Calling all bros who need help in Matters of the Heart

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by pewpew

I just have a damn evil idea popped in my mind...

go RAWR, get some HIV or AIDS, than you won't worry about the relationship but instead, you will start thinking about which part of you will start rotting...

You are crazy dude...

[pewpew]

Originally Posted by slider_72

You are crazy dude...

We are trying to help him and giving him advice but seems like, his ear were eaten up by the lady...

So i hope by telling him that there are worst situation than his, he will drop his idea of sticking to the same trap set again n again

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Time for you to go buy the book THICK FACE BLACK HEART and read...you'll come out a dangerous man without a heart.

hahaha... I read both this and the other version written for women to know their tricks.

Good read.

[Monkey4]

Originally Posted by colins

Hi all bros,

Let me know if you like to hang out by PM. Just tell me your name and number so I can send a mass sms informing you of the location. I'll probably get a few other guys with experience to share. Feel free to ask questions here or PM and I'll answer when I am free.

Cheers

bro colins, u have a kind heart and hope u have a fruitful gathering with those samsters who are licking their wounds now...

Although I am oso licking my own wound but it is a different wound.... financial wound from the market kekeke....

Nevertheless if there is a TCSS gathering especially for those active samsters in MOH, pls inform me... I will be glad to attend.

Cheers....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ekemono

But I would also like to add that such group of folks, beside the above, are encourage to get some form of spiritual acceptance.

Bro Ekemono, like wat i always tell ya, u da man.
One is and will never be complete without their spiritual side.
Kudos

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

hahaha... I read both this and the other version written for women to know their tricks.

Good read.

Coming from you, me is not surprised.....no wonder you the PROWLING KC king hehehehehe

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Coming from you, me is not surprised.....no wonder you the PROWLING KC king hehehehehe

知己知彼， 百战百胜！

[colins]

Originally Posted by Willie

I know she is KCing me and damn sure about it, but I dun want to walk away from it....a loser. I wanna to win her in her own game....damn it! Bro DYBJ & Colin, got gotta help me here.......to WIN! MIND F*&K THE HELL OUT OF HER.

Bro Willie, if revenge is the motive, we can only do it for you (if we think its worth the cause). In that context, you wouldn't be able to learn anything in the process. In real terms, you will still be the loser you called yourself. If you want to be a winner, your mindset must change first. I think it is important to know that the objective of mindfucking is not to cause pain and suffering to anybody, but to somebody who deserves it with an exception that the victim happens to be a happy victim willing to be conned. It's not very fair to say you want it in the first place and now you want revenge for receiving something you din expect.

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Crying is actually a form of purging.
Notice everytime you actually cry your heart out, you feel damn song?????
Notice everytime you wanna cry but u try to control yourself from doing it, you feel damn CRAPPY?????

Bro DYBJ....its nice to cry to purge out the negative feelings.

Many Men, Women and babies cried to get some form of attention.....to be SAYANG hopefully. Worst, I am brought up in an environment that even if you cry until you collapse, nobody will be there, I am all alone to defend and survive on my own....then after so many decades of such an evironment...I no longer cry....thats the hardest feeling....because u can't cry anymore as there isn't anybody around you, I felt damn upset and hurt but I can't cry. I feel damn lonely and lousy even when there are tons of people around me, I feel lonely even when I am surrounded by a bunch of pretty playful KTV gals with loud music and all my drinking/work kakis around, I feel lonely and empty even when I am bonking a HC gal, didn't enjoy at all even if I cum.....

The feeling sucks.....

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Bro DYBJ....its nice to cry to purge out the negative feelings.

Many Men, Women and babies cried to get some form of attention.....to be SAYANG hopefully. Worst, I am brought up in an environment that even if you cry until you collapse, nobody will be there, I am all alone to defend and survive on my own....then after so many decades of such an evironment...I no longer cry....thats the hardest feeling....because u can't cry anymore as there isn't anybody around you, I felt damn upset and hurt but I can't cry. I feel damn lonely and lousy even when there are tons of people around me, I feel lonely even when I am surrounded by a bunch of pretty playful KTV gals with loud music and all my drinking/work kakis around, I feel lonely and empty even when I am bonking a HC gal, didn't enjoy at all even if I cum.....

The feeling sucks.....

U say wat u say cos ur EMPTY.
Do not become something UGLY just because something UGLY happened to you.
Just learn from it and come out even more beautiful.
The pain we all get in life is not for nottin.
If we turn positive from the pain we experience, the pain was all worth it & the same pain cannot bite you twice.
But if we turn cold or emotionless, then we failed to learn from the pain & thus, it's these people who are always bitten NON STOP!
Do learn to learn my good friend

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by pewpew

go RAW, get some HIV or AIDS, than you won't worry about the relationship but instead, you will start thinking about which part of you will start rotting...

Bro pewpew, thats the most innovative idea I ever heard so far, and yet also the most stupid suggestion.

You are a dangerous man

[colins]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Bro DYBJ....its nice to cry to purge out the negative feelings.

Many Men, Women and babies cried to get some form of attention.....to be SAYANG hopefully. Worst, I am brought up in an environment that even if you cry until you collapse, nobody will be there, I am all alone to defend and survive on my own....then after so many decades of such an evironment...I no longer cry....thats the hardest feeling....because u can't cry anymore as there isn't anybody around you, I felt damn upset and hurt but I can't cry. I feel damn lonely and lousy even when there are tons of people around me, I feel lonely even when I am surrounded by a bunch of pretty playful KTV gals with loud music and all my drinking/work kakis around, I feel lonely and empty even when I am bonking a HC gal, didn't enjoy at all even if I cum.....

The feeling sucks.....

Bro DTCEPL, its normal to be sexually inactive when you are so torn up inside. Sex is probably 80% in the mind if you (as I see it) are an emotional guy. There will come to a point where you dun enjoy boozing and womanising anymore cos they DO NOT PROVIDE A SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEMS.

Crying, in the context that I've written, is not to gather attention. If thats the purpose that you do that, you won't even start esp when no ones around. You dun cry for others, you do that for yourself. See how you've been treating yourself, bro. When she left you, you start to hurt yourself. She doesn't care about you, nobody does. The only person who should care about yourself is you. Unfortunately, she only inflicted the first wound and you are the only who tored up the wound and leave it in the open. Why? Isn't that more sad and aren't you inflicting more hurt to yourself compared to her?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

I remembered abt 20yrs ago, when i 1st broke off wif my 1st true luv!
Became a hermid crab, stayed in my own room, kept a beard, looked like osama bin london hehe, didnt eat, just smoke & drink my lungs out in my room and cry cry cry..........so heart broken, so pain, life so no meaning...this went on for almost a month...till one fine morning at 4am whislt i was sobbing away........
My mom came in, was crying also cos her 宝贝son in so much pain and told me these enlightening words:

Boy, we are you tearing yourself up?
Have you ever tot what she's doin now?
She prolly partying, enjoying the company of other suitors etc and here you are like that.
At who's expense are you suffering at???
My boy is smart, you know what to do!

She said that and closed the door behind her.
Nabei i tot, here limpeh suffering like siao there you are cheong like siao...that's it, me cannt loose and wont admit defeat..........

Stood up, went to SHAVE, took a good shower, cleaned the room and aired it cos it smells like a KTV when the aircon is off......my room was carpeted fyi

Next nite, ZOUK baby...............I recovered.
Its all in a state of mind dude, remember, one can never garner strength externally, it all comes from within oneself!
Learn from the past, but dun brood over it.
There were happy moments, keep it as a memory.....there were sad moments, take it as a lesson...you'll be a better man......

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

I remembered abt 20yrs ago, when i 1st broke off wif my 1st true luv!
Became a hermid crab, stayed in my own room, kept a beard, looked like osama bin london hehe, didnt eat, just smoke & drink my lungs out in my room and cry cry cry..........so heart broken, so pain, life so no meaning...this went on for almost a month...

I can fully understand your pain. We have all been through break ups with girlfriends and it feels like shit but life goes on.

However, to go through pain and suffering for a WHORE is a different kettle of fish altogether. Anyone who ends up being emotionally attached as a result of a commercial fuck with a prostitute must have a screw loose somewhere.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I can fully understand your pain. We have all been through break ups with girlfriends and it feels like shit but life goes on.

However, to go through pain and suffering for a WHORE is a different kettle of fish altogether. Anyone who ends up being emotionally attached as a result of a commercial fuck with a prostitute must have a screw loose somewhere.

Wat you say does have its essence but we must remember, as bystanders, we can all agree and concur wif your statement but does the one in these kinda situation see it your way or the bystanders way?
Actually, no as we can all very well know by now.
To them, it's as real as the sun and moon.

I remember you created this section only not too long ago...cant be for nottin.
Cos like u said, so many sorry asses have started to come in to whine about all these broken hearted crap which we all can clearly see.
Some to me, genuine as the cases are, need help to steer them back into the light...but not just one blow to make them fall.....but like this DIM WIT who started this thread, yeah he freaking deserves it.

I remember posted not too long ago, this is like that hospital of SBF.
Dude comes in, looks at this section as prolly laughs...bunch of loosers and will never even bother to read anything here....so he actively palys and get inputs from others section but somehow, sometime, he may just have to REPORT SICK here hahahaha

Well, it's all a wheel Sam, wanna screw around, sooner or later will also get screwed...paid or not. Now that's life.