Most WL/FL likes to tell lies?

[Tom_Jerry]

Maybe it is part and parcel of the game?

[dap26]

Originally Posted by naemlo

If u feel guilty, pass to me, I will treat them better than u. When u bring me go cheong?

Haha...peng you...i think u gt more mei mei than me,so u no need me to pass some to u...

Originally Posted by WOOHOO

you will guilty one meh?? wahaahaha!! All those FOC bonks you got from the meimeis you really will feel guilty??

No lah.Sometimes,feel tat shld buy some gift in return mah...Even a small gift also can mah...I dun really believe in FOC.

[dap26]

Originally Posted by forumer

tat's wat i chose to do too... buy gifts instead.

got 1 time, i pushed my luck and "forced" money to the gal. In the end, she got pretty upset and no sex for me for the whole night.

Sometimes gift is much better than pushing $$ to her....

[forumer]

Originally Posted by dap26

Sometimes gift is much better than pushing $$ to her....

haha, next time must store some gifts as standby

[slyer]

Originally Posted by Gentle Beast

The LAST thing I want to hear from a WL/FL is the TRUTH! I don't want to hear her say - I'm old and ugly, lousy in bed, always no $$$ etc. I'd rather pay her to tell me lies

i also don't wan to hear FL say to me tat i'm old, ugly, poor n lousy

Originally Posted by longwinter

maybe we are too seasoned liao..that is why radar sensor already installed in the back of our head and when they start to crap, our radar sensor will start to horn.

wah so jialat ah? mine not that bad, got sms by unknown no claiming frenz frenz, ask me to take care of them.

haha ya we immuned to their lies.. got 1 FL tell me her pitiful story n ask me lend her money. then i tell her my pitiful story and told her i no $ then she silent

[colins]

Originally Posted by louis2002

。。。。。逢场作戏。。。。。。
。。。。何必太认真。。。。。

Actually when I saw this post, I thought aiyah, another cliche.

Thinking about it, man, this is true. It just summarises all our aspects of life in the outside world. Why they need to lie? Becos its the rule. Why do you need to lie? Becos if you cheong and doesn't want to affect your own life, that IS the rule. The whole affair is just an act, we talking about things not to get people interested in our achievement or our character. We talk to build GFE, we talk to get better sex and we act to become another character in life where cheonging sex is acceptable to us and people around us.

Business is business. All business, if you look closer, is many a times, an act to manipulate the other person who has things that you want. If we are boss we assume the role of a smart boss who tells others what they need to know. If we are employee, we say we are working hard visiting clients when in fact we are on the way for a rendezvous.

The whole affair is an act, and we act our role. Be it lies, but those are our lines. Be it fake, but those are what cheongster do to protect themselves.

If everything's an act, why be so serious?

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by Macallan12

I was fetching a bunch of Sichuan girls from Dynasty Classic to another place. A customer called up and ask her what she is doing (can hear because car radio not turn on), and she replied she's in a taxi ..... I don't understand why she has to lie. Then she apologise to me.

All KTV/WLs don't want their customers to get jealous as they want repeat business again.

Why didn't you tell her, "No need to apologise. Job well done!" She'll probably like you even more. They like bad boys. Good guys are always the carrot heads.

[warbird]

Unfortunately, most WLs tell lies lah. I like to believe that our local FLs are generally more ethical n more truthful than FLs from foreign countries. Perhaps just my wistful thinking? Since I still hv limited experience w/ FLs, would like to hear opinions from more experienced bros here.

Thx n hv a good day!

[oralgal]

yeah....tend to tell lies....but normally fl tell lies....u guys cheongster oso not stupid wat....know which word is true nj which is not lo......thia liao mah suak lo.....!!!!

[JweeJwee]

Yes most of the WLs/FLs love to tell lies, just hear can already, no need to believe what they said

[warbird]

Originally Posted by colins

Thinking about it, man, this is true. It just summarises all our aspects of life in the outside world. Why they need to lie? Becos its the rule. Why do you need to lie? Becos if you cheong and doesn't want to affect your own life, that IS the rule. The whole affair is just an act, we talking about things not to get people interested in our achievement or our character. We talk to build GFE, we talk to get better sex and we act to become another character in life where cheonging sex is acceptable to us and people around us.

The whole affair is an act, and we act our role. Be it lies, but those are our lines. Be it fake, but those are what cheongster do to protect themselves.

If everything's an act, why be so serious?

Bro, you hv hit the nail on the head w/ your insightful post. We should never take life too seriously while we go through the 7 stages of life becos "All the world's a stage, And all the men n women merely players..."

Here is the full quote:

William Shakespeare - All the world's a stage (from As You Like It 2/7)

All the world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players:
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages. At first the infant,
Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms.
And then the whining school-boy, with his satchel
And shining morning face, creeping like snail
Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
Sighing like furnace, with a woeful ballad
Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,
Full of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,
Jealous in honour, sudden and quick in quarrel,
Seeking the bubble reputation
Even in the cannon's mouth. And then the justice,
In fair round belly with good capon lined,
With eyes severe and beard of formal cut,
Full of wise saws and modern instances;
And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
Into the lean and slipper'd pantaloon,
With spectacles on nose and pouch on side,
His youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide
For his shrunk shank; and his big manly voice,
Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
And whistles in his sound. Last scene of all,
That ends this strange eventful history,
Is second childishness and mere oblivion,
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.

He detailed the 7 stages in a man's life, what about a woman's?

The end for men is the same regardless of who we are. Very sad indeed, “sans everything” like a 2nd childhood, incontinent, feeble, blind, deaf, totally helpless n descending into oblivion. Perhaps women fare a little better?

Moral of the story for me? Life is short, bonk ALL the gems while we can (with Viagra if needed)! Heehee...

Goodnight to u all!

[colins]

Originally Posted by warbird

The end for men is the same regardless of who we are. Very sad indeed, “sans everything” like a 2nd childhood, incontinent, feeble, blind, deaf, totally helpless n descending into oblivion. Perhaps women fare a little better?

Moral of the story for me? Life is short, bonk ALL the gems while we can (with Viagra if needed)! Heehee...

Hahaha bro warbird, after looking through your post and references on socially learned man like Shakespeare, it just sort of contrast against your moral of the story. I give you an example. Its like living in a dream where you have all your dream women in it and you are very aware that its a dream. The conclusion sort of points to a natural instinct to tear off their clothes and bonk them silly, and wake up satisfied. Just like the matrix story, knowing its a dream, just do whatever you like.

I'm not saying that you are shallow, but I am saying that if you understand that logic of life is basically an act, you tend not to have the thinking that bonking all gems is what you want. You see, people who dun follow the 'act' are always socially hermit-like, whether it is through conscious choice or just the inability to follow the social rules, and they are seldom cheongsters. In reality, only people who can let down their own face can discard the act and only people who doesn't need the face anymore can do that smoothly. Even celebrities, given their influence, money and capability, can't do that. Only fictional characters like Tang Bo Hu in Stephen Chow's movie is similar to this state of mind. And he is only a character (but then that's what make this character so irresistable).

Only he who can do everything that he thinks, and not bound or influenced on his action by opinions, can react to this 'act of life'. Otherwise, we better choose a role and play it well. The only difference is, knowing that its an act and that every outcome is still influenced by our action, we take things easier and not hold on to fleecing and unreal emotions displayed by others. And of cos, to know each roles (and their accompanying rules) well and relieve ourselves from unnecessary sadness when we can't get what we want.

For example, if you cheong and meet a WL, dun be disappointed when she tell you only things you want to know. Its not personal, its just her role. And if you go on and believe her, you're just not a good actor for your role, so maybe next time, you just gotta choose another role to play. Similarly, a WL who tells you truth is not playing her part well too, and the society will definitely punish her for that, just like how you would be punished if you believe them. So a good cheongster will probably be telling them lies as well, get them to feel good and give you some of their special treatment, preserve your very own emotions for yourself and never be opened emotionally, dun shortchange them and play their game better than them. In fact, I saw a lot of bros are already exhibiting these qualities over here.

Sorry for the loh soh-ness, and bro warbird, trust me that I am not bringing you down, its just that I dun believe you are this shallow.

[PeteTsang69]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro, you hv hit the nail on the head w/ your insightful post. We should never take life too seriously while we go through the 7 stages of life becos "All the world's a stage, And all the men n women merely players..."

Here is the full quote:

William Shakespeare - All the world's a stage (from As You Like It 2/7)

I concur with BOTH bros colins & warbird . . kudos to u both!!!
always learn something form both ur contributions

may i humbly add mine
to me, LIFE IS A GAME - Learn The Rules!!!
when i hv more time i will oneday share my own theories
but for the time being here are some food for thots . . .

cherie carter-scott's Rules of Life "Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood." (Helen Keller)

Rule One- You will receive a body. Whether you love it or hate it, it's yours for life, so accept it. What counts is what's inside.

Rule Two - You will be presented with lessons. Life is a constant learning experience, which every day provides opportunities for you to learn more. These lessons specific to you, and learning them 'is the key to discovering and fulfilling the meaning and relevance of your own life'.

Rule Three - There are no mistakes, only lessons. Your development towards wisdom is a process of experimentation, trial and error, so it's inevitable things will not always go to plan or turn out how you'd want. Compassion is the remedy for harsh judgement - of ourselves and others. Forgiveness is not only divine - it's also 'the act of erasing an emotional debt'. Behaving ethically, with integrity, and with humour - especially the ability to laugh at yourself and your own mishaps - are central to the perspective that 'mistakes' are simply lessons we must learn.

Rule Four - The lesson is repeated until learned. Lessons repeat until learned. What manifest as problems and challenges, irritations and frustrations are more lessons - they will repeat until you see them as such and learn from them. Your own awareness and your ability to change are requisites of executing this rule. Also fundamental is the acceptance that you are not a victim of fate or circumstance - 'causality' must be acknowledged; that is to say: things happen to you because of how you are and what you do. To blame anyone or anything else for your misfortunes is an escape and a denial; you yourself are responsible for you, and what happens to you. Patience is required - change doesn't happen overnight, so give change time to happen.

Rule Five - Learning does not end. While you are alive there are always lessons to be learned. Surrender to the 'rhythm of life', don't struggle against it. Commit to the process of constant learning and change - be humble enough to always acknowledge your own weaknesses, and be flexible enough to adapt from what you may be accustomed to, because rigidity will deny you the freedom of new possibilities.

Rule Six - "There" is no better than "here". The other side of the hill may be greener than your own, but being there is not the key to endless happiness. Be grateful for and enjoy what you have, and where you are on your journey. Appreciate the abundance of what's good in your life, rather than measure and amass things that do not actually lead to happiness. Living in the present helps you attain peace.

Rule Seven - Others are only mirrors of you. You love or hate something about another person according to what love or hate about yourself. Be tolerant; accept others as they are, and strive for clarity of self-awareness; strive to truly understand and have an objective perception of your own self, your thoughts and feelings. Negative experiences are opportunities to heal the wounds that you carry. Support others, and by doing so you support yourself. Where you are unable to support others it is a sign that you are not adequately attending to your own needs.

Rule Eight - What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. Take responsibility for yourself. Learn to let go when you cannot change things. Don't get angry about things - bitter memories clutter your mind. Courage resides in all of us - use it when you need to do what's right for you. We all possess a strong natural power and adventurous spirit, which you should draw on to embrace what lies ahead.

Rule Nine - Your answers lie inside of you. Trust your instincts and your innermost feelings, whether you hear them as a little voice or a flash of inspiration. Listen to feelings as well as sounds. Look, listen, and trust. Draw on your natural inspiration.

Rule Ten - You will forget all this at birth. We are all born with all of these capabilities - our early experiences lead us into a physical world, away from our spiritual selves, so that we become doubtful, cynical and lacking belief and confidence. The ten Rules are not commandments, they are universal truths that apply to us all. When you lose your way, call upon them. Have faith in the strength of your spirit. Aspire to be wise - wisdom the ultimate path of your life, and it knows no limits other than those you impose on yourself.

cheers MEMENTO MORI !

[EtherC]

Speaking about roles, I'd like to talk a bit on gender roles in modern times. WLs are so attractive to us because they play their role of woman so well. In this day and age where feminist thought is becoming more dominant, we get women who are increasingly aggressive and assertive. This makes us look at them as competitors and aggressors.

Some of the Male-like behavior women display these days: 1)Being in management position at work and operating like a slave driver 2)Shagging men they pick up in pubs 3)Expecting the maid/family to cook for them 4)Not doing household chores 5)Driving fast cars 6)Having their own "bachelor" pad 7)Behaving like a lord requiring people to serve their needs

WLs on the other hand offer feminine relief. That is why some brothers actually want to marry them despite the social stigma and the risks involved. This trend will continue as long as the feminist movement thrives. Women who complain that all the good men have died, gotten married or become gay should probably reflect on the fact that its the women who are becoming rare because a large part of them have chosen to become male-like.

[colins]

Originally Posted by EtherC

WLs are so attractive to us because they play their role of woman so well.

Quite an insight, looks like girls in Singapore are naturally disadvantaged becos they are moulded into successful career minded women.

But to be frank, we really can't expect our sg girls to be so feminine and accomodating to our desires. They need the 'edge' in survive in their own hostile environment, and they probably lie to everyone there as well, but of cos in a different nature and measure.