How to get my FB back?

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by buducidal

Gentlemen I fear that your logical arguments will not appeal to the feminine psyche. They will only act if they an emotional motivation otherwise we are just trying to water the concrete and expect it to magically grow grass

hehehe spot on man. wat they need r charbo KC master/guru/expert to help them.

[geckoSG]

TS. U have breached the rule of an FB for a attached/married man.

Now that his partner knows about you, please let him go. If he still wants
to continue with you, he will contact you later. In the mean time, move
on...

If he doesn't continue with you, move on... If you keep insisting on clinging
onto him, its no longer FB status, U have already emotionally attached to
him... Since he asked for stop. U should know how to back off.

Give yourself some respect that you deserve, why continue to pester him?
Will you want to stop only when his partner makes a big fuss at your office
and make you lose your job?

Think it this way, the happy moments are over, cherish the memories and
move on... Both of you will be happier this way.

[wolfgang999]

Originally Posted by elaiinee

Would like to get advise from bros here....

I had a FB a mth ago....all was well till I ruin things n now he is avoidin mi....can advise how can I get him back?

you can't get him back, move on and find another FB lah. Lots of horny guys out there anyway, and next time dun be too sticky.

[jojogigi]

Originally Posted by elaiinee

Everything was fine till I wrote him a letter of confession sayin I want to see him happy as he is not happy at all with the current so-called wife. They r not legally married. He is with her by force I can say...bros out here....as a guy...would u like ur wife to control ur finances? I think so rite? He did share with mi that he is with her is more for responsibility...n he have his needs...thats y he dun think twice if he got the chance to have a FB...cos he say in his 1st marriage he was really faithful to his wife...he got 4 kids from the 1st marriage....

Anyway, I pass him the letter n the nxt day as it was rainin so I SMS him n told him how I wish I could go pick him up as it is rainin...n ended the SMS with miss him lots as usual.....then his reply was he read the letter n he wish to stop n he said sorry...thats when I started to call him but he refuse to pick up as he is at work....then when he finally pick up he say he is busy when I ask whether can we mit up that nite or the nxt nite but he say he is busy n hang up.

I jus wan an answer n a chance to explain to him so ended up I keep on callin him n he off his phone. Cos I regretted writing him the letter cos I realise it is not wat I wan...I jus wan him for sex n nothing else..not like wat I wrote in the letter. After callin him a few more times in the evenin n he din pick up...I gave up...then came his reply tellin mi not to keep on callin....so I reply him tellin him to forgive mi n sorry abt it n promise I will b good....end up his reply was dun b irritating..my wife dun like...pls mind ur words....

At that moment then I realise he was with the wife...cos the wife checks his phone....end up in the middle of the nite I got a SMS send from his phone n not by him...tellin mi off....which is send by the wife...

As it was the wkends so I din call or SMS him. Tried callin him only on Wed but he jus refuse to answer....then on the same nite I got SMS from the wife threaten mi....2 SMS in fact....sayin whether I am in love with her hubby...say she will make sure I will have no face or pride to stay at my workplace if I continue to pester her hubby...both SMS threaten mi....y she say that cos she used to work at the same company as the hubby...thats where they noe each other....

Enough details?

it seems u have alot feelings for this guy that is more than a FB. 1st u must accept u like/love him. Ur actions says it all. 2nd thing. is you need to realise this problem. If he's refusing to meet or talk to you only means one thing. You are irrtating and he's doesnt want you anymore. As hard as the fact is. Its the truth. And the truth is hard to swallow like a bitter medicine. But how hard this bitter medicine is.. you must swallow. Cause its good for you.
3rd is the solution. You have to let go. I dunno how you gonna do it... find another FB... go disco.. find some other guys to replace him. I'm sure it can be done. Not easy but can be done. You see.. so many potential FBs willing to show you their stick. (sorry... im gay. I like to be arse fugged) hohoho.

i believe you have all ur answers here by our bros. You just need to accept the fact and apply the solution.

[darkangel]

The qoutes and sayings in this thread are so enlightening and entertaining, 2 thumbs up to all.

[silent:hunter]

Elieen,

We are all born differntly. In terms of looks, thinking, lust... Surely the methods that each individuals handles issues are different.

Totally agree with some bros here. First, you need to understand the rules of the game. It seems that you have breached it in the first place by sending the letter. And probably scares him alittle. And by the persistant calls and smses, it made things worst. What is the ulitamate that you have done that you persistantly, stickly, smsed him. By , i reckon, at that point of time, his wife probably has seen the smses. And the guy is already in deep shit.. and probably there is a HUGH quarrels, in the midst of your smses.. what do u expect him to do at that moment?

my guess is that probably his wife has confiscated his hp in waiting for more of your sms. To really "find" out what is happening between you and him. And from your smses, she probably would have know most of the things.. So wat do u expect him(yr FB) to do? My guess is that he is probably at the mercy of the wife... sadly.

Advise is common. To stop watever you are doing. If u even thing of getting the FB back, then give him some time to sort out his own mess. Stay clear.. by persisting, it would make matter worst. If in the end, things does not work out, then their are always so many "cars" in the car-mart that you can get. why still presist on the old car when it has already a very "controlling" owner? she will never sell you the car, and the car would probably never prefer you as a owner too.

thus, advise is to stay far. find a new car..

enjoy life, dont complicate it.