How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[makemecum]

htere jus isn't anyway
we can nvr be match for WL KC skills as there are more seasoned and harden le...

[ol'ManPushCart]

Should have read this guide earlier otherwise I wouldn't have gotten KC-ed. Got intro-ed to this quite angpai CAT150 girl from Lor16 then slowly rtf-ed her on the 3rd time she said she sort of missed me during her off days and we exchanged numbers. Then soon enough the love sms-es started, then gradually we were chatting on the phone almst every night. all this while I thought she was just playing with me and I'll just ignore her if she starts asking for money or gifts be it big or small. I'm the kind who would give if I feel like it and not when I being asked or pressured.

We dated afew times during her off days, simple meals at fast food chains, movies and strolls along ECP, very lovey dovey. No fancy restaurants or trips to LV boutiques and she never asked. Just to clarify I'm not those handsome rich guy, but some how things just started


I'm married with a kid but then the thrill was addictive but what i later realised was that I was KC-ed. i start to miss her and would visit her even though I didn't need any sex that particular day. i would even buy food for her when she says she's been busy the whole day and had not eaten yet.

She knew from the start that I was married and can tell she's sad. She cried and confessed she fell in love with me but she doesn't want to break my family apart. There were several times of emotional breakdown from her while I was away for business trips asking why I went to sleep without telling and that she's very upset when she doesn't hear my voice that kind of thing.

Recently told me she couldn't work anymore cos she cannot do it with other guys when she's thinking of me and she wants to go home knowing that she cannot bring herself to continue anymore, which I find that it's true cos I read some FR saying that her service sux 2 months back and that was when we really got together. Then gradually she turn cold and started avoiding me, only later to find out that she has decided to keep a distance from me because she's conscience stricken and knowing she fell in love with me but couldn't be with me because of my family. She stopped working totally after we had an argument recently and now she's just sitting in her room waiting to go home before CNY. So I verified with my regular OKT and he confirmed saying that she's no longer working. She's only here for less than 5 months so I reckon she didn't make much, now I'm feeling guilty for having started all these and ruining her earning potential.

However I do feel lucky that I haven't been cheated of money. Thru those months together I do feel that she actually loved me and cared for me and now I'm heart broken. I'm heartbroken cos I've put in feelings already and have been very upset for the many nights. But end of the day, Its still a beautiful memory. We're still in contact thru sms but her replies are very short now and she also came to Qzone to tell me that her feelings never change but she had to leave for everyone's good. Well, i wish her all the best.

again the rules of engagement are important, you need to be very sane, chop off all communication before things got out of hand just like what happened to me. Cos you never know when your heart will take control. Now I told myself not to talk too much to WLs that I visit just to avoid the KC, cos I'm not the kind who can play the game, however i still haven't gotten over her so I don't think I'll be cheonging in the near future.

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KC and the Sunshine Bang !

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

However I do feel lucky that I haven't been cheated of money. Thru those months together I do feel that she actually loved me and cared for me and now I'm heart broken. I'm heartbroken cos I've put in feelings already and have been very upset for the many nights. But end of the day, Its still a beautiful memory. We're still in contact thru sms but her replies are very short now and she also came to Qzone to tell me that her feelings never change but she had to leave for everyone's good. Well, i wish her all the best.

again the rules of engagement are important, you need to be very sane, chop off all communication before things got out of hand just like what happened to me. Cos you never know when your heart will take control. Now I told myself not to talk too much to WLs that I visit just to avoid the KC, cos I'm not the kind who can play the game, however i still haven't gotten over her so I don't think I'll be cheonging in the near future.

Well, it's a fact of life for most people that when they KC a WL or kenna KC by a WL, they will invest quite a bit of their feelings into the relationship and when the relationship is gone, they will be heart broken.

In my opinion, just talking to WLs will not get you sucked into the KC trap. For that to happen, you must first develop some feelings for that WL.

[ol'ManPushCart]

Ya u r right, there need to be some sort of mutual attraction.

[hamsapkwai]

,you guys so lucky i been a lot of places and been with a lot of these wls and fls but never once i had any kc relationship.

most girls find me annoying after a short while. hmmmm i wonder why

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

,you guys so lucky i been a lot of places and been with a lot of these wls and fls but never once i had any kc relationship.

most girls find me annoying after a short while. hmmmm i wonder why

Are you sure you want the gals to KC you???

If you want a KC relationship, then you have to KC the gal first. My opinion is that it is better to KC a gal than to let the gal KC you...

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

,you guys so lucky i been a lot of places and been with a lot of these wls and fls but never once i had any kc relationship.

most girls find me annoying after a short while. hmmmm i wonder why

maybe they know ur nick la, tats y

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

Recently told me she couldn't work anymore cos she cannot do it with other guys when she's thinking of me and she wants to go home knowing that she cannot bring herself to continue anymore, which I find that it's true cos I read some FR saying that her service sux 2 months back and that was when we really got together.

Be very mindful of this statement my fren.
This is when they know they got you hooked and want to pull you wif their string back to the motherland!

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

Then gradually she turn cold and started avoiding me, only later to find out that she has decided to keep a distance from me because she's conscience stricken and knowing she fell in love with me but couldn't be with me because of my family. She stopped working totally after we had an argument recently and now she's just sitting in her room waiting to go home before CNY. So I verified with my regular OKT and he confirmed saying that she's no longer working. She's only here for less than 5 months so I reckon she didn't make much, now I'm feeling guilty for having started all these and ruining her earning potential.

Do not feel guilty at ALL.
There was a conscience decision that was made between the 2 of you, whether true or not is another matter.
Bottomline, she's a hooker & you're her client.
Try to focus tots in the line and you'll be fine.
Trust me, she will go back & make ctc wif you very very soon & if you're not strong enuff, her string will start pulling you to her motherland where sex is great and KC gao gao making you feel this is really TRUE LOVE!
And when that happens, it's only the beginning of your nightmares!

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

However I do feel lucky that I haven't been cheated of money. Thru those months together I do feel that she actually loved me and cared for me and now I'm heart broken. I'm heartbroken cos I've put in feelings already and have been very upset for the many nights. But end of the day, Its still a beautiful memory. We're still in contact thru sms but her replies are very short now and she also came to Qzone to tell me that her feelings never change but she had to leave for everyone's good. Well, i wish her all the best.

This sms will escalate and the impact on you will be greater once she goes home....
Confirm stamp chop, just wait and see.
This is the most dangerous kind of WL
Now she doesnt ask you for anything, neither will she ever
But sit back and rationalise for a minute.
She came here to work as a pros to make $$$$$$$
She goes back...watever she makes starts to dwindle then where is more $$$ goin to come from??????
This is when you will come in to play, she'll let go many kinds of emotional things to say her situation is dire blah blah & your kind emotional self will be compelled to help her out!
This is old textbook WL money making pattern bro.
Drill this into your mind, it's all transactional.
She goes back, contract ends.....do not allow your spiritual self to follow!

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

again the rules of engagement are important, you need to be very sane, chop off all communication before things got out of hand just like what happened to me. Cos you never know when your heart will take control. Now I told myself not to talk too much to WLs that I visit just to avoid the KC, cos I'm not the kind who can play the game, however i still haven't gotten over her so I don't think I'll be cheonging in the near future.

Cut off all contacts wif her, not even SMS
She sms u, just ignore and delete, dun even read the sms's
It's hard at 1st but you'll get over it if you're determined.
As for visiting FLs, continue to go la
Why chop the forest for 1 tree!

FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS

Last, dun worry, i guarantee you, she'll be back soon enuff to service more men once all the financial resources are run out!

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

Should have read this guide earlier otherwise I wouldn't have gotten KC-ed. Got intro-ed to this quite angpai CAT150 girl from Lor16 then slowly rtf-ed her on the 3rd time she said she sort of missed me during her off days and we exchanged numbers. Then soon enough the love sms-es started, then gradually we were chatting on the phone almst every night. all this while I thought she was just playing with me and I'll just ignore her if she starts asking for money or gifts be it big or small. I'm the kind who would give if I feel like it and not when I being asked or pressured.

We dated afew times during her off days, simple meals at fast food chains, movies and strolls along ECP, very lovey dovey. No fancy restaurants or trips to LV boutiques and she never asked. Just to clarify I'm not those handsome rich guy, but some how things just started


I'm married with a kid but then the thrill was addictive but what i later realised was that I was KC-ed. i start to miss her and would visit her even though I didn't need any sex that particular day. i would even buy food for her when she says she's been busy the whole day and had not eaten yet.

She knew from the start that I was married and can tell she's sad. She cried and confessed she fell in love with me but she doesn't want to break my family apart. There were several times of emotional breakdown from her while I was away for business trips asking why I went to sleep without telling and that she's very upset when she doesn't hear my voice that kind of thing.

Recently told me she couldn't work anymore cos she cannot do it with other guys when she's thinking of me and she wants to go home knowing that she cannot bring herself to continue anymore, which I find that it's true cos I read some FR saying that her service sux 2 months back and that was when we really got together. Then gradually she turn cold and started avoiding me, only later to find out that she has decided to keep a distance from me because she's conscience stricken and knowing she fell in love with me but couldn't be with me because of my family. She stopped working totally after we had an argument recently and now she's just sitting in her room waiting to go home before CNY. So I verified with my regular OKT and he confirmed saying that she's no longer working. She's only here for less than 5 months so I reckon she didn't make much, now I'm feeling guilty for having started all these and ruining her earning potential.

However I do feel lucky that I haven't been cheated of money. Thru those months together I do feel that she actually loved me and cared for me and now I'm heart broken. I'm heartbroken cos I've put in feelings already and have been very upset for the many nights. But end of the day, Its still a beautiful memory. We're still in contact thru sms but her replies are very short now and she also came to Qzone to tell me that her feelings never change but she had to leave for everyone's good. Well, i wish her all the best.

again the rules of engagement are important, you need to be very sane, chop off all communication before things got out of hand just like what happened to me. Cos you never know when your heart will take control. Now I told myself not to talk too much to WLs that I visit just to avoid the KC, cos I'm not the kind who can play the game, however i still haven't gotten over her so I don't think I'll be cheonging in the near future.

Bro, i not sure how on earth can you or she can actually miss each other after 3 RTFs. I think that your actual wife will be disappointed with you after being with you for so long and even has children with you!! You are a married man, for goodness sake, you can have sex with anyone you want. But feelings wise, you ought to give to your wife.

It is very clear to me that she doesn't love you at all, knowing very well you are married and have children. The story about her falling in love with you, unable to service customers/work because she love and thinking about you look incredibily deceptive and manipulative. She needs MONEY before going home to celebrate CNY.. time is running out for her because you are not giving her the money. If she continue to work, her income (want big fish) will not be enough for her that why she is cold towards you. She claim she love you, because that is an excuse for financial exploitation.

You ruin WHAT her financial potential, she choose to be in this line because is easy money. Just bonk, got money! You are very lucky already bro, because financially, you are not destroyed by her, only emotionally. Still a beautiful memory... i think nightmare lah.. if you find out that she come to singapore to work to support her real husband back home (huat ah CNY celebrations).

[ol'ManPushCart]

She's a legal WL so there are restrictions from AV with regards to coming back. Again thanks for your advice bro, still recuperating myself. I won't follow all the way that's for sure.

[ol'ManPushCart]

No money involved, that's good enough for me, we're not talking anymore by the way. She's just waiting to cut the yellow card n go home.

[ol'ManPushCart]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

This sms will escalate and the impact on you will be greater once she goes home....
Confirm stamp chop, just wait and see.
This is the most dangerous kind of WL
Now she doesnt ask you for anything, neither will she ever
But sit back and rationalise for a minute.
She came here to work as a pros to make $$$$$$$
She goes back...watever she makes starts to dwindle then where is more $$$ goin to come from??????
This is when you will come in to play, she'll let go many kinds of emotional things to say her situation is dire blah blah & your kind emotional self will be compelled to help her out!
This is old textbook WL money making pattern bro.
Drill this into your mind, it's all transactional.
She goes back, contract ends.....do not allow your spiritual self to follow!



Cut off all contacts wif her, not even SMS
She sms u, just ignore and delete, dun even read the sms's
It's hard at 1st but you'll get over it if you're determined.
As for visiting FLs, continue to go la
Why chop the forest for 1 tree!

FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS

Last, dun worry, i guarantee you, she'll be back soon enuff to service more men once all the financial resources are run out!

Ya bro BJ i agree on the sms part, I'm more or less awake liao. I don't visit FLs by the way, only legal Cat150. So even if she wans to come back also cannot. When it comesto money, I'm very sane so no worries. Its just the emotion part. Maybe next week go try one or two to check whether little bro wake up yet. LOL

[ol'ManPushCart]

Play the fishing game, this might help. Let the prey hunt you instead. Wise words from a beer commercial. LOL

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

She's a legal WL so there are restrictions from AV with regards to coming back. Again thanks for your advice bro, still recuperating myself. I won't follow all the way that's for sure.

I don't think you will need much time to recuperate... You have only known her for like 2 months??? That's seriously too short a time to build up that much feelings in your relationship with her.