Wife don't like sex

[MengJai]

Bro, did u try sitting down with her and having a proper heart to heart talk? Or has she turn a deaf ear on u?

[tomvoyeur]

Hence, I always believe pre-marital sex helps marriages lol - albeit with sufficient protection.

[Tripster]

Originally Posted by tanhockgin

I have the same problem.
Wife is older and doesnt like sex. I do it once in 3-6 months.

I eat out often. I tried marriage counselling cos I didnt want to fuck around outside. Worked a while then back to square one.

Few things have happened since
1) Had a fuck buddy for about 2 yrs

2) Many FL and massages.

3) I even experience transferrence. Experimented bisexualism.

I cant talk to my wife cos we are at very different wavelength. I stay w her becos of kids. Sigh!

Wah, I hear this over and over and over...myself included...:

All the same boat budder! Lim jit puay!!!

trip

[louis_13]

same here .. wife only give once a month

[Cunt-Sucker]

Originally Posted by MengJai

Bro, did u try sitting down with her and having a proper heart to heart talk? Or has she turn a deaf ear on u?

I believe most bro here already tried like me: tried talking properly to wife, but she'll either lose her temper & refuse to talk, or blame you for being a sex-pervert. Then one thing lead to another, before you realized it, a new Cold War has occurred ...

After some times, you realized that, for the greater benefit of the family, especially those with kids, you offer truce but you wife will still insist on your unreserved apologies to her and acknowledging that she was NEVER in the wrong and that all wrongs are due to your sex-pervert behaviors or MCP attitudes ... either way, still no sex 'cos you deserved to be punished, and she's still not in the mood to "reward" you ...

And then what follows? As time goes by, as such cycles repeat again and again, you started to lose your self-esteem, you started to feel worthless, you start to suspect that, afterall, your wife may be right that you are indeed just a low-class sex-pervert, or a useless bum, or a plain goondu, or all of the above. And then, you enter Mid-Life crisis and you seriously begin to doubt yourself and the purpose of your surviving in this world ... and of course, in the worst case scenario, you simply decide to end your own miserable life ... but that's not all. Your surviving wife may still be cursing you for acting like a coward and pervert, and only know how to give/leave her with all the shits of life ... Sad life being a man huh? And who could have believed that it all started from being a simple rejection of lovemaking from your wife?

[Johnston]

Keep on, with the force dont stop, dont stop till you get enough

At least you arent like this feller here...... PPO against sex maniaced wife... hmmmmm

http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=228166

[SinDellman]

Originally Posted by Cunt-Sucker

And then what follows? As time goes by, as such cycles repeat again and again, you started to lose your self-esteem, you started to feel worthless, you start to suspect that, afterall, your wife may be right that you are indeed just a low-class sex-pervert, or a useless bum, or a plain goondu, or all of the above. And then, you enter Mid-Life crisis and you seriously begin to doubt yourself and the purpose of your surviving in this world ... and of course, in the worst case scenario, you simply decide to end your own miserable life ... but that's not all. Your surviving wife may still be cursing you for acting like a coward and pervert, and only know how to give/leave her with all the shits of life ... Sad life being a man huh? And who could have believed that it all started from being a simple rejection of lovemaking from your wife?

This is very true.
Not only we do not get from her, we also do not get much RESPECT! Her main focus is always the children and her parents and some siblings. And the worst thing is that she control ALL our monies. She would be nice to you if you bring back $$$.

My unhappiness in life was cured when I discovered SBF. Every weekend I found happiness and motivation with the PRC fl here and the whole week I was a hardworking and responsible person in office n home... And looking forward to the weekend.
But sway,the antivice squads kill all these n now my life is back to misery n unspoken sadness.

[lee2001sg]

Originally Posted by Cunt-Sucker

And then what follows? As time goes by, as such cycles repeat again and again, you started to lose your self-esteem, you started to feel worthless, you start to suspect that, afterall, your wife may be right that you are indeed just a low-class sex-pervert, or a useless bum, or a plain goondu, or all of the above. And then, you enter Mid-Life crisis and you seriously begin to doubt yourself and the purpose of your surviving in this world ... and of course, in the worst case scenario, you simply decide to end your own miserable life ... but that's not all. Your surviving wife may still be cursing you for acting like a coward and pervert, and only know how to give/leave her with all the shits of life ... Sad life being a man huh? And who could have believed that it all started from being a simple rejection of lovemaking from your wife?

Cunt-Sucker, I felt very sorry to see your above comment. Don't take it so serious as to end your life. As you stay in the forum more, you will see we have lots of sex-pervert here just like you. You are normal. There are lots of cunt waiting for you to suck. Don't just end your life for one miserable cunt.

As for marrying a HSD gal, you will also get worried that you can't feed her enough and she go eat outside. Life is always miserable and short. Just be happy and do what makes you happy.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Cunt-Sucker

I believe most bro here already tried like me: tried talking properly to wife, but she'll either lose her temper & refuse to talk, or blame you for being a sex-pervert. Then one thing lead to another, before you realized it, a new Cold War has occurred ...

After some times, you realized that, for the greater benefit of the family, especially those with kids, you offer truce but you wife will still insist on your unreserved apologies to her and acknowledging that she was NEVER in the wrong and that all wrongs are due to your sex-pervert behaviors or MCP attitudes ... either way, still no sex 'cos you deserved to be punished, and she's still not in the mood to "reward" you ...

And then what follows? As time goes by, as such cycles repeat again and again, you started to lose your self-esteem, you started to feel worthless, you start to suspect that, afterall, your wife may be right that you are indeed just a low-class sex-pervert, or a useless bum, or a plain goondu, or all of the above. And then, you enter Mid-Life crisis and you seriously begin to doubt yourself and the purpose of your surviving in this world ... and of course, in the worst case scenario, you simply decide to end your own miserable life ... but that's not all. Your surviving wife may still be cursing you for acting like a coward and pervert, and only know how to give/leave her with all the shits of life ... Sad life being a man huh? And who could have believed that it all started from being a simple rejection of lovemaking from your wife?

wow bro i think you practically surmise up what a big majority of married men are feeling and me included. For me i have stopped asking just for the sake of maintaining harmony and rather prefer to cheong. Of course it brings with it all the risk of commercial sex but I have already prepared myself for the consequence. Rather die cock standing then die cock begging.

But just in case bros are unaware, refusal to have sex is ground enough by hub to divorce their wives based on unreasonable behavior. Cos even the fucking familee cock acknowledge that sex is part and parcel of a normal marriage.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by lee2001sg

Cunt-Sucker, I felt very sorry to see your above comment. Don't take it so serious as to end your life. As you stay in the forum more, you will see we have lots of sex-pervert here just like you. You are normal. There are lots of cunt waiting for you to suck. Don't just end your life for one miserable cunt.

As for marrying a HSD gal, you will also get worried that you can't feed her enough and she go eat outside. Life is always miserable and short. Just be happy and do what makes you happy.

Yes, Bro lee2001sg is rite...dun just end yr valuable life for just 1 miserable cunt..tis really not worth it...believe mi, there's so many other things in life worth living for..if nothing else...just need to find out wat they are for yrself & go all out for it..

But as in anything..moderation is always best...Ocs/Gfs & gals in general shd not hav LSD nor shd they hav extremely High SD.. like the recent case of the husband applying for PPO against his wife for extremely high sexual demands ..

Couples must NEVER DENY SEX to each other for watever reason for the marriage R/S to survive. ...Tink having sex wif each other every 2 to 3 days wld just be ideal to express love for one another .. to the Gals..love precedes sex whilst to the guys sex comes 1st..so they must be considerate to each other & mit halfway for the sexual act to take place & be enjoyed by both parties...tis just my 2 cents worth

[Cunt-Sucker]

Originally Posted by lee2001sg

Cunt-Sucker, I felt very sorry to see your above comment. Don't take it so serious as to end your life. As you stay in the forum more, you will see we have lots of sex-pervert here just like you. You are normal. There are lots of cunt waiting for you to suck. Don't just end your life for one miserable cunt. ...

Thanks Bro Lee2001sg & Bro Rickey for your concerns. When I wrote that, I did not literally mean to end my own life. I'm just saying that, for some bro out here, especially if they're also facing mid-life crisis and other problems, they may not be able to take the pressure & may eventually decide to end their lives. Of course I'm hoping that all bro who are facing such issues should try seeking professional help. If not, at least try to vent out the frustrations here @ SBF, and you'd be surprised to find out that you're not the only one having such problems ...

As all of us are bred and raised differently, I'm sure we have our own unique ways of resolving this issue of wifey not granting us sex. As long as we're taking all necessary precautions and not exposing our love ones and/or innocent 3rd parties to any danger or harm, I'd say: "Go for it man! Since no one's gonna take pity on us, we'll only have ourselves to save our own skin/days! So go forth and make the best out of it!"

[Doriemus]

Originally Posted by Cunt-Sucker

I believe most bro here already tried like me: tried talking properly to wife, but she'll either lose her temper & refuse to talk, or blame you for being a sex-pervert. Then one thing lead to another, before you realized it, a new Cold War has occurred ...

After some times, you realized that, for the greater benefit of the family, especially those with kids, you offer truce but you wife will still insist on your unreserved apologies to her and acknowledging that she was NEVER in the wrong and that all wrongs are due to your sex-pervert behaviors or MCP attitudes ... either way, still no sex 'cos you deserved to be punished, and she's still not in the mood to "reward" you ...

And then what follows? As time goes by, as such cycles repeat again and again, you started to lose your self-esteem, you started to feel worthless, you start to suspect that, afterall, your wife may be right that you are indeed just a low-class sex-pervert, or a useless bum, or a plain goondu, or all of the above. And then, you enter Mid-Life crisis and you seriously begin to doubt yourself and the purpose of your surviving in this world ... and of course, in the worst case scenario, you simply decide to end your own miserable life ... but that's not all. Your surviving wife may still be cursing you for acting like a coward and pervert, and only know how to give/leave her with all the shits of life ... Sad life being a man huh? And who could have believed that it all started from being a simple rejection of lovemaking from your wife?

Whoa bro, really feel for u. But if its not ur mistake, u shld point it out to her else she'll take it for granted. 2 wrongs dont make a rite. Compromising is a 2 way process, not just you alone.

[Ah Goo]

One consolation is she don't control my finance!

I have not gone done to affecting my self esteem. And I don't intend to go that way.

Look like a lot of bros here face the same issue!

[DieCorkStand]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

wow bro i think you practically surmise up what a big majority of married men are feeling and me included. For me i have stopped asking just for the sake of maintaining harmony and rather prefer to cheong. Of course it brings with it all the risk of commercial sex but I have already prepared myself for the consequence. Rather die cock standing then die cock begging.

But just in case bros are unaware, refusal to have sex is ground enough by hub to divorce their wives based on unreasonable behavior. Cos even the fucking familee cock acknowledge that sex is part and parcel of a normal marriage.

So looking at my nick name you know I share the same sentiment for most men here ...

But I still encourage my wife , at least I still have it once a week ...
Woman , just need to paint them to motivate them ... after giave birth, they are dry up ... need painting ...
But I just serve but notbeen served.

So afterall I still eat out ... I prefer woman massage me and HJ only for safety sake ... do not dare FJ ..

BNut there was once I was so high until I made the woman high too and she enter me raw after which then I realise half way but too shiok to reject but after that I check with Doctor and is fine ....

[Frankiestine]

Bro at least you still get it once a week..for me it could go for a couple of months and then also like buay gam guan to do....painting forget it, she won't even bj me for the same reason that she thinks the mouth is full of germs...for that matter no fingering too...even try to rabba her boobs a bit she say not showing her any respect...so i ask you how to turn her on in the first place??