(Worried) I just visited $$$$$$'s girl to lose virginity

[yeeteck]

hope you are safe TS, go for checkup if worry

[IAmAwesome]

TS i think you are just over worrying, you should be okay

[heartkorr]

dont overthink it....

[colinfrancis]

chance to get it is very low right unless you super unlucky

[drjones]

chill man, no point fretting so much when everything is premature now

[nicta]

don't think too much ts, most likely you are just overthinking. wait like a month and if nothing grows or what LOL, you should be fine. if really v scared, go check up. but take this as a learning point, big head must take over small head whenever u chiong, rule number 1, at least for me

[miguela]

very well said and fully agreed with this bro

[Cronin]

Stds dont have a 100% transmission rate, or even close! Don't worry, if you cleaned up well after you have a good shot of being ok. Just observe for any symptoms and take it easy in the meantime.

[yenhua]

Originally Posted by Curiousboy93

I had unprotected blowjob and protected sex with her. I regret deeply about the unprotected bj but that that time, my mind was taken over by lust.

I know there are probably some similar threads but would you kind souls help me and answer me here instead. Too stressed to go find and read.

What do I need to do now? Any tests I should go for? HIV/STD/STI tests?
What symptoms do I need to look out for?
Do I need to check for STD/STI before any symptoms show?
How long till I am fully in the clear? and can stop worrying?

I went home to bathe in dettol, gargled listerine. Peed out.

I am never doing this again omg.

HAHAHA just relax.

You should be fine.

[cyrenaic]

i enjoy geylang bbbj regularly without much worry. (though i never french. imagine how many dicks go in there every day)

tell you what. most STIs are asymptomatic. many are treatable easily.

herpes is also very often asymptomatic, and it is VERY common. heck, you might even have it already, passed down from your parents.

don't worry so much about herpes, sex ed teachers and Wikipedia only shows the scariest pictures. herpes is only a problem if you get frequent outbreaks. talk to your doctor if this is the case.

HIV is the real jialat one, but condoms are very effective in preventing HIV transmissions. if you're still concerned, hire only legal girls in geylang. last HIV-positive case there is many years ago.

[IAmReallyNotGay]

Originally Posted by cyrenaic

herpes is only a problem if you get frequent outbreaks

This is very true actually

[Satos43]

Honestly bro, I know how you feel but really, don't worry too much about it.

HIV risk itself is very very low while other STI's, there is a chance because you did BBBJ.

The highest risk though is that you let your phobia dominate you affecting your mental health. Take it from me, I have been there and it's not fun.

Now, I occasionally still enjoy myself but always use protection.