Seeing so many bros here sharing the same problem that i have, thought i would share my experience as well. Sorry for the long story, please bear with me.
........ enjoy having sex too, she would moaned 'shiok', 'shuan' when i was doing it with her. At least she enjoys sex like i do, and she's genuine/not shy to admit that she enjoys having sex. That really turn me on.
Now i was so attached to my gf, and i also dont have the 'URGE' to do my wife anymore. Might as well, we both get what we want/dont want, and need not bother each other! If wives are selfish and cant understand we have our needs too, then we have to take care of ourselves. Remember 'No one is indispensable in this world', Including wives! This is my personal views, no offense meant to anyone.
I can understand wife saying no when overworked and stressed but after a 'date'? Wtf? She should have no complains with you having an affair!
for those bros whose wife aren't interested in sex, pay attention to their action....they may be already having their own sex acivities elsewhere after seeing you for 2 to 6 years...I may be wrong...but who cares...no sex within and then have sex beyond..cheers
for those bros whose wife aren't interested in sex, pay attention to their action....they may be already having their own sex acivities elsewhere after seeing you for 2 to 6 years...I may be wrong...but who cares...no sex within and then have sex beyond..cheers
Maybe... My wife always come back late around 9. Said busy with work. I don't even have time to check on her.
Wow. I like this topic man. It's like reading my own diary. I thought I am one of the few to suffer in silence. I couldn't agree more. I have to beg for sex as one had mentioned & also had arguement which I can't win.
And again, it's the same story, it started after having children. Nowadays my energy is diverted to running & flirting with colleagues.
I don't have so much money to burn in GL & HC. And I don't think it's money well spent.
Now, my wife is slowingly convinced that we will one day not have sex anymore because we are ageing. I told her our youth is limited. One day, I will need viagra & she might be deprived. We are all very busy & you tell me when will be a good time if every time is a bad time.
And most importantly, why are we so busy? It's precisely we want a better life than we need to improve the quality of our life (sex life included).
No one can really convince your wife other than you.
Get ready a well scripted speech & tell her the Hard Truths.
Wow. I like this topic man. It's like reading my own diary. I thought I am one of the few to suffer in silence. I couldn't agree more. I have to beg for sex as one had mentioned & also had arguement which I can't win.
And most importantly, why are we so busy? It's precisely we want a better life than we need to improve the quality of our life (sex life included).
No one can really convince your wife other than you.
Get ready a well scripted speech & tell her the Hard Truths.
Completely agree. For me, after the first child it was all downhill. Wife was still working and stressed. Also kena nagging as well. Then we had a big blow up. Fortunately she realised that she was neglecting our marriage. She wised up, quit her job after our second kid, started going to gym, wore make up every day, dressed sexily, wore g-string every night and we screwed on average at least twice a week until today.
During this time I introduced porn, sex toys, sexting, etc. She still damn horny. In fact, her sex drive higher than mine. I'm pretty sure I would have gone and eaten outside if she didn't cook at home.
Completely agree. For me, after the first child it was all downhill. Wife was still working and stressed. Also kena nagging as well. Then we had a big blow up. Fortunately she realised that she was neglecting our marriage. She wised up, quit her job after our second kid, started going to gym, wore make up every day, dressed sexily, wore g-string every night and we screwed on average at least twice a week until today.
During this time I introduced porn, sex toys, sexting, etc. She still damn horny. In fact, her sex drive higher than mine. I'm pretty sure I would have gone and eaten outside if she didn't cook at home.
U know wat, I suggest to get sex toy for both of use and she said I crazy!!!
Seeing so many bros here sharing the same problem that i have, thought i would share my experience as well. Sorry for the long story, please bear with me.
Right after married (about a month), wife got pregnant. Wife suggested that sex no good for baby, so LL have to abstain from sex for 9 months. After my baby was born, of course wife need to recuperate/take care of baby etc... hence another 6 months no sex...
After that, very little chance to have sex with wife since wife was either stress at work, or when at home, stress to take care of baby... Wife also mentioned she's aiming for promotion, so no mood/urge to have sex. Thinking about it, have less than 20 sex sessions with wife over 4 years of marriage. Wife would usually ask me not to disturb her when i touch her...
Didn't want to be selfish, i can only tolerate. Also understand both of us work for long hours and when we are at home, priority given to baby.
But there comes a time when man's tolerant can explode. At times, wife would ask me to take leave to date her for movie, dinner etc.. I thought that since both of us have enough rest and dont have to take care of baby (baby at full day child care), we could have sex... but each time wife still rejected me because she only interested to go 'shopping' and 'outdoors activities'. Feeling dejected, i started not to touch or be intimate with my wife. Why should i beg for sex? Anyway, it doesn't bother her since she has no 'URGE'. On surface we are still normal couple, but in reality, our relationship was tainted.
Now i was so attached to my gf, and i also dont have the 'URGE' to do my wife anymore. Might as well, we both get what we want/dont want, and need not bother each other! If wives are selfish and cant understand we have our needs too, then we have to take care of ourselves. Remember 'No one is indispensable in this world', Including wives! This is my personal views, no offense meant to anyone.
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Yrs 6 yrs, my only 2 yrs!!! 3-4 months once only either she tired, sleep earlier than me. I do miss the kissing . Sometime really feel like going GL
Yes, empathise wif Bro Gunner999 & Bro fairman...these are the usual common problems we bros here face wif our OCs who are not interested to hav sex anymore... & the usual excuses are...tired, busy wif her own things, stress wif issues at work & home & wanting to climb the corporate ladder etc...& telling u NOT to disturb her when u try to touch her...tis is a heavy price we bros hav to pay for wanting a 'better life' for ourselves & for our families....the cycle is work to earn money, tired after attending to life's problems, then sleep > thus no sex after tat...sigh
If possible, hav a good heart to heart talk wif her & if she still doesn't want...then each 1 of us has to find our own solutions to tis problem...the options :- go w/o it for as long as possible if we can tahan, if not...DIY, find FB/FL/WL etc...sadly there is nothing else much we can really do...sigh
P/S Quote from Bro fairman "...i suggest get sex toy for both of use she said i crazy ".....Yes tats wat they wil say..not surprising
Yes, empathise wif Bro Gunner999 & Bro fairman...these are the usual common problems we bros here face wif our OCs who are not interested to hav sex anymore... & the usual excuses are...tired, busy wif her own things, stress wif issues at work & home & wanting to climb the corporate ladder etc...& telling u NOT to disturb her when u try to touch her...tis is a heavy price we bros hav to pay for wanting a 'better life' for ourselves & for our families....the cycle is work to earn money, tired after attending to life's problems, then sleep > thus no sex after tat...sigh
If possible, hav a good heart to heart talk wif her & if she still doesn't want...then each 1 of us has to find our own solutions to tis problem...the options :- go w/o it for as long as possible if we can tahan, if not...DIY, find FB/FL/WL etc...sadly there is nothing else much we can really do...sigh
P/S Quote from Bro fairman "...i suggest get sex toy for both of use she said i crazy ".....Yes tats wat they wil say..not surprising
Thks bro!! But yr wife said (crazy) word to u too??
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Re: Wife don't like sex
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Thks bro!! But yr wife said (crazy) word to u too??
My wife won't say I am crazy but she said I am a sicko....
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Been surfing SBF for sometime and found this thread. It really let us married guys talk about our xin sheng.
me too is having such a problem for the past 5 years, in fact had jokingly spoke to my wife, during courtship and 1st 2 year , 1 week 7 times, 3rd year - 4 year , 1 week 3 times, now after 5 years 3 weeks 1 time, few more years later 7 weeks 1 time and then 1 year 1 time start 1st jan and end 31st december as boh lat liaoz.
10-04-2011, 07:57 AM
either she tired, sleep earlier than me. I do miss the kissing . Sometime really feel like going GL 
