Dating a crossdresser? Possible?

[Jaslynkoh]

#icekewl > thanks!

#Ladyboy Lover > u sure look great babe!

[brendachong]

Yeah, wondering if guys would dare to be seen with a crossdresser. Would they date or have a crossdresser as gf? Hmm..

What say you guys?

[kthan10]

Originally Posted by brendachong

Yeah, wondering if guys would dare to be seen with a crossdresser. Would they date or have a crossdresser as gf? Hmm..

What say you guys?

If you dun mind, why would we mind? hehe :P

[brendachong]

Are there really guys out there that wish to know or date a crossdresser becos they do admire and luv to pamper them?

So far most only have nothing but sex in mind.. Boo!

[brendachong]

Just saying will there be guy out there that are really admirer of crossdresser and not sex first in their mind?

[cqueen]

Originally Posted by brendachong

Just saying will there be guy out there that are really admirer of crossdresser and not sex first in their mind?

Good morning Brenda,

1. May I just share with you my comments on your thread:

a. This is a real pragmatic world. Allow me to put it bluntly to you with no offence intended - you, just like me, are mere cross dressers with no real boobs and not forgetting the most important organ, pussy. Why would any guy with the right frame of mind want to spend time and money pampering you with candlelight dinner and what nots when such resources are better spent pursuing a real woman with a real pussy!
b. Of course, I cannot rule out the possibility of some guys who do enjoy and do not mind going out with a cross dresser to chill out unless "he" is rather convincing enough not to cause any embarrassment to the partner and the community at large. But that is as far as the line goes -just to chill out and nothing more. Do not expect to be pampered and treated like a 'princess' and most important of all, do not expect the guy to fall in love with you with the possibility of being your "sugar lover" to shower you with Prada, Tiffany or Cartier. You should count your lucky stars if you ever even receive a small cheap Bonia pouch from any guy. Or rather, you should consider yourself lucky if you are not made to pay for both of your meals and outing expenses.
c. It is perfectly natural and acceptable as well as expected of any guy who wants to date you out is to fuck your mouth and ass after he had spent some time and resources on you (note: it is totally immaterial to dwell on moral issues in this forum). Why, if you may ask? The reason is simple: This is a sex forum with only one and only intent - to get fuck, free or not. You may go on to explain that you do not mind giving free bj and assfuck provided there is enough chemistry being established between both parties over several dating and candlelight dinners. Like I had pointed earlier, it is definitely not pragmatic to expect any guy to want to waste their money and resources on you over such a long period of time just to get one free bj and ass fuck. Their time and resources is better spent elsewhere when they can get free fuck quicker with less hassle. One good classic example is getting one such free mouth and ass fuck from me without the guys having to waste money and resources on any outing.

2. Again, please forgive me if I had been rude and abrupt to you in any way. My intent is wholly good - to awake you from your idealistic world of being pampered and treated like a "woman" by a guy with the prospect of being his "lover". The likelihood of you being treated like his "sex slut or mistress" is more realistic without any material gifts or support of any kind. In short, just fuck you and disappear for good.

3. If you still want to cling on to your illusion, you are waiting for a ship at the airport.

[brendachong]

Hi Cqueen, appreciate your straight forward comments. I know u mean well and speaking from experiencs.

Am not naive wishing for fairytales prince charming nor am i looking for shower of gifts or $, i never ever say that. Btw, i can earn my own living comfortably so am not asking for support or whatsoever. This is indeed a sex forum and am realistic to know what we going to get from here. But we all do have a little dream don't we, and perhaps im thinking out too loud thats all

I still do believe there are nice guys out there that would like to date a cder like they date a girl, just purely my own little dream

[cqueen]

Originally Posted by brendachong

Hi Cqueen, appreciate your straight forward comments. I know u mean well and speaking from experiencs.

What matters is you know my intent is good and well.


I still do believe there are nice guys out there that would like to date a cder like they date a girl, just purely my own little dream

There are two types of dream.

One that is filled with realistic hope that could be achieved with hard work and perseverance.
The other is purely illusionary and far fetched that it only brings despair and hurt.

I hope your dream is not of the latter.

Anyway, I do wish you success on your journey of seeking that bf/gf relationship with a straight guy.

Cheers.

[brendachong]

Thanks babe Appreciate! *Hugs

[eeemen]

No of fence intended here, but sis CQ, you've enumerated it well,clear concise and precise!, as always
All the best on your endeavors sis Brenda, cheers, ....................

[eeemen]

Sorry, it should be offense, apologies. Cheers, ....................

[cqueen]

Originally Posted by eeemen

No of fence intended here, but sis CQ, you've enumerated it well,clear concise and precise!, as always
All the best on your endeavors sis Brenda, cheers, ....................

Thanks eeemen for your supportive words. Just as much as your hard cock is ever supportive of my warm slutty tongue.

[brendachong]

Anyway we all have our opinion but doesn't mean we have to agreed.

[cqueen]

Originally Posted by brendachong

Anyway we all have our opinion but doesn't mean we have to agreed.

Absolutely. I cannot agree more.

[lawry]

Originally Posted by brendachong

Anyway we all have our opinion but doesn't mean we have to agreed.

Well, there might be a possibility if after you CD you looked like Sophia (the TS that acted in bugis street).

If that is true.. Can Lawry date you? 😄