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19-11-2004, 04:01 PM
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19-11-2004, 04:02 PM
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19-11-2004, 04:10 PM
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19-11-2004, 04:12 PM
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19-11-2004, 04:18 PM
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 Anyway...dun let your emotion run away too far...not meant to be wet blanket but after work...it's back to reality..some's-happy...other's-not-so world 
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19-11-2004, 04:44 PM
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Continue........
Morning came and is the day of my departure, she missed her morning class because of me, partially because I refused to let her leave and also she overlooked the time (we slept at about four am), there is no complaining or a sense of unhappiness. She washed up and helps me to pack my bags, neatly she folded my washed or soiled clothing, remind me of those in the cupboards and bits and pieces lying around. No, I did not ask her to. Yes, she did it willingly. I paid her well and she left. I am not too sure why I posted all these, what am I trying to drive at? I guess it is the sweet, demure kind of someone looking after you feelings still lingers on; you know you are in good hands. We all long for a caring and gentle girl to be with, long for something where we cannot judge by look but only when we venture into it, touch it, feel it and experience it. She does exude all the feelings I long for, like an aura surrounding her, simply irresistible and one feel so comfortable with her. Her soft and gentle approach makes you wanna protect her and look after her. Patience in her eyes tells you otherwise that she disagrees with you but will to question or challenge you. All her actions show that she does understand that she is not alone, she knows and understands your presence, paying sufficient attention to your needs and emotions. This is by far the best LT I’ve ever had. Coming back to Singapore, I really wonder : Is it that we guys demand too much or simply education and western influence had totally change the concept of a woman being a woman? I still have problems coming to term these days with the attitude of a stipulating woman, who does not spare a thought for your feelings, reckless words piercing you heart where at times your pride and dignity are better left frozen in the fridge. I mean there are good gals out there as well but when come to compare with the Thai gals I’ve met, seems they can’t hold a candle to them. Generally I feel the Thai gals seem to be submissive but that does not mean they are pushover. Main difference is that they know how to handle their man well; they know when to boost their ego and when to let go. As I said, they keep quiet does not mean that you are right but simply they do not want to start a fight but will not broad over the matter. Gals I’ve seen locally, seems to fit more in this Cantonese saying: ”Even if you fall down, you still wanna grab a handful of sand”. Meaning: she will not take the beating lying low even though she is the one at fault, she still wanna fight back with some absurd reasoning. Personally, I had seen too much of these happening to friends who ended as divorce or breaking up. Guys had been taking a step backward once more than too often and hence cultivate the mindset of the gals to be more demanding; we had been pampering them too much. Gals took it in their stride and slowly things become a benchmark. Look at all the feminine magazines where some ‘champs’ fail in their marriage and claim to become happier and preaches female power……….Is this healthy, May I ask? Perhaps man used to be the dominating sex but slowly but surely tables had turned, this is for the good but I hope that woman does not over do it, when the rope gets tight, something is gonna snap.
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19-11-2004, 05:14 PM
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19-11-2004, 07:13 PM
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Girls? I'll tell u bros about my ex.
I treated her like a princess. Buy whatever for her, get her food, drinks, ask if the food is nice, then feed her with my own. Then, sometimes, when I'm tired or eating halfway, I'll ask her to get some soy sauce/chili for me. She would reply "go get ur own pls, what do u think I am?". I begged pls pls, I always get u things and her reply "ur problem I never ask u to get me". Whenever we're out together, she'll be so quiet, I'll be the one cheering us up. I asked her to tell her dad about some problem since hes working on that department, she'll answer me "not my problem, pls don't tell me about it". I'll tell her "it's not difficult to open ur mouth, im ur bf!" she replied "bf? So what?? U think ur jesus?" Then on many occasions I'll tell her I'm treating you as an equal, I never see you as a gal or whatever. Why do you think I'm treating you badly? She'll reply "bullshit, i feel guys are so inferiour!" then proceeded to put this MSG in her MSN :gals and guys should never be equal - gals should be above, they are more the successful race. Eh? Then finally broke with me, complained I treated her too badly. Example, when we're out, we walk past a shop, then blames me for not knowing she likes that. Or when she's at work, i sms-ed her, she would complain, are you blind?? I'm working for a deadline now! Or when I'm sick, she would tell me so what? There're people with worse cases! Whenever I get her vitamins, etc she would jut take it wihtout saying anyway. Still thinks I treated her bad, becauce her father said he 'observed' I'm cool to his daughter. Duh, of course, you're shy in front of parents!! but she listens to her father When walking, I'd hold her hands, and when climbing stairs, I'd hold her stomach, treated her like procelaine glass and hugged her. I've done so much.. I really don't know how she thinks. I'm around 6 feet, 60kg and muscular, she is 4feet 1 or less 56kg . BUt I've been told by her, I'm ugly, I'm skinny, I'm short, pimply faced, no gals would ever want me, hmm Now I went back to studies, she broke with me, saying I'm poor, treated her badly, her dad doesnt like those. I got 6 gals chasing after me currently though, they never believed my story.
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19-11-2004, 07:18 PM
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Ohya I must add, at one time her life was in danger, I was on the lookout for her and told myself I'm going to die for her, if anything goes wrong. Then her father tells her I'm useless, doesn't concern have concern for his daughter, never feed her, well he base it on what he observe. Tells her there're way better ones, she listens too.
I don't know what can be more selfless and concerned than giving her my own life? But there're quite a lot of gals who fancies me in the past, but I stick to her, never once cheated. Oh well, c'est la vie
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20-11-2004, 08:48 AM
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21-11-2004, 01:21 PM
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21-11-2004, 03:22 PM
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21-11-2004, 06:41 PM
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While some of my m'sian colleagues (males) see it as their duty to meet up to these needs and expectations, I still view it as an endless episode, especially since the girls today deem it as a divine right to ask for more. To put in this way, their mindsets go like, "if my ex can do it, so must you." sigh... Quote:
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The problem with them is that, once you give in, they think its their privilege to chew you inside out. Sigh.... To them, I only have this unpleasant measure. ie, to flash my new plastic cards and complain to them that I don't have a loving and faithful gf and continue to turn down their dates everytime. Gotta love the look on their faces.
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21-11-2004, 06:51 PM
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21-11-2004, 07:02 PM
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It also means that there is no need to bluff anyone, when going out to buy that brand new laptop or latest soccer collectible or even a new rally car (real one, I mean). I can still remember that time when I was attached, I had to try all types of means and measures to bluff my ex before being able to head out for fun. Even after I could go head out, she would still haunt me with SMSes like "what to eat", "where to go" and "what to see". Sheesssshhhh. My days with her was sheer horror and hell, with no time for myself to smell roses and *cough* see gorgeous sweet young damsels. She would always spoil my day with her mood swings. Once I thought I had the entire midnight to play videogames with my pal, she SMSed me non-stop on her nightmare. Even when I fell asleep, I could still see images of her holding tight to my leg refusing to let me sleep in peace. Thank goodness it ended. Must go pray. XD
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i once had a gf who did not have much education and not very streetwise, so a bit naive. got bored (not very good at understanding what i was saying) and found another one who could stimulate me intellectually. then got played out by her big time. till now, still don't know what i want, so decided to stay single until enlightenment or death, whichever is earlier. 
