How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[ol'ManPushCart]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

I don't think you will need much time to recuperate... You have only known her for like 2 months??? That's seriously too short a time to build up that much feelings in your relationship with her.

More than 2 months but you're right, I feel like going 2831A already, maybe I needed to say what happened to me to make myself better.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

More than 2 months but you're right, I feel like going 2831A already, maybe I needed to say what happened to me to make myself better.

You should. It will take your mind off her and you will recover by the second bonk...

[MaMister]

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

More than 2 months but you're right, I feel like going 2831A already, maybe I needed to say what happened to me to make myself better.

So what is her number i go check it out whether she decided to work already or not.... think she understand eat rice not eat grass...

[big_dick]

Originally Posted by ol'ManPushCart

Should have read this guide earlier otherwise I wouldn't have gotten KC-ed. Got intro-ed to this quite angpai CAT150 girl from Lor16 then slowly rtf-ed her on the 3rd time she said she sort of missed me during her off days and we exchanged numbers. Then soon enough the love sms-es started, then gradually we were chatting on the phone almst every night. all this while I thought she was just playing with me and I'll just ignore her if she starts asking for money or gifts be it big or small. I'm the kind who would give if I feel like it and not when I being asked or pressured.

We dated afew times during her off days, simple meals at fast food chains, movies and strolls along ECP, very lovey dovey. No fancy restaurants or trips to LV boutiques and she never asked. Just to clarify I'm not those handsome rich guy, but some how things just started

She knew from the start that I was married and can tell she's sad. She cried and confessed she fell in love with me but she doesn't want to break my family apart. There were several times of emotional breakdown from her while I was away for business trips asking why I went to sleep without telling and that she's very upset when she doesn't hear my voice that kind of thing.

However I do feel lucky that I haven't been cheated of money. Thru those months together I do feel that she actually loved me and cared for me and now I'm heart broken. I'm heartbroken cos I've put in feelings already and have been very upset for the many nights. But end of the day, Its still a beautiful memory. We're still in contact thru sms but her replies are very short now and she also came to Qzone to tell me that her feelings never change but she had to leave for everyone's good. Well, i wish her all the best.

Just want to say that with all bro's advice and comments, it is never easy to keep oneself straight, disciplined and avoid the traps of KC.

My own personal experience is that you never know what will happen next.
Somehow my pevious adventure has taken a twist in events that I totally never expected and we are taking it consciously very slow and easy; she gets what she needs (surprisingly not $$$ and certainly not THAT) and somehow I feel "satisfied". (Ok, bros can bash me for this). And sorry bros, this cannot be updated until maybe 5 years later? (too sensitive)

Just one word of humble advice; the WL's world is really very very complex and their strong instincts to survive and carve out their future will make any Special Force operators look like sissies. They will do anything to survive and ensure their families' well being. Seriously not all are in for the LVs or GUCCIs. This we can never understand or even hope to do. Who amongst us will ever sell our backsides to hundreds of drooling horny gays to finance your children's education? I think most of us will just say, aiyah just get a proper job and work more OT lah. Or money is not that important; just be less greedy! By thinking along this line, you already cannot understand the WL's home reality ....

Yet this business-like approach to life does not make them totally mechanical and robots. They still maintain their own "secret gardens" but under strong YALE and CHUBS locks and electronic encryption keys that no Tom's Dick or Hairy can ever anyhow enter. This "garden" is also under constant sweeping stylo-milo laser and CCTV survillance (like the movie Mission Impossible) and you won't even know it if you fail the laser surveilance and are immediately "terminated" as a typical walking ATM...

Still, the surface concept of KC does makes us easier to understand them. It also allows us to be able take and accept the "termination" in our own terms and understanding.

Basically be very careful. As bros said, we can never never match them because they are simply too good, too experienced and too survival-driven.......

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by big_dick

Just one word of humble advice; the WL's world is really very very complex and their strong instincts to survive and carve out their future will make any Special Force operators look like sissies. They will do anything to survive and ensure their families' well being. Seriously not all are in for the LVs or GUCCIs. This we can never understand or even hope to do.

Yet this business-like approach to life does not make them totally mechanical and robots. They still maintain their own "secret gardens" but under strong YALE and CHUBS locks and electronic encryption keys that no Tom's Dick or Hairy can ever anyhow enter. This "garden" is also under constant sweeping stylo-milo laser and CCTV survillance (like the movie Mission Impossible) and you won't even know it if you fail the laser surveilance and are immediately "terminated" as a typical walking ATM...

Still, the surface concept of KC does makes us easier to understand them. It also allows us to be able take and accept the "termination" in our own terms and understanding.

Basically be very careful. As bros said, we can never never match them because they are simply too good, too experienced and too survival-driven.......

I do agree with what you said. WL's are very complex and they have many locks that will prevent them from easily falling in love or even believe 50% of what anyone tells them.

So anyone who thinks they can KC a WL easily is sadly mistaken. It takes a very long time and a lot of effort to build up any relationship with a WL and to get a WL to even like you is already damm tough...I can honestly say that it is tougher to successfully KC a WL than a normal gal that you meet outside...

[Mr_don_juan]

Can't blame the WLs for the KC skills/traps, it is the natural order of things, the weaker of two organisms is always going to learn to be more cunning and manipulative to protect its survival against a stronger organism.

[spader1]

Interesting topic. Doesn't the host clubs guys try to achieve this too? The motivation is different but the objective is the same.

Link to a bbc documentary on Japanese host club (5 parts):



There are a few host clubs in Singapore like Trustz, Yes Sir, Giogio etc. From what i see, their clients are 80% WL. One tactic is to bring the WL to these places, they usually are curious to go, it shows your confidence and they show their true self Many hfj singers are banned from going such places..

[ol'ManPushCart]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

You should. It will take your mind off her and you will recover by the second bonk...

Ya mind over body LOL

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

The terrace house thingy is still true as I've witness myself often.

However, I can never understand how the parents can be proud of their daughters working as one - and this is also true.

I ever ask the FL this question point blank and somehow never get a direct answer. Anyone can enlighten?

From what I know the girl's parents do not know about their prostitution work, all they care about is the cold hard cash they remit back home each month. This is what my previous Thai tirak told me. Her parents never question the source of the funding as long as the cash keeps coming...

[hornyredhead]

Bro Harvest, thanks for the manual. I spent the day reading the tread form the beginning to the end (work will wait LOL) very good advice.
I live in Thailand and the WL here are experts in KC'ing the customers. I see too many guys suckered into falling in love with a WL. I think that it is due to the fact that they can take a girl out of the bar for the entire night and they usually give a great GFE. Why is it that a lot of guys think only with the little head? I have always tried to live by the rule that if there is money exchanged for boinking you need to kick them out in the morning. FFF...find em, fuck em, & forget em. There are too many WL in the world to stay with the same one for more than a couple of rounds no matter how good the boinking is....you always need to wonder hmmm how good the next one will be.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Harvest

From what I know the girl's parents do not know about their prostitution work, all they care about is the cold hard cash they remit back home each month. This is what my previous Thai tirak told me. Her parents never question the source of the funding as long as the cash keeps coming...

Well, just this mindset about not questioning the source of income is already mind-blowing for me. I know of some WL being introduced into this trade by their relatives, aunties, etc. So I'm sure it's not just about not bothering, but a serious cultural and mindset issue.

I read from other threads that not having money is considered a bigger disgrace than selling their body for a living. So that's the upbringing thingy. We eat the same (thai) rice but cultivate different kind of human being. LOL

[euks]

well there are also cases where the mum is the one that request/force/introduce the daughter to it. (or at least that is what that few WL told me.
Mum even advise daughter to try to find a singapore husband while working here.
What also confuses me is that the same mum that forbid/or frown upon her own daughter to go to another guy place is also the one that encourage her daughter to be a WL in singapore, and discouarge her own daughter to go home earlier than the contracted period.

Please do however bear in mind that while I know for certain there are such cases, I however do not know the details and thought process nor the circumstances in detail as I do not understand thai language to have good discussion with the WL.

[hamsapkwai]

why would anyone want to kc a wl?

i can imagine her stalking you . u walk and keep looking over your shoulder . who was that u saw suddenly dart into the opening? keep making out shadows to be her.

u turn a corner and you see her crying by herself . u look down and she is standing by your car at 4am in the morning . u got up that time to look cos she called you on the phone to see her there.

someone knock on your door at night and your phone keeps ringing and when u pick up there`s nobody over the other end and then can hear someone sobbing softly .

u get a letter penned in her blood , asking u to come back to her .

u walk out at 3am cos u heard a noise and you see she has climbed up the louvre windows along the common corridor to peek at you


this is no fiction .

no sir i dont want to kc any wl . its freaking scary!!!

[songest]

My 2 cents ...

Why do we want to KC a WL?
Do we think that :
we can get better service, GFE, more satisfying bonk, lower cost per bonk
it boost our ego since KC'ing a WL is more difficult than KC'ing a normal gal.

What motivates a normal gal to become a WL? That in itself is
a complex topic, the initial reason may not be valid as WL gains
in experience as she plys her trade and meets all sorts of
customers, what's her psychological state, does she wants out?

Think of the consequence of a WL that is being KC'ed by you,
and assuming that you had not been KC'ed by her, and you
decide to dump her one day... can u predict for sure how she will react? could it be another "hell have no fury like a woman scorned?"

With all due respect,
Whatever rules of engagement with WL...

Rule #1: F*ck and F*ck Off
Rule #2: Always remember Rule #1
Rule #3: Always remember Rule #1
....
Rule #n: Always remember Rule #1

Don't trouble trouble, until trouble troubles you.

If you want to play this KC game, be very prepared to accept the consequences if it doesn't turn out the way you wanted.

[leoeight]

Bro, understand, where you coming from.. but bonking for the sake of bonking, is just that.. sure you come out after satisfying your lust but you kinda feel sori and empty inside.. its like going to the toilet.. its emotionless and void.. sian leh, sometime just feel like cuddling/being cuddle. Bonk enough bro, 8 wives some, simultaneously and +700 bonks in 35 years.. but still have"nt found the right one to love.. still nothing beats a woman who wakes you up by sucking your didi in the morning or you wake her up by eating some ang ku kueh.. he...

BroLeo8