Wife don't like sex

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by blk437

I have quarrel with my wife many times regarding this issue and everytime she kept silent. I never suspect she is eating duck meat or anything because she is always busy with 2 kids and work.

it could be becos she is afraid of ending up with a 3rd kid.

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by Baileys

Bro maybe ur wife still not open up for sex yet. My wife when she was younger also not into it. She will do it if I tell her I need to relieve but after she turn thirty-five and given birth to our son then things started to change. She can get horny easily and will initiate to have sex with me and doing things that I can only dream abt previously. So bro don't give up continue trying. The day will come.

It true when women reach the age of thirty,they indeed horny.
TS, how old his yours wife

[Tripster]

TS, this situation if allowed t carry on will result in a separation. Marriage is abt love and companionship. A loveless marriage never lasts. I do hear of marriages with little or no sex except for the time of procreation.

But when there is lovelessness, it usually ends with a separation. If sexless, I think it is also loveless. The result is quite clear. If the issue is not sorted out, prepare for the inevitable.

Suggest counselling or a therapist.

peace

[blk437]

Originally Posted by Baileys

Bro maybe ur wife still not open up for sex yet. My wife when she was younger also not into it. She will do it if I tell her I need to relieve but after she turn thirty-five and given birth to our son then things started to change. She can get horny easily and will initiate to have sex with me and doing things that I can only dream abt previously. So bro don't give up continue trying. The day will come.

Haha Baileys, my wife is the opposite. She is active with me when she was in her 20plus but after marriage and given birth to 2 little boy she afraid of sex. Maybe just like what Bro HCKing said, afraid of the 3rd one coming out.

Glad to see so many bros respond because i scare its something unusual.

[bispak]

when i 1st got married we were humping 2 to 3 times a week, then it became once a week then once a month.
i started to make noise but she juz brushed it off.
feeling frustrated i went to release steam on FL
after that i felt dam guilty coz i love my wife.
but everytime i feel horny the guilt disappears and i end up with another FL

FL only releases stress. but the guilt is irreversible.

[Baileys]

Originally Posted by blk437

Haha Baileys, my wife is the opposite. She is active with me when she was in her 20plus but after marriage and given birth to 2 little boy she afraid of sex. Maybe just like what Bro HCKing said, afraid of the 3rd one coming out.

Glad to see so many bros respond because i scare its something unusual.

Sorry bro seems like this theory will only apply to my wife....

[cookieman]

Have you ask her to have mutual masturbation with you?
have you ask her why she don't like it?

[bombshell]

Originally Posted by bispak

when i 1st got married we were humping 2 to 3 times a week, then it became once a week then once a month.
i started to make noise but she juz brushed it off.
feeling frustrated i went to release steam on FL
after that i felt dam guilty coz i love my wife.
but everytime i feel horny the guilt disappears and i end up with another FL

FL only releases stress. but the guilt is irreversible.

Think a lot of ppl also face this problem bah..me one of them.

[chowchowkeith]

Bro, this should be a universal problem for singapore guys.

Before marriage = great sex
After marriage = occassional sex based on reward...

[tanhockgin]

I have the same problem.
Wife is older and doesnt like sex. I do it once in 3-6 months.

I eat out often. I tried marriage counselling cos I didnt want to fuck around outside. Worked a while then back to square one.

Few things have happened since
1) Had a fuck buddy for about 2 yrs

2) Many FL and massages.

3) I even experience transferrence. Experimented bisexualism.

I cant talk to my wife cos we are at very different wavelength. I stay w her becos of kids. Sigh!

[blk437]

Bro Tanhockgin, my situation quite similar coz my wife also older than me. I have HSD and she got LSD. Haiz no courage to stray because i want to face my 2 son guilt free and of coz love my wife as much as ever.

Suck Thumb.

[MaoSanWang]

Women more horny after age 30? Don't have leh...
My wf in 30's quite few yrs already.
I got turn down so many times, I stop asking...sign
No sex for more than a Yr... I aslo stop counting how long already...LOL.

Bros, there is a reason why prostitution is the oldest trade in the world.

Men has basic needs.
Either you rape, batter, take out ur deprived hunger on ur wf,
or release with FL, keep ur sanity and go home a loving husband.
(well, at least this is what I tell myself when I'm having fun)

[cookieman]

I see a lot of bros suffering in this thread cos, wife never feed them.

[geckoSG]

Sometimes, women are plain too tired out to think of sex. Or you bored them.
Most housewives that I had fling with, their life is such a bored, hubby only
say want sex, open leg, poke, shoot and sleep.

Women doesn't want that! They want foreplay and everything... Try talk to
her. U can sense if she is bored with current life...

Spice up things a bit and sex life will return... If not, she might know what
you are doing and does not want to have sex with U if you have been makan
outside...

My 2 cents worth. Hope this helps.

[Me Siam Bu]

agree wif all bro. dont gv up ya