How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[Xgenre]

I think being KC-ed is like the act of walking into a deep well. You might drown (life gets seriously damaged) or you might get rescued (friends wake you up or your $0 bank account wakes her up). I think there are possibly 2 ways of being KC-ed.

1. The unknowing victim - Guy is so blinded or inexperienced that he doesn't recognise that he is being KC-ed. Whatever bystanders see or say, he's not interested to know. He just looks through the world through his blinkered eyes. Happily ever after really exists to him. This type ah... Die already also don't know. Just like walk blindly and step into a well.

2. The adventurer - You know WLs will apply KC to you. You still want to play along to see if you get extract yourself from a sticky situation. Why? Well, if i never get KC-ed, how will I know if i can resist being KC-ed? We never learn how to swim by standing around the pool right? Must plunge into the pool to see if we can learn the swimming skills to survive against KC mah. It's like you see a well. You recognise the danger of falling into a well. But you purposely jump in to see if you can dig your way out. Know any friends like this?

To the adventurer types, my only answer is... you have not met a master of KC yet. Your time will come. Even the best swimmers will drown in rough seas. The real danger to these guys is when they have survived numerous KC attempts. They let their guard down and think that they will never be KC-ed. Especially so when these guys get experienced and older and the age gap between them and the WLs increase. When they are 30+ years old, to get compliments from a 30 year old WL is no big deal. But when they are 50+ years old, the same stupid compliment from a 30 year old WL suddenly sounds like music. When these guys finally get KC-ed, it's worse than anything. They don't understand that the PRC ladies of today are much better at sweet-talking than the Malaysian ladies of the 90's era.

The reason why I'm writing this post is because a good mahjong kaki recently divorced his wife, sold off his business, failed to clear his mahjong debts and gets 'banned' from gatherings with his long-time friends. All because of a PRC lady. Yes, he has been cheonging for decades. Even gave me advice and reminders over the last decade. 'Young man, what happens in the KTV stays in the KTV.' Sigh... Just to let out some frustration. Eric ah... Eric...

[warbird]

To all esteemed samsters,

I like to give my 2 cents on the subject.

Getting KC-ed by or falling in love w/ a WL happens on the subconscious level, in the primitive areas of the brain. It's a form of addiction, not unlike drug addiction, which is mediated by various neuro-transmitters. The logical n rational higher brain can't easily prevent nor overcome "KC trap."

In my personal experience, the most effective method to get un-KC-ed, if u r falling for the wrong person, is by meditation/self hypnosis which reprograms ur subconscious mind.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[qsnake]

Originally Posted by warbird

To all esteemed samsters,

I like to give my 2 cents on the subject.

Getting KC-ed by or falling in love w/ a WL happens on the subconscious level, in the primitive areas of the brain. It's a form of addiction, not unlike drug addiction, which is mediated by various neuro-transmitters. The logical n rational higher brain can't easily prevent nor overcome "KC trap."

In my personal experience, the most effective method to get un-KC-ed, if u r falling for the wrong person, is by meditation/self hypnosis which reprograms ur subconscious mind.

Cheers!

Bro WB

can you recommend some literature on the topic of meditation/ self hypnosis ? would like to explore techniques in this area and see how effective this is. I do have my doubts if these techniques can work. The human mind cannot be simply reprogrammed, it takes a lot of time to get into a certain behavior pattern that is at odds with your basic character makeup.

If I can change a child who's naturally playful and inattentive to someone who enjoys studying through the process of meditation or hypnosis, the technique would earn big bucks for the company that incorporate these into it's child enrichment programs. So far, have yet to hear of such success in these programs.

[qsnake]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

The reason why I'm writing this post is because a good mahjong kaki recently divorced his wife, sold off his business, failed to clear his mahjong debts and gets 'banned' from gatherings with his long-time friends. All because of a PRC lady. Yes, he has been cheonging for decades. Even gave me advice and reminders over the last decade. 'Young man, what happens in the KTV stays in the KTV.' Sigh... Just to let out some frustration. Eric ah... Eric...

the best defense against KC is not to go to the well in the first place. Once you enter into the land of temptation, sooner or later, you will succum to the lures of these crafty females.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

2. The adventurer - You know WLs will apply KC to you. You still want to play along to see if you get extract yourself from a sticky situation. Why? Well, if i never get KC-ed, how will I know if i can resist being KC-ed?

To the adventurer types, my only answer is... you have not met a master of KC yet.

hhhmmm... my cheong buddy told me I am too pamapered by the viet gals I KC.
He say now I meet my match... meet someone hard to KC and I fell in the trap myself.

Originally Posted by warbird

The logical n rational higher brain can't easily prevent nor overcome "KC trap."

In my personal experience, the most effective method to get un-KC-ed, if u r falling for the wrong person, is by meditation/self hypnosis which reprograms ur subconscious mind

I got to reprogram my mind liao..i think my heart as well.
Let me see how can I do it and become stronger.

[teteku]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

when you feel depress when you never see her or hear from her.
when you feel jealous when she is with someone else.
when you feel happy even with just a 'good night' sms.
when you feel very happy with just a hug from her.
when you open mouth, close mouth also about her.
when you cannot concentrate on everything.... just thinking of her every minute.
when you forget everything after seeing her even she make you very angry.
when you just wanna be with her but not thinking of bonking her.

the list can go on and on...
These are my feeling for the pass 1 month...

Hi bro,
welcome to the club I am about there too with a thai girl and she is pregnant with someone else baby.
In a way, it is safer to date an FL than a normal girl.
What is the different between a cock teaser from an FL?
There are both out to get something from us, most likely money.
For me the one that gives me a genuine feeling is fine by me.
What is the use of getting a brand new car that is unreliable and breaks down a whole lot. When in a "RARE" occasion a used taxi could/would be a better value.
Mind you in "RARE" "RARE" "RARE"
It is how I view about having a relationship with an FL.
Who does not want a normal girl for a girlfriend, but sometimes it may not be that easy.

Cheers.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Even the best swimmers will drown in rough seas. The real danger to these guys is when they have survived numerous KC attempts. They let their guard down and think that they will never be KC-ed. Especially so when these guys get experienced and older and the age gap between them and the WLs increase.

My empathy to your Eric friend...

U pointed out a good reminder for me, as I've always been thinking I'm a good swimmer too Not that I've never cum close to drowning before, but the thought of these sexperiences never killing me and making me stronger seems wrong too - with age and complacency thrown in.

It's a risky game and even if you win at one of them, the issues after taking the trophy are very sticky too. When they win, we loose our family and/or wealth. If we win, they loose their youth and possibly the will to live on (been there too!). It's all a game of lies, deception, betrayal, secrecy and deceit.

Maybe like the other bro says, it's an addiction - it's a sickness and disease.

Help! Help!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by qsnake

can you recommend some literature on the topic of meditation/ self hypnosis ? would like to explore techniques in this area and see how effective this is. I do have my doubts if these techniques can work. The human mind cannot be simply reprogrammed, it takes a lot of time to get into a certain behavior pattern that is at odds with your basic character makeup.

If I can change a child who's naturally playful and inattentive to someone who enjoys studying through the process of meditation or hypnosis, the technique would earn big bucks for the company that incorporate these into it's child enrichment programs. So far, have yet to hear of such success in these programs.

Hi bro gsnake,

There r many good sources, all FOC. Just google meditation/self hypnosis n take it from there.

It has worked very well in my personal experience. I intentionally allow some KC for my current mistress so that I could better enjoy the love making n her companionship...

You hv to learn the basic method n then practice. It may only take a few sessions to be effective. If you r deeply in love, perhaps it may take more sessions...

Cheers!

Bro WB

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I got to reprogram my mind liao..i think my heart as well.
Let me see how can I do it and become stronger.

Hi bro KangTuo,

Yes, we can all reprogram our subconscious mind using meditation n/or self hypnosis.

He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still. Lao Zi

Pls let us know how well u hv done.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro KangTuo,

Yes, we can all reprogram our subconscious mind using meditation n/or self hypnosis.

He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still. Lao Zi

Pls let us know how well u hv done.

For the 1 month that this viet gal (Linh) is here, I am basically concentrating on her, getting to know her better and treating her well. I forgo all other viet gals that I having in sillypore. I am so much in love with her that all my cheong buddy say I am KC-ed deep deep by her.

During the 1 month of 'courtship', Linh is cold towards me sometime. It makes me feel that I am losing her to some other guys (customer). But I will make a call to a few viet gals whom I already KC-ed. Talk to them, KC them and it make me regain some confidence in myself.

I listen to what my cheong buddies say. During the 'courtship' with Linh, I always ask about their opinion. 'pan guan zhe qing, jin gan zhe mi'. After listening to my cheong buddies, I step back abit, changed my tactic on tackling Linh. For this, I managed to continue tackling, but pull back 50% of my $$ that i am preparing to spend on her.

She left yesterday and within 1/2 a day, I have reprogrammed my mind.

How?
Nothing is REAL in this cheonging world. The love is all fake. The only REAL love is my galfriend in vietnam. Just by calling her and talking to her makes me feel so comfortable. I will be flying there to meet my girlfirend. This TRUE love makes me recover fast.


I am thinking of my next move with Linh if she comes back...
1) cut off totally
2) play along with her again since I know her 'move' better
3) tell her straight that I got no more money to help her and see what she will do.

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Nothing is REAL in this cheonging world. The love is all fake.

agreed with you bro.... meanwhile gd luck to u and take gd care....

[MaMister]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How?
Nothing is REAL in this cheonging world. The love is all fake. The only REAL love is my galfriend in vietnam. Just by calling her and talking to her makes me feel so comfortable. I will be flying there to meet my girlfirend. This TRUE love makes me recover fast.

Err.. Bro... I don't quite understand leh...

First you say nothing is real...

Then only real love is your girlfriend in vietnam...

[goodpartner]

The only REAL moment in this cheonging world is when u CUM.... having paid the price for that moment

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by MaMister

Err.. Bro... I don't quite understand leh...

First you say nothing is real...

Then only real love is your girlfriend in vietnam...

Bro, nothing is real in this cheonging scene
The anh yeu em, em yeu anh are all bullshit.

I have a girlfriend of 4 years in vietnam. Her love for me is real. Just like love from family is real.

no confuse hor...
I do not mean the other girlfriends I get to know in KC and GL

[colins]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Bro, nothing is real in this cheonging scene
The anh yeu em, em yeu anh are all bullshit.

I have a girlfriend of 4 years in vietnam. Her love for me is real. Just like love from family is real.

no confuse hor...
I do not mean the other girlfriends I get to know in KC and GL

Bro KangTuo, do you love your girlfriend of 4 years?

[MaMister]

Ya man bro.. you mention her love for you but not your love for her....