How I got cheated by KTV girl

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by huaren

ok. how about during her "non-working" hours? maybe afternoon?

Or maybe you simply have to accept the simple fact that she don't like your face and will only go out with you if there is money involved. Maybe she feels that there are better ways to spend her off-KTV hours, like sleep, or be with a guy she really likes.

Move on!

[dimitric]

Originally Posted by naemlo

If the ger not calculative, I will continue with her for another few times, but too calculative, once n ask her go f spider.

i used to sit with my regular, until she keep complaining her tips r too little, keep complaining other ppl give too little, got irritated and decided not to sit with her anymore.

[groo]

Originally Posted by naemlo

...Why bother abt how ppl think... paid a ger $100 last night to go to a pub ...1 hr there drinking, listening to music n no sex. Some think that I robert head but I happy leh, I spent my own money...

So fricking spot-on!!!

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Aloysius777

Bros, if you have not been into this kind of shit. Learnt from other people mistake as there is a saying "A fool and his money will part". Any kind bro, pls up my points.

Bro Aloysius,
Sorry to hear about your sad past. Take it as a lesson learnt, although I think it is rather an expensive one. Having been in China and been dealing with the PRC ladies here and China for so many years (1.5 decades), I did have my sad past. I am glad that you were able to pull yourself out of the last trap. People say Singaporean men are stupid, but I beg to differ. We are not stupid, but too kind and soft hearted, so much so that we always fall into their sad stories, although they are almost all the same (father and/or mother are/is sick, brother arrested by Public Security, need to bail him out, father or any close relatives owe people money, etc.) Just remember, we do not need to be kind by showing them our pity, just listen and give them what they are worth.

I learn from a wise old man who says "好事不用做，坏事不可以做。“

My 2 cent worth.

[PuTonRen]

Dear All,
I suggest that we compile a list of reasons given by the PRC ladies who are out to win over our sympthy, and probably our hard earn money. I shall start the ball rolling.

1. Father or/and Mother is/are sick, she needs money.
2. Father or close relatives is or are caught by the Public Security, and she needs money to bail them out.
3. She, herself, owes people a lot money due to many reasons best known to her, she comes here to work and to earn money to pay back the debt.
4. .....

Please add on.....

"The bulb in the toilet of her house in China is always blown. She needs a lot of money to buy bulbs to replace." Hahaha..... It is a joke, of course.

With best regards.

[Aloysius777]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Bro Aloysius,
Sorry to hear about your sad past. Take it as a lesson learnt, although I think it is rather an expensive one. Having been in China and been dealing with the PRC ladies here and China for so many years (1.5 decades), I did have my sad past. I am glad that you were able to pull yourself out of the last trap. People say Singaporean men are stupid, but I beg to differ. We are not stupid, but too kind and soft hearted, so much so that we always fall into their sad stories, although they are almost all the same (father and/or mother are/is sick, brother arrested by Public Security, need to bail him out, father or any close relatives owe people money, etc.) Just remember, we do not need to be kind by showing them our pity, just listen and give them what they are worth.

Bro, thanks... I managed to get out of this shit after 2 yrs of discipline re-payment. Just recently, heard that a distant friend of mine left his wife and kid to go China with this girl and thus his wife file for separation. He sold his Nissan 350Z car and with whatsoever money he has, went over to china and bought a house. Recently, heard that he is calling my friends to borrow money to buy return air ticket back to SG coz the China girl actually two-timing him and another SG chap. Sad to hear that the other SG bro also went over to China and found out about this 3-party relationship and the other poor SG chap committed suicide after learning the truth. No doubt the girl is still together with my friend but really sad that one SG bro gone due to this. For me, $ loss can earn back again... but really sad when a life is involved and complete family broken up

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Aloysius777

For me, $ loss can earn back again... but really sad when a life is involved and complete family broken up

Dear Bro Aloysius,
Thank you for sharing the sad stories. I used to write a lot of these incidents, which included my own experience and those that I know of. What we are posting here are only tip of the iceberg. I am sad to learn that one SG man had committed suicide due to the three-timing of a PRC lady. Let me briefly write two true incidents, one of which is a really sad one.

First incident, one young friend of mine (let call him XX) was posted to a town in China . Due to boredom or home-sickness, or whatever reason, he met a girl in a local joint. They got on fast and were soon co-habiting. Obviously , XX was giving her money. The trouble came when XX boasted to her that he was earning 25,000 RMB a month in Singapore ($5,000, which was possible), but did not tell her that he needed to pay the CPF, housing loans, taxes, and he was married, etc. This girl, after knowing this, asked XX to buy her a house, as RMB 25000 a month was really quite a lot of money. To keep the girl with him, he obliged and paid the down-payment. He continued to maintain her and pay for the installements for the house even when he was back home (he went to see her once in a while). One day, he called me up and wanted to borrow money, and I asked him why. He told me everything, and I advised him to wise up. He was then borrowing money from loan sharks, and he came to see me as he was unable to pay up and they were after him. I did not lend him the money, but offered to help him to approach someone to help him to properly settle his loans. However, He would have to stop sending money to the girl or he would not even be able to pay back the loan sharks with the new arrangement.

Sadly, one day he called me again and told me that he had no way to go, and that he had sunk in too deep already. He bidded me good bye. Since then, I have not heard from him. None of his friends knows where he is now, after so many years.

It is really sad to see a friend gone missing.

I hope brothers here could wise up and do not fall into this situation. Do not show or boast to the PRC ladies what you have, and please play within your means.

Second incident would come later. I need to prepare my trip to China (Oops! again!) for tomorrow.

My 2 cent worth.

[KLKOOL]

Hi bro PuTonRen. Was very sad to read about your friend. The basic 'law' for dealing with ladies in foreign countries is never to use money as a lure. I thinki your friend went over board by disclosing his salary.

There are many brothers working in China, some even married to China ladies. My basic rules are
1. No Co-habitating. We can crash over in each other's places, but we are not staying together.
2. Be truthful, if you are not looking long term, don't give her the impression you are. Same regards to money, no money, say no money.
3. Birth Control, even though she is not a WL, hell even if she is a virgin, the bigger risk is the 9-month timebomb.
4. If you are married, then dun eat and shit in the same city.

Remember, you guys provide a different 'experience' for the ladies. If its the money, then might as well just bonk and pay.

[Ahh Sam]

Interesting discussions here... kudos to those bros who shared their experiences and advices for us to take heed...

[JJjumper]

after reading so many sob storey, thought might as well share my own story.

met this PRC girl at KTV about 2 years ago and had gone out with her regularly and also had paid bonks over a few months, then she said not need to pay for the bonks. however she would ask $$$ from me if she need to pay school fee and her rent. occasionally she would ask $$ say she is broke.

we got on quite ok and a few months back she move to have her own room, then bonk her at her place now and then. during after valentine day, i saw some flowers at her place and so curiously ask if the flowers were from her bf, she denied and say she pick up from the club.

then last month she said she want to go back as she had not gone back for some time, paid for her air ticket and on the night she suppose to leave she ask for some more $$ saying she need to buy some present for her mother and relative, so again brought her to p park and change some rmb for her.

but curiously she did not ask me to bring her to the airport, which make me sort of suspicious. then I call her about 10 as her flight is 1 am, to check if she need transport. she said she will take a taxi.

not convinced i decided to go to her place and recce. shit true enough there was a guy there bringing her luggage down from her place. immediately called her to enquire and she said she already in the taxi liao. shit what a lie. I said why dont you asked the taxi driver to speak to me? she couldnt!

damn angry man, why she want to lie to me, if got bf just say so lah. spend so much on her and yet there is no gratitude? I feel so cheated.
called her when she in china and lambasted her but she still deny, but finally said thought i not free or convenient to bring her to the airport as I had not brought her the last time so since someone offered to bring her she agreed. i dont buy that storey, now I worry man, i have been bonking her raw for the last couple of months.

i guess she would be calling me, just before she fly back, to pick her up at the airport when she comes back, I dont know what I should do now, can still be her friend or treat her like a whore? of course you all must understand i may have been smitten.

what next ?

[iaminhcmc]

JJjumper Bro,

Turn back while you still can. Looks like she is fishing you and leeching all your $$$ slowly.

Other's sad life stories can only serve as a stark reminder of what is to come.

Pretty sad to read that life had been ruined just because they are usually blinded by 'love' and smitten by 'beauty'!

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by JJjumper

damn angry man, why she want to lie to me, if got bf just say so lah. spend so much on her and yet there is no gratitude?

Errrrr if she tell u abt another guy, will u pay for her ticket n other stuffs?? U think she stupid meh??

[Ahh_Boi]

Originally Posted by JJjumper

i dont buy that storey, now I worry man, i have been bonking her raw for the last couple of months.

what next ?

A Check up!!!!

[linnaohia1]

Originally Posted by JJjumper

after reading so many sob stor
damn angry man, why she want to lie to me, if got bf just say so lah. spend so much on her and yet there is no gratitude?
i guess she would be calling me, just before she fly back, to pick her up at the airport when she comes back, I dont know what I should do now, can still be her friend or treat her like a whore? of course you all must understand i may have been smitten.

what next ?

Ignore all calls from the BITCH

[huaren]

Originally Posted by sexrookie

Yes, with "Bonking"

Do it the next day during the off hours. damage less then half.

Not all girls in high end do KTV extra side earning.

wana confirm those KTV gals earn $500 per night? means they need to sit 10 customer/niite assuming each give $50.

i was pondering why she quote me $500.