I was on the receiving end on this topic. My girlfriend started flirting a lot with my best friend, and even admitted to having dreams about him. Me being naive and stupid, I accepted it as long as she stayed with me but this eventually led to me having too much "stress" from the relationship so i ended it.
I too was the receiving end. My ex wife had an affair with a white guy while she was studying overseas. It was not till the white guy sent me an image of both of them in bed together.
I wanted to forgive her by asking her if she is having an affair. She kept denying it till I show her the picture.
Shit does happen. But still my life goes now. Now I'm single and much happier about my life.
There's something about affairs. You know it's wrong but it somehow feels right especially if you've fallen in love with each other. You defy all sense f reason and ignore your conscience. You justify it and tell yourself you deserve another shot at happiness.
I am a 55 y/o grandfather, been married for 30 years, had a string of affairs in my younger years until I met my lady love. We met 15 years ago, carried on with our relationship for many years until we broke up when she found out I was cheating on her. Dark times. I had a stroke, went for physical therapy and rehab, pined for her for more than three years until I bumped into her last year. I tried to rekindle our affair and although I felt that she still loves me, she turned and walked away. It was a heart-breaking goodbye.
But life is indeed full of surprises. Back in May, when she was in town for a meeting, we hooked up again and now we're back together. We both know this is wrong but we really love each other. My family knows I've had affairs. I am grateful to them for taking care of me when I was recovering. My wife and I still share a room but we don't sleep together. We've become more like brother and sister. Wifey knows about my affairs but somehow I've managed to hide the one with ladylove from her.
I sometimes wish I could make things right with ladylove. I want to divorce my wife and marry her. But she has always told me that my family should come first. She's fine with our setup and will wait for the time when we can be truly together. I just hope it will be in this lifetime.
(Posted our story a few months back).
Bro,
I am married for the last 14 years to a woman whom I would never have married because she is totally wrong for me. However, as the years pass, with 2 wonderful kids....the marriage has grown into one of respect and I cannot imagine life without her nagging and tempers. I hate and love her at the same time.
I understand your position and wish you all the best with your ladylove.
Honestly speaking, all these unexpected fun are the ones that we always enjoy the most when looking back. There are times when we regret but after the remorseful period comes the excitement period. Sometimes I wonder if cheating is good or bad.
There's something about affairs. You know it's wrong but it somehow feels right especially if you've fallen in love with each other. You defy all sense f reason and ignore your conscience. You justify it and tell yourself you deserve another shot at happiness.
I am a 55 y/o grandfather, been married for 30 years, had a string of affairs in my younger years until I met my lady love. We met 15 years ago, carried on with our relationship for many years until we broke up when she found out I was cheating on her. Dark times. I had a stroke, went for physical therapy and rehab, pined for her for more than three years until I bumped into her last year. I tried to rekindle our affair and although I felt that she still loves me, she turned and walked away. It was a heart-breaking goodbye.
But life is indeed full of surprises. Back in May, when she was in town for a meeting, we hooked up again and now we're back together. We both know this is wrong but we really love each other. My family knows I've had affairs. I am grateful to them for taking care of me when I was recovering. My wife and I still share a room but we don't sleep together. We've become more like brother and sister. Wifey knows about my affairs but somehow I've managed to hide the one with ladylove from her.
I sometimes wish I could make things right with ladylove. I want to divorce my wife and marry her. But she has always told me that my family should come first. She's fine with our setup and will wait for the time when we can be truly together. I just hope it will be in this lifetime.
(Posted our story a few months back).
good that you understand your mistakes....hope this message will teaches puny new generation singaporean guys that love is just a chemical..nothing more nothing less......and by subjecting one to this "love chemical" make you previously a mentally weak person
i think is quite a common thing to happen, especially between friends.. many yrs ago i do have a so call little sis who we always go out drinking together. then on one nite, she got a big quarrel with her husband n we as usual meet up for drink but maybe becos of her quarrel or watever... we ended up at my place n having sex the whole nite till morning...
after tat nite, we still meet up for drink but no more sex.. is jus a one off thing..
i think is quite a common thing to happen, especially between friends.. many yrs ago i do have a so call little sis who we always go out drinking together. then on one nite, she got a big quarrel with her husband n we as usual meet up for drink but maybe becos of her quarrel or watever... we ended up at my place n having sex the whole nite till morning...
after tat nite, we still meet up for drink but no more sex.. is jus a one off thing..
I had an unforgettable experience with my ex bf's brother. He was sending me home after sending my bf off at the airport. We had a good chat along the way and he suggested going to the beach for a walk. He confided in me over his strained relationship with his then gf and asked me whether I could help him masterbate. I was shocked to hear about his request and he begged me to do it as he was very horny. I did not agree to do so and he turned nasty by removing my shorts off, with my bare butt showing off. I asked him to return me my shorts but he had a condition, which is to let him examine my ass. He said he had been infatuated with my ass and he wana have a feel out of it. He made me bend down and hands and kneels on the bench,he slowly used his fingers to play with my butt hole. I endured the horniness in me but he suddenly inserted his dick into my pussy and did me doggie. I didn't care that much and enjoyed his pumping until he shot his load out onto my own ass..after that night, I have not seen him as I broke up with his brother not long after.
02-09-2014, 09:18 AM
