What excuses will you give, if you want to go China to enjoy yourself?

[AAconnection]

it is not easy to give excuse to be in PRC, I think OC already 101 excuses guide book ready to bombard you.

[Taoist]

I normally just tell her I am going to HK for a Fri and Mon Meeting. So Weekend i scoot across the border to Shenzhen and party.

[Mai Hai]

One thing to note, whatever excuse you give, even if sounds plausible, your OC or GF will suspect something, it is a matter of degree only. So if it is not really work, dont do it. Small suspicions will add up through time and become big, this is a huge risk if you have an OC, for GF, breakup nia, look for a new one.

Anyway, a real excuse given by a friend ... he told his OC that his friend company is letting staff go China together with a partner/oc for free for thei annual trip ... and of course his friend's OC cannot make it, so his friend giving him the slot ... hmm, free trip why waste ... but I am sure the wife definitely have some suspicions ... where got such thing as ducks running around in the streets waiting for you to pick them up right (hope I got this Canto idiom right)

[paradigm]

Whatever it is going China without OC will make her suspicious ... even if it is for work, she will ask whether you look for gal ...

[airbrush]

Originally Posted by Taoist

I normally just tell her I am going to HK for a Fri and Mon Meeting. So Weekend i scoot across the border to Shenzhen and party.

If you goes to HK and scoot across the border to Shenzhen, any endorsement on your passport, if there is no endorsement then is very good excuse.

[first hole]

Never concoct a story to go motherland.
Going there already raises suspicions ... whatever reason you come up with .... sure got loopholes ... so must be bona fide ... no point beat grass startle snake.

[AAconnection]

Originally Posted by first hole

Never concoct a story to go motherland.
Going there already raises suspicions ... whatever reason you come up with .... sure got loopholes ... so must be bona fide ... no point beat grass startle snake.

Yep man when the China is mentioned OC will become very imaginative. Then how tell OC that I going to China to enjoy myself?

[penile enlarger]

I think if cheong, better try not to raise any suspicions, else if kena suspicious, OC hire PI, sure kena caught, who here among samsters keep a lookout for PI ...