16 years old and pregnant

[Xgenre]

1. Confirm if she's pregnant first ok? Cos teenagers do have irregular periods.

2. If you don't dare to buy pregnancy kit, PM me. I'll go buy for you and pass it to you somewhere ok? I can pay the cost of the pregnancy kits for you too out of sympathy. I do mean it. No need to repay me in any way.

3. I know you are a young boy who is scared out of his wits now. You got to calm down to do steps 1 and 2 first. We can help you as much as we can but you must also co-operate with our advice right?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Bro Xgenre, kowtow and respects to you!!!!!!
And who said SBF only have sex starved dudes.............there're lots of angels in disguise too
Kudos bro

[waiwaiz]

Maybe u can get your gf to read this thread on what most of the samsters say. Lots of father around, meaning they can give you best advice. both your parents will eventually know abt it no matter which road u go..........

Have a man to man talk with your father.......

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[Stud00]

Bro TS,
I have read the various replies that the fellow Bro's in here have offered you.

Here's what i would suggest..

1) Have a man to man talk with your parents first and then together with your girlfriend's parents. End of the day, in plain joe, if you dare to screw, be man enough to take the heat.

2) I won't propose that your girlfriend undergo an abortion. Because, honestly it would scald her for life and believe me, undergoing an abortion is a really traumatic experience.. just imagine someone sticking something up your ass (since you don't have a pussy). Yea! that's it, same feeling. And if an abortion isn't done well, that would be lots of side effect, i.e bleeding.. and if the shit hit the fan.. she would never be a mother again.

I understand that both of you are young, and many of us here have gone through your experience, hell..! we were all young before. Some of our bro's here are fathers... the thing to note is that we are not perfect and we make mistakes.. but the thing is, how far do you wanna carry your mistake to? Abortion is committing murder, and it doesn't matter whatever religion you believe in. You are taking a life and sugar-coating it wont help jack shit.

Talk to your parents and her parents, sit down and find a solution.. and please don't make harsh decisions.

Regards.

[madix]

You are young and you know your mistake.

Do the right thing and don't let karma haunt you in future.
She is young too. You have erred once already. If there are any complications to her abortion(touch wood), you won't be able to face her parents. Let them know please.

To guys who do not support abortion, do understand their age and their maturity level to become parents. They probably can't even handle themselves well enough, let alone bring up a child. If there could be a choice, and we are living in the 60s, this isn't a problem.

This is serious, and you can't just sweep it under the carpet by keeping mum.

[sneixd]

Hey,

I'll keep mine brief.. ?

First thing U need to do is to go get her tested on a pregnancy kit. No IDs what-so-ever from Guardian or Watsons. Just tell them it's for Ur older sister whose shy to buy?? Something like that along the lines..

Be Cool & let her do the test early next morning. Take the first shot of the urine sample and that'll decide Ur Fate later. It's true some bros. mentioned young girls' cycle are irregular with late night's sleep and stress.

My Gf. Ur age scared the shit out of me too but that 2 weeks was quite an experience. ONCE confirmed positive THEN pluck Ur guts to think of how to face the parents lah.. So, just chill. I was lucky.

~ and last thing, obviously Ur gf. is not comfortable telling her parents just like mine man. so, abortion wise can be done provided U find an Adult Guarantor to consent whatever contracts some bros. wrote above..

~ about the test kits, i still have spares man. lols. but you better get new ones. just be sure.

[Skinstad]

bro..talk to ur parents..they will surely help

[Recast]

Originally Posted by hellopanda

Dear Sammyboy big brothers

Thank you for your time. I'm nearly 16, and i accidentally got my gf pregnant, shes few months of 16 already, at least 2 months before pregnancy.

since TS not even 16yo, will his gf get in trouble for having sex with a minor aka TS?

Hope TS know what he to do as many bros here have given him valuable suggestions. Hey TS, u already didnt use your head when bonking, u better use it now as it coming back to haunt u.

[BoLiang]

abortation requires ur parents signature since both of u are under 16. buying a test kit is 20 odd dollars at most, easily available at any watson or guardian stalls. Buy 1 and test lo. If really hit jackpot, pls talk to parents. No point hiding as ppl will find out sooner or later.

[wildbeast]

Boy hellopanda!

Listen up here! Just get a self-test pregnancy kit from any pharmacy and verify first!!!!

if really your GF is pregnant, go discuss with your parents right away!!!

PERIOD!

[strikeking73]

Prepare to get fine (age below 18); at least $10000.
Preapare to pay for abortion; more than $300++
Prepare to get scold; Free
Prepare to kill your own baby; Guilty

[Megatronzombie]

I think TS gone into hiding liao ;p

[Rolex-King]

I think we shud not be frightening TS by saying report police, rape, etc etc..
I got a friend whose daughter n bf is below 16 and got pregnant, they got married and had the baby...its their choice... I dun think any police will jail the young man if he takes responsibility. Unless TS hurt the girl by forcing her to abort secretly and then there is harm to her body etc...her parent will definitely get mad and report TS.

All the bros are right...go get a test kit, test first then decide step 2.
Step 2 shud be just go tell yr parents...kena scolding better than seeing the police later.

As for my friend, he laughed at his son and then help him out of this mess..so dun worry so much.

[HPoirot]

i suggest you get a pregnancy test done now.

you can buy one from any pharmacy. this is no time to be shy, you've got to be responsible. and it's easier to abort (if you're going down that road) earlier in the term.

you can't really decide what to do before knowing if she's really pregnant right? so why not just take it one step at a time. but you really need to act NOW.

and i'm quite sure there are no age restrictions on that and condoms too.

even though i've had my ID checked in 7-11 before when buying CD. but that's besides the point.

[Feidao]

This is a common teenage problem. I was in such a fix a long long time ago when I was bout your age. Pregnancy was confirmed. I confided in a male teacher and he settled everything for me without even informing my parents. He even paid for the abortion from his own pocket. So TS may want to confide in a male teacher in your school.