Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[luv2suck]

hmmm ... is that why i get to hook up with so many married men?

currently another married man is trying his very best to get into my panties but i guess i will be patient until he buys me the LV wallet i've been eyeing.

[Botakhead]

Originally Posted by luv2suck

hmmm ... is that why i get to hook up with so many married men?

currently another married man is trying his very best to get into my panties but i guess i will be patient until he buys me the LV wallet i've been eyeing.

So you are naughty and nice?

[look4sex]

Originally Posted by Nokia69

Most bros here are luckier than me.

No sex during 6.5 years of dating, fr uni all the way till marriage. At the very least then, i got to paint her and do the usual stuff except sex. Did not get even a decent bj all these while.

Been married for 7 years now and we probably have sex like 26 times annually. Somehow, 2 lovely kids (boys) appear effortlessly. I brand myself a one time shooter. Sex to the wife is about lying there and the husband finishes the pumping job, even though pussy not lubricated. Btw, foreplay like painting not allowed since 2007.

We are financially very stable so its not the daily stuff that causes low sex drive. I suspect it is her upbringing in a traditional singapore chinese family. Even then, i believe her siblings have slightly higher sex drive..i hope...

I do evny bros here who have had at least good sex in the past. At least these are good memories which i will probably never have.

I hope all bros intending to go into a long term r/s or marriage seriously evaluate if the girl is the right one in all aspects. Otherwise, a lifetime of regrets.

I feel lucky after reading your post. Although I don't have much BJ nowadays but my wife is more engaging with different love-making styles.

[analog]

Originally Posted by Nokia69

Most bros here are luckier than me.

No sex during 6.5 years of dating, fr uni all the way till marriage. At the very least then, i got to paint her and do the usual stuff except sex. Did not get even a decent bj all these while.

Been married for 7 years now and we probably have sex like 26 times annually. Somehow, 2 lovely kids (boys) appear effortlessly. I brand myself a one time shooter. Sex to the wife is about lying there and the husband finishes the pumping job, even though pussy not lubricated. Btw, foreplay like painting not allowed since 2007.

We are financially very stable so its not the daily stuff that causes low sex drive. I suspect it is her upbringing in a traditional singapore chinese family. Even then, i believe her siblings have slightly higher sex drive..i hope...

I do evny bros here who have had at least good sex in the past. At least these are good memories which i will probably never have.

I hope all bros intending to go into a long term r/s or marriage seriously evaluate if the girl is the right one in all aspects. Otherwise, a lifetime of regrets.

Hey Bro:

My heart goes out to you. You need to talk to your wife if you want to change things or....this will blow her away, go see a coucellor on your own? That will get the ball rolling.

Cheers,
jim

[deludedgal]

Originally Posted by Absolute

I am thankful that I have chosen to be single after reading all the sexual woes from so many sexually-frustrated married men here.

I have a friend who is in his 40s and his wife is also not interested in sex starting fromat least 10 years ago. But he really loves his wife and respects her choice.

His philosophy is simple: Man can live life meaningfully without sex. Look at monks. As such, he has developed a hobby he is very passionate about - motor cycles. In fact, he told me that he can clean his motorbike for one entire day without even thinking about sex or copulating his wife and other women.

His advice for sexually-frustrated married man is this: don't see sex as a must-have. Without sex, you are even healthier. Divert your mind to something more constructive such as doing charity work or pursuing a hobby. He believes that our mind is able to help you overcome your sexual desire and live a more fulfilling life.

Good luck!

haha sounds very sad to me sorry... i hope my future marriage dun end up with him looking at cars or me playing with barbie dolls urghs

[Descontructed]

Originally Posted by fixxxer

Glad to see this thread. At least able to pour out some sorrows. Me too married for 04 yrs and just had a kid last year. Everything went downhill after that. At the beginning i too thought the childbirth took the toll on my wife and she needed time to heal herself mentally and physically but coming to nearly a year since my son arrived things haven't changed. We haven't had sex for 2 years due to it being ever since she got pregnant i didn't initiate it to respect her feelings and her cycle of becoming a mum. Before marriage, i was banging her non stop with all kind of passion. She even had a abortion before we got married. Iv'e tried talking to her but nothing seems to happen. I respect the fact that marriage isn't all sex, which is why i walk my own path now from Fuck buddies to Fl's. I'm still man and i ain't no saint. We've decided to stop with one child and i don't see myself having any action with her. Life still goes on even though its painful at times. Gd day my brothers \m/

this is my first post and frankly the exact same problem we facing. It painful.

[deludedgal]

Originally Posted by stone08

"Because whenever my frens comment, in my mind i am thinking "PRETTY SO WHAT!!! CAN FUCK ANOT!
"

this is a gem....the police officer as one of the 44 charged for underaged sex reportedly have a beautiful wife 10 years younger...

so if pretty and can fuck u wont do anything cheeky outside? serious?

[Innoncent$]

Originally Posted by deludedgal

haha sounds very sad to me sorry... i hope my future marriage dun end up with him looking at cars or me playing with barbie dolls urghs

hahaha... you can choose not to play with your barbie dolls...

[fingersling]

my hubby must romance me.

[analog]

Originally Posted by Absolute

I am thankful that I have chosen to be single after reading all the sexual woes from so many sexually-frustrated married men here.

I have a friend who is in his 40s and his wife is also not interested in sex starting fromat least 10 years ago. But he really loves his wife and respects her choice.

His philosophy is simple: Man can live life meaningfully without sex. Look at monks. As such, he has developed a hobby he is very passionate about - motor cycles. In fact, he told me that he can clean his motorbike for one entire day without even thinking about sex or copulating his wife and other women.

His advice for sexually-frustrated married man is this: don't see sex as a must-have. Without sex, you are even healthier. Divert your mind to something more constructive such as doing charity work or pursuing a hobby. He believes that our mind is able to help you overcome your sexual desire and live a more fulfilling life.

Good luck!

Sorry Bro Absolute, I have to call BULLSHIT on this one...

Your friend "respect's her choice"? Fuck that bro....your friend is an idiot.
You buy a TV and find out there is no picture so then you just accept it and listen only to the sound? As if......

Look at monks? A monk DECIDED of his own free will to be that way. The pair of tits he married didn't decide it for him!

No frapping way! I explained to my wife like this:
"I did not get married to become a monk. If this is the life you want, that is fine but its not the life I want NOR is it the life we agreed to have...in a church, in front of hundreds of people....you singed a contract called a marriage license. Decisions yours, sex life or divorce."

Your firend needs to have this duiscussion with his headache...I mean his wife.

This bullshit that women fill their heads with that they can just "decide" to not have sex with their husbands? Sorry, fuck that. Divorce.

Cheers,
jim

[ConorHighlander]

I will post here again when I found a wife.

[kukugun]

Sibei sad to hear all these haizzz

[dynoxx]

Conclusion - Leave kids with relative or whoever. Go on a vacation husband & wife (those very romantic places to go to). Get kinky, take pics, post in SBF for us to wank. Sex life will be better.

[Hotcoffee]

My wife even told me she don't like kissing me. Cause when I kiss I produce a lot of saliva.
It hurts.............

Most of the time when I want to ML, she just tell me no mood. Worse is she also told me I cannot turn her on. CCB to her!!!!

[5ag1_Boar]

Originally Posted by Hotcoffee

My wife even told me she don't like kissing me. Cause when I kiss I produce a lot of saliva.
It hurts.............

Most of the time when I want to ML, she just tell me no mood. Worse is she also told me I cannot turn her on. CCB to her!!!!

Bro, that's called feedback. Be glad she tells you - some bros don't even get that privilege. Now the ball is in your court, do you want curse her behind her back and let things slide? Or do you want to go do something about it? Talk to her, ask her how she likes to be turned on. Ask her how to kiss better. Singapore got sex therapist... check them out. Also have marriage counselors, conventions, etc.

If she say don't want to fix it, then you give her ultimatum.