Rather cheat than marry...

[Agos]

If they have intention to cheat, after getting marriage it may be worse as they may openly ask for more money to buy land and build house in China. More Damage.

Worse still even when filing for divorce still got to support her. So caution is the word about marrying.

Just my 2-cent of suggestions.

[LeDivorcee]

Most PRC who come here are mainly for the purpose of making money, either with their corporate skills or with their pussy skills. Very few and in between PRC girls are willing to lead a quiet life here in Singapore. They feel it is too restrictive. As for $ face, I beg to difer. There are a lot of PRC girls out there who really want to make a mark here. However, the ultimate target is either go back to PRC as a rich person or somehow manage to skip to USA where they think the road is paved with gold. My advise, go for PRC girls for the sake of fun. Don't intend to make it permanent. Only do so at your own risk...

[Lord Imperious]

Originally Posted by Acidman

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

Simple, marry a local and you got to slave away for him living on an average income. Cheat him of his money and return to china you become a rich person with your PRC beau. Also, how much can they trust you to marry you?

[~|@|~]

remember most of them are here to earn money... thats it

[Acidman]

Originally Posted by Castrol

it seems like a no brainer, but unfortunately many of them want to have something more after being more familiar with the spore way of life.

What is more than having somebody to take care of you forever. Unless of course they are not confident that will happen.

[Acidman]

Originally Posted by Lord Imperious

Simple, marry a local and you got to slave away for him living on an average income. Cheat him of his money and return to china you become a rich person with your PRC beau. Also, how much can they trust you to marry you?

That's where their economics fail I guess. Let's say you have a above average income. By staying with you all the way their life will surely be better. The money they cheat sure will used up one what. They are only in their early 20's still have 50 more years to go man.

[Niceman]

hi Acidman...
Let me guess you are in ur early 20s. No offence , but i think u r tooooooooo naive. Any PRC ger can sweet talk u and u most probably will give her all ur saving.

Most, NOT ALL, i say again, NOT ALL, are here to make quick bucks and convert to RMB and go home be kings and queens. Being here, they are still average. Gone back, their lives and livelihood will change, drastically... go china and see for yourself.

Is about experiences. If u dun experience yourself, is hard for us to explain also. Be there and done that.

Is just like frog in a the well, if u dun jump out of the well, no matter how others explain or describe, you still will believe that the sky in your eyes is only that big.

[西门吹雪]

Originally Posted by Acidman

Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

no offence bro, this is only what you think or at least, you like to think that it's this way. obviously, prc's do not.

read some remarks from some chinese sites:
为何要被拘泥在新加坡这样弹丸的地方？
新加坡吃虧的地方在於它不在美國，結果引來國人心底的歧視(現在中國人很厲害，等閒日本、英法之流都看不上 ，何況新加坡彈丸之地).

[Niceman]

WestDoorBlowSnow Bro.

Ya man... u r right...Sillypore land is such a small piece of cake... no wonder alot of bros gone China to work.

[西门吹雪]

Originally Posted by Niceman

WestDoorBlowSnow

so many 4-letter words?

just joking, england version is Simon Blowsnow.

[tomvoyeur]

Originally Posted by Acidman

What is more than having somebody to take care of you forever. Unless of course they are not confident that will happen.

How confident can u be of forever marriage nowadays???

Originally Posted by Acidman

That's where their economics fail I guess. Let's say you have a above average income. By staying with you all the way their life will surely be better. The money they cheat sure will used up one what. They are only in their early 20's still have 50 more years to go man.

Would u accept a promise of an above average income for the rest of ur live or b given the flexibility to job hop n shoulder the downside of the risk as well?? If u accept the former, then u r risk-adverse while the chinese r generally more risk-taking as their economy grows exponentially....On a separate note, if u r content on being above average for the rest of ur life, then u r likely to lose out on the rat race very soon.......

[Acidman]

I'm saying from the PRCs prospective. Their youth is only a few years how much money they make will also use up one day right?

[Saltiga]

all, every single of them are here purely for money but there will be some who got caught in a emotional relationship locally, they're human just like all of us, they do fall in love when the someone whom they felt sincere enough touch their heart but majority of them will hold back their feeling just so that they can make more money while at the same time thinking to themselves why/how would anyone loves them wholeheartedly given that they got to know each other at place where loves shouldn't have started, (even we doubt them if they tells us that they loves us, don't we?) was once told by a PRC gal that any reasonable looking PRC gal got had almost a new guy courting them everyday they are in Singapore, some offer to buy them lunch, bring them shopping, show them around, fetch them to & fro work..etc, so ultimately it makes them think how could there be so much true love in Singapore? so it does makes sense for them to make "Robert" out of some of those whom gave them the chances to be a "Robert"..

[soberguy]

Originally Posted by Acidman

I'm saying from the PRCs prospective. Their youth is only a few years how much money they make will also use up one day right?

If they can realise that, they probably won't attempt to cheat too. Bro, are you falling for a PRC or too KC with one liao?


There are 2 perspective. One from the PRC woman and one from the Sg guy.

PRC woman: Marry you, they got to find a job and help share in contributing the mortgage. If they dun, the guy pay more, and less money to spend too. UNless they guy is really rich and can give her like at least 5k a month to spend and go back to CHina 4 times a year (each trip cost 15k). While not many guys can afford that, they rather cheat, take the money and go back to China. Once and for all. Beside, they speak no english and definitely don't like to be stupid in situation where they have to speak english.

SG Guy: Marry them, you got to consider if you can afford the mortgage alone. Technically, you will be downgraded as they don't have CPF. They may have cash from the FL job, but that is theirs and probably pay for their house in PRC. Marry them, you probably work like a dog too since you have to pay and support them and to the never ending demands. Of course there are good ones but not easy to find, definitely not much from the FL, rite? If married, they probably want to go back to China (see it from your grandparent, uncles etc where in olden days, they die die want to go back to China), and you end up divorce and pay alimony. End up poorer too.

[Acidman]

I'm too KC with one now. I know the easy answer is sober up and don't fall deeper into the trap. Anyway I'm still trying to stay sober and see if it's worth it. My prc girl scared I bluff her and don't dare to commit. Can see that she is very troubled. Afraid after all the sacrifice she made in the end comes to nothing.

So I also don't know in the end she will want to marry me or not. She hardly ask me for money. Actually I'm also getting quite tired to assure her I'm true to her. She always check my handphone and ask me lots of question. What happens in the end remains to be seen.