Your thoughts please..

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by ol'coyote

dear stud00...congrats...u get to move on...
dump her now...she's not worth keeping...
me knoe wat u feeling...

Short but sweet.. but now i see what u mean! cheers!

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by HungerAwaken

Bro TS,

I agree with other bros here.
I'm also not in good shape with my so call ex-gf.
So I understand the feeling u have to struggle if u love her and cannot let her go from ur life.

But u know, no offense sis, I think this kind of situations born a player from a very caring and faithful boyfriend!
I feel like being played!
I rather b a player!
That hateness born!

Good luck bro!
U know what to do, but the thing is ur emotion is blocking u to do!
Same here, I'm also in the same situation.

So good luck again bro!

BRO.. i think we just hv to tell ourselves that they aint worth it. thats about all. Better now then later..

[skkan]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Dear Bros/Sis..

Just wanna your honest opinon on this:

Gf tells Bf that the reason why she strays and fucks another guys is because:

1) You are always too busy for me, you got no time for me.
2) Your work is everything.

What do you guys think?

Then fuck her lor, convert her to fb lor!

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by HungerAwaken

But u know, no offense sis, I think this kind of situations born a player from a very caring and faithful boyfriend!
I feel like being played!
I rather b a player!
That hateness born!

this is just a rebound feeling.
later on when you meet a really decent girl, you will revert back to your former self.
nobody stays a player for all his life...

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by fourhorseman

Don't buy a puppy off the shelf simply because it looks cutes. Puppies grow up and they have feelings.

Nuff said

WTFF!! LOL!!! thats some darn cute way to put it lo!

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by skkan

Then fuck her lor, convert her to fb lor!

Bro, nope.. quite impossible. i don't even wanna touch her.
Period.

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by fourhorseman

glad you like it.

I wanted to use flowers, but most guys connect better to doggy more than flowers.

LOL!!! Doggy.. Yes i do like doggy..:X punk intended.. darn.. u made my day!

[soccerboot]

I think it is the same for men and women. Once they did something wrong, they will find reasons or excuses to support it. My ex told me off when i questioned her whether she is seeing other guy behind my back. She said I dont trust her and she was faithful. Then, on Monday she actually notify me thru email that she want a break off. Of course, I asked her why and can it be saved. She replied she have no feeling for me and she already seeing someone. In the end, I exclaimed that she told me white lie then, she admitted to it. The funny thing is she even posted on facebook that she was at the guy place yesterday night! Good luck to the guy taking over me!

[GongCB]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Dear Bros/Sis..

Just wanna your honest opinon on this:

Gf tells Bf that the reason why she strays and fucks another guys is because:

1) You are always too busy for me, you got no time for me.
2) Your work is everything.

What do you guys think?

Dude,
I would like to tell my current gf that:
"The reason why i have anither gf outside is because u are always so busy for me, n u still give princess attitude when i show a bit of concern. Fuck off!"

I think its tit for tat. when a r/s becomes unbalanced, one party will just want to do something to spite the other. Perhaps u are unlucky that ur gf end up like what i did. But for me another gal happen to come in at the right time. I dont think i made a wrong choice coz she treated me well, cooks for me n brings the food to me occasionally. Massage me when i feel v tired from work. Best of all, gave me lots of unmemorable xxx! Its v rare that a local woman treat a men so well especially in Spore.

Mate, u need to recall if ur gf has ever done many memorable sacrifices for you, which are priceless. Or was it you who have done more for her? if the answer is the latter, pls dont grief over what ur gf did to you. In fact you should be glad u finally saw her true colors n now u can move on to look for another gal, tat hopefully can be ur next wife who dotes on u!

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by GongCB

Dude,
I would like to tell my current gf that:
"The reason why i have anither gf outside is because u are always so busy for me, n u still give princess attitude when i show a bit of concern. Fuck off!"

I think its tit for tat. when a r/s becomes unbalanced, one party will just want to do something to spite the other. Perhaps u are unlucky that ur gf end up like what i did. But for me another gal happen to come in at the right time. I dont think i made a wrong choice coz she treated me well, cooks for me n brings the food to me occasionally. Massage me when i feel v tired from work. Best of all, gave me lots of unmemorable xxx! Its v rare that a local woman treat a men so well especially in Spore.

Mate, u need to recall if ur gf has ever done many memorable sacrifices for you, which are priceless. Or was it you who have done more for her? if the answer is the latter, pls dont grief over what ur gf did to you. In fact you should be glad u finally saw her true colors n now u can move on to look for another gal, tat hopefully can be ur next wife who dotes on u!

Dear bro, thanks for your sharing.
Honestly, after all my reflecting. i think it's ME that did everything, i gave my 101% but this is what i get.. so in the words of many ppl.. GOOD RIDDANCE!!

[DaveC65]

If you're up for it, it would be a bonus if you can meet up with your ex-gf's new boyfriend. Just meet up in a public place so he can't pull any stupid stunts. Sit down with him, look at him straight in the eye and tell him everything. You've never hit her and you could be guilty of neglecting her but since then, you've come to realize her true character of cheating behind your back. Then shake his hand and say, "Thank you for saving my life because if you didn't come along and do what you did, I would be in much deeper shit than I am now. I wish you both the best and good luck but be careful with your heart and wallet." Smile and walk away. That would be the most satisfying thing you can do to close this chapter in your life.

[Stud00]

nah bro.. don need to talk so much with him. let him find out the hard way. i am a gentleman.. don need to do such a thing.

[Stud00]

It's been almost a month since my break up with my ex..
I just wanna say thank you to all the bros and sis in the forum who offered encouragements and advices... u know who u r.

And i stand here today, telling all those that might be going through the same fate or worst then me, that there is always a light in the midst of the darkness!

i quote..
If u're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward u with a new hello. -Paulo Coelho..

[blohsg]

Good to see you walking out of the woods ... Plenty of other forests to explore ... Excellent quote

[Stud00]

thanks bro