23 year old still no girl friend , no sex experience...

[FarAway]

The joy lies in the hunt bro, don't waste your first time in FLs la, get up and do things, inactivity will get you nowhere..

[soulblader]

Thank you so much,

I understand the point you all making, yes I got low self esteem, low confidence all that

Usually people in NS will ask me, I got how many GFs, when I replied, "no have"

The guys in army will like...shock...

They will say: "so still virgin huh..."

I can lie, but I choose not to, I prefer to frank with myself, for years I don't really care abt being single

Go geylang is never my option, I spend so much time waiting for the right one, yet no girl is like interested in me...

Slowly I don't know whether I am looking for a girlfriend or sex partner...maybe both...

Sometimes I see my friend with chiobu girlfriend, I so admired. I don't want to go geylang,,,but why I always have to masturbate, why no girl like me...

How can I increase self esteem?

[CoolLad]

Are you going to tell your future gf that you lost your cherry in GL?

[jolenekoh]

same age as you. fuck whores frequently. pm me if u wanna fuck whores with me

[Apocalypse]

Originally Posted by CoolLad

Are you going to tell your future gf that you lost your cherry in GL?

tell her u r virgin

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah can meet gals in grad school, work, shopping, through free ends etc. braddah whatever you do don't go the GL route. see what happened to a lot of the braddahs on SBF spend all their money at GL and very angry at people giving good advice just because they have sad lives. Braddah you can read all the posts about how desperate they are for sex spending lots of money at hotel 81 and other sex hotels.

[Apocalypse]

Originally Posted by Bitmask

Brother,

Girls must jio one. They will never come to you. From my experiences, those that come to you is because they want something from you. E.g. sell insurance , ask for homework help, ask to fix computer, borrow software etc.

haha strange la. In NS most of my unit pple all never had gfs. Those that had/have are more of the exception than the rule.

Apocalypse, you are referring to soccerboot ah? The guy who can make a guy lose his virginity in 3 days?

he promised sgfellows to let him lose his virginity in less than 3 days mah

[LovePotion]

no matter wat don't lose your virginiity in a house... as in geylang brothels... go anyhow sian a chick and fuck also better than go let those prostitute eat away your virgin....

[Amen84OMEN]

soulblader bro, u really r not alone~ i oso nv have gf be4...& a V too...few more yrs older den u some more. so i understand ur urge of goin to geylang...the tot crosses my mind everytime mi n my stupid fren pass by..but once u do it, there's no turnin back.
ppl always say go out meet gal, but i knoe its not easy(go out means can get gals/gf?)...my humble advise, if you are studying now, get a part time job in F&B line...get to know other staffs(gals), or befriend a guy who can intro u some new frens~ just my humble 1 cent~

wish u luck soulblader, don end up like moi~

[Taisho75]

Originally Posted by soulblader

Go geylang is never my option, I spend so much time waiting for the right one, yet no girl is like interested in me...Slowly I don't know whether I am looking for a girlfriend or sex partner...maybe both...

Sometimes I see my friend with chiobu girlfriend, I so admired. I don't want to go geylang,,,but why I always have to masturbate, why no girl like me...

How can I increase self esteem?

LOL.... Bro, dun wait.....girls will not come to you. Chiobu is for admire only, the more chio they are, the less likely your chance to know her as she know many guys are waiting to up her. Dun show you are desperade, it will turn many girls off.

I dunno how you look or what your character is, you know yourself best. Do with what you have. If a fat man can get a pretty lady as a wife or girlfriend(chio korean actress with fat BF case), you cannot say you cannot. No matter how average a person is, there will be a lady who will like who you are. Go out hunting...

After you get your first GF, your self esteem will be greatly increased. After that anything also can...

[Hardstick15by5]

Originally Posted by soulblader

I think I need to go Geylang, I am a bit running out of patience

I feel some of my friend is laughing at me, I want a gf, I am willing to do anything...I am a man too.

If I cant find a gf b4 30 year old? I always remain as virgin?? cannot be right? OMG!!

what shld I do now...

Hey man! worry not! I had he same experience as you!

My solemn advice.. be nice to the women you target, thing is.. you may not be getting them now, but maybe in a few months or even years time, they'd be coming to you for a good wild session, on a regular basis.. Just try and build up trust and understand their problems.. once you gain that, you're pretty much in already.. but don't be there all the time.. just every now and then, so that they won't see you as a friend..

here's my story to share with you.. to date, i've hooked up with

4 friend's moms
3 of my former teachers
9 colleagues
several friends who showed no signs of interest in fking at first..
My Cheating godpa's super smooth skin wife.

http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=271413

pardon my morals.. but these women I only had fantasies about, they turned to me and fulfilled it on their own accord.. Good luck buddy!

[Hardstick15by5]

Originally Posted by Hardstick15by5

Hey man! worry not! I had he same experience as you!

My solemn advice.. be nice to the women you target, thing is.. you may not be getting them now, but maybe in a few months or even years time, they'd be coming to you for a good wild session, on a regular basis.. Just try and build up trust and understand their problems.. once you gain that, you're pretty much in already.. but don't be there all the time.. just every now and then, so that they won't see you as a friend..

here's my story to share with you.. to date, i've hooked up with

4 friend's moms
3 of my former teachers
9 colleagues
several friends who showed no signs of interest in fking at first..
My Cheating godpa's super smooth skin wife.

http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=271413

pardon my morals.. but these women I only had fantasies about, they turned to me and fulfilled it on their own accord.. Good luck buddy!

Something I'm getting to enjoy on a regular basis now..

http://www.uploadhouse.com/viewfile.php?id=15674514

Hope my true account can help you in some way..

[tamtam]

Nothing wrong for being a virgin at 23, but pls dont give to commerical ladies, try talking to someone close to you, may not necessary be your girlfriend in the end, what i mean is making love for the first time to someone you know and to a total stranger is hell lots of different.

If you have found your target, get close to her by mere talking, slowing gaining her liking....then when opportunity arrise, jokingly mentioned you are still V, she may response the right direction if you are lucky, i think someone a few year older than you will be better, possibly a MILF type.

When i was younger and just came out to work, all my girlfriends are afew years older than me, being more experience than me, they usually fuck my brains out !!! Haha

Now that i m old. All my girlfriens now are very much younger....Hehe.

[EmperorLiang]

Bro soulblader, agreed with tamtam. It is a really big diff to have ur 1st time with lover than stranger. If you ask how to increase ur self-estem, I believe u have tried it urself in some sort of ways ba. First thing in mind is how u look at urself. Never look down on urself, if u think u are ugly, then how will u convince urself even if someone dun think u are not ugly. So point one is to look urself and tell urself, u are definitely more than being ugly.

Second, nv say do anything or everything just to get a girlfriend. There are more things u have yet explore. ESP ur army life, those bro u live around with. Those are ur buddy and ur future bro! Appreciate them and stay close to them. Slowly ur confident will raise. Like me, I lost everything Juz to find girlfriend. So appreciate it will u can. Ppl now got so many good buddy out to talk, out, play whereas I will b watching movie either alone or with gf if she has time. So nv give up everything for anyone in ur life.

Thirdly, love urself more, I tell u how. If u wan go clubbing, disco, anywhere that girls hang out, go ahead! But nv giv up ur first time. Pls take note, dub give up first time there. Play n fool Ard will definitely a plus, learn how to chat with girl first before say "find girlfriend".. I teaches my friend which behave exactly same as u by bring him to pub to learn pick up girl and chat with them. Hanky panky do play apart to boost ur confident. Rem dun giv up first time ar!

Finally, juz to tell u tt first time is not precious for guy. Hvin giv up first time doesn't tell girls that "you are strong" instead tell them u r juz a "jerk".. Thinking wise, girls love guy who is faithful n loyal to them. Girl love guy who appreciate them and love them. Plus point if u knw sweetness. Guys first time!? Yeck! Pui! Grat u virgin ba! It show u are nice guy!

[uglygirl]

TS you're stiill young! ii thiink the fiirst tiime you should do iit wiith someone you liike iinstead of random stranger. And ii beg to differ, ii thiink it is fun guiidiing someone's fiirst tiime and that you're theiir fiirst