Wanted to married a China girl but i am married - Page 3

thomas88 · #31 07-02-2009, 01:09 PM

I'm really touch by reading DNAdevil post....Water dwell in my eyes though I don't wept easily.

It's a very sad but happy ending story. I really hope TS read this post too and think a million times about divorcing his wife who has stick with him much much longer than the PRC gal. Most PRC gal come to Singapore with the intention of getting a PR and Singaporean status not forgetting to make more money.

If you think your marriage life now is boring.....then be prepared for the worst should you divorce your wife and marries the PRC as the stages of marriage will come to what you're feeling now or worst off as by then you'll be broke from having to transfer most of your money to China(building house, etc).

MrBombastic · #32 07-02-2009, 01:16 PM

I got to know some guys got carried away due to fling cum relationship. However when we look at it, if the lady knows that you got a wife and insist on the relationship with you, it means she can also do this to you one day for another man.

Bro dnadevil has share with us a very good example of his life. I'm touched by his story and it bring us from fantasy to reality of life. If we seek for divorce, what will happen to our wife and children? We swore in front of our family and friends that we'll take care of her for the rest of our life. Half way through we give her up.

I ain't married, but I feel it. In fact I'm still looking for a life partner. 2 years ago, I almost marry my ex for 8 years. However due to distance relationship and her strong ambition, I have to give it up and spend my life alone.

If you look around you, there are many single man who wish to be in your shoes. Unfortunately destiny don't allow them to do so. All married are the envy in their eyes. Comparing to them, you can see how lucky you are...

LuvHotaruAkane · #33 07-02-2009, 01:38 PM

Yo bro just do whatever u deem fit. We are not in your shoes and definitely don't qualify to advise u how u run ur life.

Seriously... now this society. Just when u think u are cheating on ur wife or gf, U never know what they are doing in the office. I can ensure u women are wilder when coming to flings.

And as for love with WLs... There is only a less than 1% chance. If u think she loves u...u better think again.

kogi · #34 07-02-2009, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by rtcb68

Got to know this China girl and have a very good time with her for a while.
We call each other every day thought she is in China and my feeling grow alone the way. I had told her that I am married but she really dont mind and had lie to her family that i am not. I really wish to married her but i am married.
Can anyone assist me? Can I married her in China thought i had registered in Singapore? We do love each other very very much.

Bro, think about it. You got married and the excitement went out of your life. Now you want to repeat a past mistake and make it worse with bigamy? Your China wife will hold your balls to the fire anytime she wants something from you and you cannot say no.
So you marry her in China and spend all your money with the promise of more to come. What if she starts going out to nightclubs to look for exciting men after that? Then she gets pregnant with another guy's baby that you have to pay for. What can you do? Complain to who? Run back to Singapore to hide? She can fix you any time either by telling your 1st wife about you or reporting you to the authorities here.

Bro, if you love her and she loves you then dont get married. Share cash,car,credit card,condo,country club but dont get married again.

dap26 · #35 07-02-2009, 02:07 PM

TS,think very carefully...If she really yr rite one...Do you still love your wife???...Dun do anythings that makes you regret for life.....

infinitedubs · #36 07-02-2009, 02:23 PM

Opinion - Dun marry many wives..U'll regret.

hawk007 · #37 07-02-2009, 03:10 PM

I think it is a case of when you don hav it, you wan it. But you when you have it, it might not be the best.

leecs · #38 07-02-2009, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Mrxhub

Wah, really pity you man...your wife so negitive thinking 1....but be careful with PRC lah...they are not as simple as you think, unless she's a good babe.

I may fly to china end of feb to find her. Yes! i've heard countless stories about PRC gals. But i dont think all are bad. I have many colleagues who marry PRCs & they are doing very well & have babies.

Really miss her alot.

LostALau · #39 07-02-2009, 05:31 PM

TS, What happened to your marriage vow......to take care of her in sickness and in health ......till death break you apart ......... Forgotten already?

HCKing · #40 07-02-2009, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by rtcb68

Got to know this China girl and have a very good time with her for a while.
We call each other every day thought she is in China and my feeling grow alone the way. I had told her that I am married but she really dont mind and had lie to her family that i am not. I really wish to married her but i am married.
Can anyone assist me? Can I married her in China thought i had registered in Singapore? We do love each other very very much.

another KC victim, haiz.

TS i suggest u read up more news and articles online abt relationship with PRC girls. it will help to wake up yr big head.

or u can also read up the threads in Matters of the Heart section.

just4fun · #41 07-02-2009, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by leecs

I may fly to china end of feb to find her. Yes! i've heard countless stories about PRC gals. But i dont think all are bad. I have many colleagues who marry PRCs & they are doing very well & have babies.

Really miss her alot.

Sometime i just cant seem to be able to understand people like yourself....

Let's not talk about PRC either good/bad...You are saying that ur colleagues whom married PRC are happily together....but can u marry her???? Can you bring her to SG????

You are thinking of marrying her in china...while you are still married in Sg....Come on...you cant be using yourself to compare with them...This is nothing but mere selfishness....

You might not know...In china, if your gf brought you back home to see her parents, it will mean that you guys are officially together...words will spread especially in the countryside places.... One fine day, you decided to leave her...you are actually runining her life

Come on...think more...Dun be a jerk!!! Be fair to both ladies... This is NOT about how to choose, but how you are going to change other lifes, even more applicable when you have kids....

爱她变成害她！！！

jameschong2 · #42 07-02-2009, 07:55 PM

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boyboi · #43 07-02-2009, 10:30 PM

divorce the current wife n marry the china girl lo...or marry china girl in china...fly here n there lo...

LostALau · #44 07-02-2009, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by boyboi

divorce the current wife n marry the china girl lo...or marry china girl in china...fly here n there lo...

Bro boyboi, What kind of advice is this. Then he would have committed bigamy and punishable by law. Want TS to go to jail issit? Wahlau, u need a spanking.

DNAdevil · #45 07-02-2009, 11:56 PM

Hi guys!! just letting u all noe that IM NOT MARRIED the post i posted here is from other forum from other guy not mine hehehe, i too find that its very touching so i post here to share to all and of cos to the TS, glade that it help most of the bro here and hope that it will help the TS too, the guy who post it should get all the credits for helping all the bro here with his experience, so again i hope it will help more bros with their marriage and love life.