What Men Wants?

[Auxil]

What is the sex frequency between you and your husband now ?
3,5,7 times a week ?

[Westing]

Suggest watching porn together ?

Are you in a situation where you want to have more but your husband is ok with how it is now ?

[SirLance]

Originally Posted by LuSiWen

Hi people,

One of the Sammyboy member request me to create this thread under this forum.

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this.

Only shoot then try to rise and shoot again.

[Peacekeeping]

Usually guy is the one who want to have sex. Do you and your husband have sex before marriage?

[GoGoBro]

Men just want to have fun with pretty women.

[oxeso]

For now, we want to c ur neh neh n pussy pics.

[Xgenre]

What are the actual questions in your mind? What answers are you seeking? Will you leave once you have these answers? It's good to have a bottom line and to know the limits of your curiosity.

Otherwise this forum can get addictive. Curiosity kills the cat. It's hard to go back to a normal sex life after knowing the possibilities out there. Your husband (who is the reason you are here for) may then appear to be too plain vanilla. What happens to the marriage thereafter?

Good to know but knowing too much is harmful.

[Osprey]

How long have you known your husband before marriage ?

Do you want to know what men wants or what your husband specifically wants ?
Want to know what your husband wants, have to know more about him and you.
What men wants, easy to find out in the forum.

Or are you trying to find out what you want ? You want more but too shy to tell husband ?

[JiangYongBin]

Originally Posted by Osprey

How long have you known your husband before marriage ?

Do you want to know what men wants or what your husband specifically wants ?
Want to know what your husband wants, have to know more about him and you.
What men wants, easy to find out in the forum.

Or are you trying to find out what you want ? You want more but too shy to tell husband ?

yeah true we need to ask these questions

[LuSiWen]

Originally Posted by Osprey

How long have you known your husband before marriage ?

Do you want to know what men wants or what your husband specifically wants ?
Want to know what your husband wants, have to know more about him and you.
What men wants, easy to find out in the forum.

Or are you trying to find out what you want ? You want more but too shy to tell husband ?

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I appreciate your perspective and advice. You're right; understanding what your partner wants and desires in a relationship is crucial for a healthy and fulfilling partnership. In my case, I want to know both what men, in general, may desire and what specifically would make my husband happy.

You're absolutely correct that open communication and a willingness to explore and experiment can greatly benefit a relationship, especially in the bedroom. It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries. This can lead to a deeper connection and more satisfying experiences for both of you.

Your assumption that many men share common interests in bedroom matters isn't entirely off the mark. There are certainly some general trends and desires that can apply to many, but every person is unique. What's most important is finding out what works for you and your husband as a couple. What matters most is that both partners feel comfortable and satisfied with their intimate life.

Exploring new activities, trying new things, and keeping the lines of communication open can be great ways to enhance your relationship. It's crucial to create an environment where both you and your husband feel safe and free to express your desires, and to support each other's needs and wants.

Thank you for your insight, and I look forward to discovering ways to strengthen our bond further.

[JiangYongBin]

Originally Posted by LuSiWen

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I appreciate your perspective and advice. You're right; understanding what your partner wants and desires in a relationship is crucial for a healthy and fulfilling partnership. In my case, I want to know both what men, in general, may desire and what specifically would make my husband happy.

You're absolutely correct that open communication and a willingness to explore and experiment can greatly benefit a relationship, especially in the bedroom. It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries. This can lead to a deeper connection and more satisfying experiences for both of you.

Your assumption that many men share common interests in bedroom matters isn't entirely off the mark. There are certainly some general trends and desires that can apply to many, but every person is unique. What's most important is finding out what works for you and your husband as a couple. What matters most is that both partners feel comfortable and satisfied with their intimate life.

Exploring new activities, trying new things, and keeping the lines of communication open can be great ways to enhance your relationship. It's crucial to create an environment where both you and your husband feel safe and free to express your desires, and to support each other's needs and wants.

Thank you for your insight, and I look forward to discovering ways to strengthen our bond further.

And how long you both having intimacy?
Can he last longer? because if cant do so, it will be a problem for both of you.

[Alantino]

There is no right or wrong.
Best is to have a one to one chat with your spouse. Everyone got their limitations. Play with the limits.

[Exiled]

Originally Posted by LuSiWen

It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries.

I would suggest holding back on this first.
You seem very unsure of your husband's preferences, if he is happy as he is now, or hes repressing or shy. because you give so few details of you and your husband, no way to make an educated guess.

if he is really shy type on bedroom affairs, he might get overwhelmed.
take baby steps, make sure he is really comfortable at current state and then slowly introduce new elements.

[LuSiWen]

Originally Posted by Exiled

I would suggest holding back on this first.
You seem very unsure of your husband's preferences, if he is happy as he is now, or hes repressing or shy. because you give so few details of you and your husband, no way to make an educated guess.

if he is really shy type on bedroom affairs, he might get overwhelmed.
take baby steps, make sure he is really comfortable at current state and then slowly introduce new elements.

True is bit shy on that. and i agree on your point, that i need to take some few baby steps on bed.

will keep u all updated and thanks for helping and giving suggestions on this.

[LuSiWen]

Originally Posted by JiangYongBin

And how long you both having intimacy?
Can he last longer? because if cant do so, it will be a problem for both of you.

4 days a week, we were having for sex for 15minutes and i think that is not enough for me and then i wanted it again but for some reason he is not willing to proceed again.