Cheating girlfriend/partner/wife - Page 3

BroRelax · #31 14-08-2014, 08:47 PM

TS,

A leopard will never changed its spot.

A slut will always be a slut.

Unless you want a slut wife who will sure give u green hat to wear. Else just break clean and move on.

Hope u find real happiness soon.

RealSparks · #32 18-08-2014, 12:24 AM

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Originally Posted by BroRelax

A leopard will never changed its spot.

Agree totally bro

siri · #33 18-08-2014, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by doubletap

once a man have been thoroughly hurt by woman from the previous relationship, especially when she mean a lot to the man, the man will most probably have no more heart to the next woman whom they are fucking next.

reason: the man is afraid tat the next woman ll give e same end result as the previous one. so he prefers to keep his heart, .............. to save the future pain.

applies to ladies as well I believe.

nonetheless, if you agreed to be in a committed rls then be faithful. If you wanna play around then don't waste someone's else life and time on it.. can never understand why people cheat...

fion.18 · #34 18-08-2014, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by siri

if you agreed to be in a committed rls then be faithful. If you wanna play around then don't waste someone's else life and time on it...

So agree with this! If you cannot commit to be faithful then don't waste time!

AnimeFanatic · #35 01-09-2014, 02:30 AM

I think it's fair since you also cheat on her (mp, gl and ONS) since the start of relationship till now (even if you cut down last year). It is highly possible your gf already knows you are cheating so she is only following what you did. So dun make urself look like you are victim coz it is fair. Why you can cheat but she can't cheat? Treat her as how you would like to treated. She is only returning you the favour.

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Originally Posted by allbustyboobies

Dear Brothers,

By looking at the title, maybe many of you have already read or heard such fiction or non-fiction stories from friends, colleagues or sbf here. Of course, to me reading such stories, it really sound very juicy for me. However, today, I am not writing any stories for you all to buy popcorn and camp here. It really happened on me.

Well we are guys, one pussy and a pair of boobs is simply not enough. There is many ways to bonk, mp, hc, spa, gl, thru wechat, clubbing (ONS) etc. If there is a will, there is a way for sure to bonk. I do admit at the start of our relationship, I go mp, gl regularly and on few occasions have ONS when I club. Since late last year, all these have cut down tremendously.

In few months time to come, we are going into our 6th year relationship. Last year already start to do planning for our future, settling down, getting married with her. We have talked about future plans, but quarrel many times too. She want to buy condo instead of hdb BTO (I am not cash loaded lei), or at least an EC, I pay everything for renovation, utilities etc..all I pay. I know marriage takes 2 hands to clap but at least must share some financial burden ma. All these problems can be settled with money one is not really a big problem IMO.

But today, I am lost. I don’t know whether to commit into the next stage of life. Because I found out she has been cheating on me since Oct 2010. Of course when one cheat, no one in the right state of mind would let the other half know. But I know..because on one occasion I just don’t why I just checked on her handphone. All these start to reveal.

Nov 2010 when we are holidaying in Taiwan, when she fall into deep sleep, I couldn’t sleep and I happen to took her handphone (without any ill intention), unlock it (she accidentally told me her password long time ago). Then check on the messages, call log, fb friends list, fb messages. Sorry for long winded. The main part is here……

AnimeFanatic · #36 01-09-2014, 02:36 AM

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Originally Posted by BroRelax

TS,

A leopard will never changed its spot.

A slut will always be a slut.

Unless you want a slut wife who will sure give u green hat to wear. Else just break clean and move on.

Hope u find real happiness soon.

So what do you call a guy who gives a green hat to the wife to wear?

AnimeFanatic · #37 01-09-2014, 02:39 AM

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Originally Posted by siri

applies to ladies as well I believe.

nonetheless, if you agreed to be in a committed rls then be faithful. If you wanna play around then don't waste someone's else life and time on it.. can never understand why people cheat...

Totally agree. It applies to both parties in the r/s.

sarahxx · #38 01-09-2014, 09:29 AM

I kinda see it differently..

No doubt cheating is wrong n when ure in a committed relationship u shldnt breach tht trust. But we are only human and we make mistakes. Ts, I don't exactly know the full picture of your story so can't comment much but, people cheat/stray for a reason. Usually it's bcos 1) there is a emotional/sexual void in the relationship, hence she is looking elsewhere for it 2) she is a player, n she's just doing it for the thrill. And only u know best whether if it's 1) or 2).

If it's 1), personally I still think it's forgivable if u really love her and treat her infidelity as a moment of folly - provided she acknowledges her mistakes. But if it's 2), then I think it's better to drop her bcos tht just shows she doesn't respect u and I think that's the most basic form trust for any relationship.

AnimeFanatic · #39 01-09-2014, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by sarahxx

I kinda see it differently..

No doubt cheating is wrong n when ure in a committed relationship u shldnt breach tht trust. But we are only human and we make mistakes. Ts, I don't exactly know the full picture of your story so can't comment much but, people cheat/stray for a reason. Usually it's bcos 1) there is a emotional/sexual void in the relationship, hence she is looking elsewhere for it 2) she is a player, n she's just doing it for the thrill. And only u know best whether if it's 1) or 2).

If it's 1), personally I still think it's forgivable if u really love her and treat her infidelity as a moment of folly - provided she acknowledges her mistakes. But if it's 2), then I think it's better to drop her bcos tht just shows she doesn't respect u and I think that's the most basic form trust for any relationship.

I agree with that in a committed rs that trust should not be breached. But TS himself already breached that trust from the beginning. If he himself is wrong, what right has he to point the finger to his gf who makes the same wrong as him?

But i think the both of them to thrash out themselves. I noticed that the gf did not cheat in the start of the rs. It may be possible once she knows her bf already cheated on her she changed into player mode. Coz even i may also cheat once i find out the guy cheats.

gouflook · #40 01-09-2014, 11:14 PM

I guess most of the non single guys or ladies in this forum cheats, so rather not discredit any sides. If it can soothes TS better, you can think of this as your karma, it might helps you to accept and understand this situation. You should end the relationship if you aren't able to talk this matter thoroughly with your gf and find a common ground. And to help ease your pain, rather not think yourself as the innocent party as that will bear you down.

Fapatron · #41 02-09-2014, 10:28 AM

TS, i think you and your gf need a down to earth talk. Find out the reasons as to why she's been cheating, and maybe you 2 can work together to resolve the issue on the promise that she wouldn't cheat again (everybody deserves a 2nd chance).

However, if the reasons are really unreasonable or just a way to cushion her wrong-doings, then the best thing to do is save your time and emotions and just end it. There's no point if she's not willing to put in effort to sustain the relationship bith of you have.

tstark413 · #42 03-09-2014, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by AnimeFanatic

I agree with that in a committed rs that trust should not be breached. But TS himself already breached that trust from the beginning. If he himself is wrong, what right has he to point the finger to his gf who makes the same wrong as him?

But i think the both of them to thrash out themselves. I noticed that the gf did not cheat in the start of the rs. It may be possible once she knows her bf already cheated on her she changed into player mode. Coz even i may also cheat once i find out the guy cheats.

It have been awhile since I pen down my thoughts on such issue. Sad to said, I fully agreed to AnimeF comments. I am a player myself for many years before and even after my marriage. When our marriage fall apart in 2010 due to a 3rd party (My wife found a lover), I was both sad and angry....it took me 3 months to set the records right, to forgive her and go ahead with the divorce....like what mention by AnimeF, who r we to judge if ourself play by the same rules. Betrayal come to both gender, it doesn't give you the right just because you are a man.

If you can"t leave her...then accept what is coming and be prepare for any outcome in a relationship. Sometime ppl do change with age and maturity. You need to have a lion heart to truly love someone whole heartedly. If you cannot forgive her...then leave and start another relationship when you are ready again.

AnimeFanatic · #43 07-09-2014, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by tstark413

It have been awhile since I pen down my thoughts on such issue. Sad to said, I fully agreed to AnimeF comments. I am a player myself for many years before and even after my marriage. When our marriage fall apart in 2010 due to a 3rd party (My wife found a lover), I was both sad and angry....it took me 3 months to set the records right, to forgive her and go ahead with the divorce....like what mention by AnimeF, who r we to judge if ourself play by the same rules. Betrayal come to both gender, it doesn't give you the right just because you are a man.

If you can"t leave her...then accept what is coming and be prepare for any outcome in a relationship. Sometime ppl do change with age and maturity. You need to have a lion heart to truly love someone whole heartedly. If you cannot forgive her...then leave and start another relationship when you are ready again.

And TS, if you still wanna play around, i suggest u stay single and dun go into any relationship. Gals when betrayed can do very drastic things either hurting themselves or hurting you.

clevic · #44 18-09-2014, 10:42 PM

One of the most interesting thread in this forum...

I think we need to accept the fact that whether men or women, we are all human. The fact that we are loitering in this forum, we are no angels. And when we can acknowledge that we are no angels, we too should not expect our partners and spouses to be angels.

Yes, it is world shattering to know that the person whom we love and trust betrayed us. But put ourselves in their shoes. How will they feel if they find out what we have been doing.

Leaving her and move on seems like the right approach, but it is also an egoistic solution. What about coming clean and confess our own wrong doings and said no more fooling around from now on? Can you do that? If you can't, then it is just that you don't love her enough.

But then again, history tells us that... no one is an angel... we are all humans and will fall into temptation one way or another.

angelinspiring · #45 26-09-2014, 12:16 PM

no offense bro...i'm married...but i need to be brutally honest with you...my advice is....Just Go and Cheat Also Bro....and you will see the world in different perspective....we are always been govern with morals and values....nothing wrong with that....but sometimes against moral and values, is just a principle...that sometimes need to be look every angle....huhuhu....be strong bro...and yes...i cheat....