
Enjoy n have fun!

Haha thanks, I'm threading carefully here.
No doubt, I'm getting a lot more messages than I expected.

[Turtle]

Yeah.... Have fun and play safe. Old turtle not in the league. Keke...

[acidicavex]

Oic Nevermind Maybe I have read it somewhere. Anyway maybe u want to lower your expectation hahaha I am sure there many experience bro in here that can bring u the pleasure.

Good luck in your finding of a pleasurable hanky panky partner.

Originally Posted by autumnbreeze7

Thanks!

Is there another similar thread out there? I've only been seeing people looking for sexual liaisons (FWB/ FB/ SB/ SD). But I'm really new so maybe I don't know... Not sure if looking for solely companionship and making out is a new trend, I know I've been looking for this kind of arrangement for about a year else where but the experiences has been mostly disappointing so trying my luck here.