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Re: Do you prefer to marry a PRC, M'sian, Thai, Indo, Viet, others or our local girl
Thanks for sharing your experience. Luckily for me, my experience is different from yours. In my experience, many Singaporean girls would quickily want to know how much the guy earns, and this could even be from the first meeting. Many Singaporean girls are materialistic, have unrealistic expectations of how much their potential boyfriends or husbands should earn, and also look down on those guys who don't earn enough from their viewpoint. Personally, I find this atrocious. Many Singaporean girls place too much importance on how much their potential boyfriens or husbands, and even their dates, earn.
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Re: Do you prefer to marry a PRC, M'sian, Thai, Indo, Viet, others or our local girl
Actually bro, whats the matter with asking how much you earn? What do you expect them to find out? Think about what you want them to know about you instead, then, do a little exercise and look into the criteria that bro stanely huang listed.
A lot of us go for looks first, then gfe, then earning power, then whatever. How about girls? Looks like they're doing the same. I agree with you, being judged with what we earn is disgusting and atrocious. So can we blame them? No, we can't blame each other, I guess. Its not how much we earn that we are not comfortable sharing, it's how we are being judged. Whether I earn 1k a month or 10k a month, I still dun like my friend to look into my wallet and tell me I'm best friend or not. But bro, the truth is, we are being judged everyday by every new person we meet. If you get uptight over somebody's judgement of you, then you'll get nothing but sorrow, cos everybody likes to think that he/she is greater than you. On the other hand, once you know your value and you are confident in it, you can tell people, come and judge me. But the key is, again, here. If you judge yourself and your own value with how much you earn, then you become them. You become the most atrocious and disgusting person to yourself. In that, you will never win, cos you can never win your own bad judgement. |
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i give malaysian 1st. hardworking. not possesive. very wifey material.
2nd viet. hardworking but possesiive 3rd prc not possesive... but also cannot trust. 4th sg girls. possesive. not wifey. unreasonable . complicated. looking for 6Cs and 5Bs. (there are good ones but all taken up) this is purely from my exp. agree or not up to u. |
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to add on. the important point is to always remember to believe in ourselves. No matter what situation we may be in, never loose self confidence and a positively mindset. Others will always wants to judge us, even if it is mere passing by.
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There is no standard girl for each country, am sure if you look for it all will have the gers of your dreams in terms of looks, personality etc. So ultimately make sense to look for somebody of the same country as you .... culture is the same, so both sides wont have culture shock, regardless of how small it is
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Re: Do you prefer to marry a PRC, M'sian, Thai, Indo, Viet, others or our local girl
Thanks Senior Bro Darkstorm for input, may be I met those are different from yours.
Most common questions they ask: - what is your job - what do you do - where is your office Then there is no further questions and happy bonking.. Quote:
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Re: Do you prefer to marry a PRC, M'sian, Thai, Indo, Viet, others or our local girl
Bro colins, you have mistaken, I dont think about using monthly pay to impress others, or the bonus that come along end of the year. The point is we met and we can have whatever fancy dinner that we like, when we meet someone we are as my own and her own. So the PRC should be more interested in me than my paycheck.
Other point is letting gf, wife, ex-wife or anyone know exact pay can serious damage the extra-curricular activities, and I strongly oppose that. So far, my ex-, my gf for 13 years and all those new gfs they also dont know how much I earn each month. For that particular PRC, I told her I earned 1/3 of what I have but she still keep questioning. |
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Bro no matter whether the person is street cleaner or company director, he is still doing his job and not to be ashamed at what he is doing. In European countries, any guys can tell you what he does whether he drive taxi or cut grasses.
Anyway not all PRC are black sheep, that is thinking how to get their hands into your wallet like thinking about excuses for sickness of their mom or kids. |
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From What the Bro posted, actually if 2 person in love those criterias are just no-issues. Its the personally, mentally more important, or even basically, may be they have secret plan to married and look for something better.
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My in laws are like that....... Result, old man has learnt to SWITCH OFF and let the old hag shoot away until sometimes, even when I'm there, I will laugh cos bo bian........... LAO EH, I TOK TO YOU U GOT HEAR OR NOT???????? HUH??? U GOT TOK MEH.....SOLLY HOR U SAY WAT AH??????????? They're already passed 60 still like that......poor old man........ Maybe i shud bring him go GL one of this days....he's like very lack the GL version of LUVVVVVVVVVV hahahaha
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You left out the part where i've personally witnessed more than 3 cases of family disowning their son becos of the woman they chose to marry plus even when grandchild was born also dun wan to recognise!
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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Reason: Society / Financial Independence Independent vs dependence If gal can earn her own stable income, money issue will come later though also a factor but definitely not primary. If gal needs you to supplement her income.....sure $$$ will be the main PULLING factor...other things can wait.
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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Individualistic opinion rather than public opinion. In the west, CEO can golf with sweeper........... In Asia, CEO wont even want to know the 1st name of the sweeper Asian mentality and based on what's been discussed so far "打个很有面子的外表,可是后面是个空颗!" Western Mentality: I fark care what i wear and what you see, i happy can liao... Remember, where you go, where you hang out most at will also mean the kinda people that will cross path with you......so, maybe looking at the wrong places????????? Nationality.....not important to me....united colours or benetton man........cos all shapes sizes ideas craps is abundant everywhere on this planet.........
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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I've never been married. (no I'm not gay.) It's just that I enjoy the freedoms that bachelorhood brings. I've I was married, I probably never would have been able to start this site and run it effectively for the last 8 years.
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But really months back when i know a PRC gal, who is real gentle and caring, who almost melts my heart, too bad she went back to China already after resigning her work here. If she stays for another few months, i think my wife will definately change to her liao.. And anyway I'm not those uncles in Chinatown or whatever, i still young, haven't 30 yet.. So still got the chance to nake my further decision..
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