WL As Girlfriend....awkward if she work ?

[Horsepower]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

In my humble opinion, I think it is ridiculous to have a GF (meaning serious one) or wife working as a WL. OK for mistress, as mistress are for the purpose of sex only.............

Very good point bro. I guess we all know how to avoid these pitfalls when we go out to play. But when that tugging feeling strike us (whether WL or not), it's really hard to avoid.

[sg_boytoy]

Bro Horsepower, i agree, cannot get emotional with WL, consequences are beyond our imagination!

To all bros out there, when you start to invest with your heart, be prepared for more than just a broken heart! I am a fucking poet today sia!

Up my points man! ke ke ke

[Richard L]

Originally Posted by simnon

Now she is asking me to marry her so that she can continue to stay here. Confused but hopefully this will come to the end when she leave this month

Bro. when she ask U to marry her, U should ask her:
我 们 “跑 吧 孩 子”有 一 双 烂 靴 子，
被 全 天 下 男 人 “穿” 过 后，
很 脏 ！ 可 能 有 病 毒 ！
你 要 不 要 “穿” 呀 ？

[simnon]

Hi ! Bro

Thanks for the advice.
I will put an end to this "relationship" when she leave this evening for china.

Cheers

Originally Posted by Richard L

Bro. when she ask U to marry her, U should ask her:
我 们 “跑 吧 孩 子”有 一 双 烂 靴 子，
被 全 天 下 男 人 “穿” 过 后，
很 脏 ！ 可 能 有 病 毒 ！
你 要 不 要 “穿” 呀 ？

[chikok]

Originally Posted by simnon

Hi ! Bro

Thanks for the advice.
I will put an end to this "relationship" when she leave this evening for china.

Cheers

Try not to send her off at the airport leh.
Wait she cry, you cry , money fly

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by chikok

Try not to send her off at the airport leh.
Wait she cry, you cry , money fly

understandable....men also tends to go soft hearted when
this happened....

[simnon]

Hi !

Pick her up for lunch, help her to pack, went to east coast mcdonald for sundaes and then send her to airport.
On the way to airport, told her that I would either be in touch with her or end this "relationship". She kept quiet for a while and when she took her luggage from my car, she show me hand signal to call her.
I guess she understand my intention.
As for $$$, so far spent close to $15k for a period of 6 months and I did not pass her any money although she hinted that she need some small change (couple of hundreds )..

Originally Posted by chikok

Try not to send her off at the airport leh.
Wait she cry, you cry , money fly

[Horsepower]

Originally Posted by simnon

Hi !

Pick her up for lunch, help her to pack, went to east coast mcdonald for sundaes and then send her to airport.
On the way to airport, told her that I would either be in touch with her or end this "relationship". She kept quiet for a while and when she took her luggage from my car, she show me hand signal to call her.
I guess she understand my intention.
As for $$$, so far spent close to $15k for a period of 6 months and I did not pass her any money although she hinted that she need some small change (couple of hundreds )..

A familiar experience I think many cheongsters can identify.

[chikok]

Originally Posted by simnon

Hi !

On the way to airport, told her that I would either be in touch with her or end this "relationship". She kept quiet for a while and when she took her luggage from my car, she show me hand signal to call her.
I guess she understand my intention.

Will you call her???
Just out of curiosity.

[simnon]

Hi ! Bro

I will not call her as I need to put her out of my life.
I still have the videos of her and our love making for memories.

Cheers

Originally Posted by chikok

Will you call her???
Just out of curiosity.

[Richard L]

Originally Posted by simnon

Hi !
Pick her up for lunch, help her to pack, went to east coast mcdonald for sundaes and then send her to airport.
On the way to airport, told her that I would either be in touch with her or end this "relationship". She kept quiet for a while and when she took her luggage from my car, she show me hand signal to call her.
I guess she understand my intention.
As for $$$, so far spent close to $15k for a period of 6 months and I did not pass her any money although she hinted that she need some small change (couple of hundreds )..

Wah Bro. steady leh Look like our old movie "script" of 演 一 場 精 采 的
“熱 淚” 戲 do not happen leh. I think other brothers quite disappointed because she didn't act according to the "script". Anyway,
你 （包 括 我）犯 了
全 天 下 男 人
都 会 犯 的 错 ！
成 龙 大 哥 说 的 。。。。Cheers !

[Horsepower]

Originally Posted by simnon

Hi ! Bro

I will not call her as I need to put her out of my life.
I still have the videos of her and our love making for memories.

Cheers

The videos will definitely make you think of her and call her.

[Richard L]

Originally Posted by simnon

told her that I would either be in touch with her or end this "relationship".

On second look, the message not very clear leh...."either or" type.
唉，I think U are a bit “soft-heart”。 心 太 软 ！That is our major weakness. We must overcome this.
狠 下 心 来， 一 刀 俩 断 ！！
要 记 住 ：
中 国 来 的 女 人 可 不 是 什 么 良 家 婦 女。。。。
什 么 儒 家 的 三 从 四 德，
四 书 五 经 ( 礼 、 义 、 廉 、 耻 )
对 中 国 女 人 来 說， 都 是 放 屁 ！！
要 明 白 ：
中 国 女 人
一 日 為 “雞” ，終 生 是 “雞” 的 道 理 ！

[chikok]

Originally Posted by Richard L

要 明 白 ：
中 国 女 人
一 日 為 “雞” ，終 生 是 “雞” 的 道 理 ！[/SIZE]

I very much agree on this sentence. After they earn the easy money, they will find it very hard to work normal jobs. So they will try to find a rich man to support them, if cannot find, then continue working lor.

[evo3]

In my persoanl opinon I feel that some bros mentioned here are true and some are not really. In usual cases, PRC are here to make fast money and go home to do what they like. But very rare we can see PRC who really put their true feeling on a guy. Those who really have feeling for the guy she love will eventually indirectly force the guy to married her (if the guy is not married than is ok, but what if the guy is married than he will be in a very difficult position to decide what to do).
I have a very close friend who is married and at the same time he also have a very close girl friend (works in KTV) who is from Msia. Both of them have a very close feel to each other. The girl know the guy is married and she also knows the guy love his family well and at the same time this guy is really serious about his girl friend. The guy cannot tell his wife that he love another girl outside. This guy want to have both of them, as he cant let go either party. His wife does not knows anything about this. As for this girl friend, she dont seem to be interested whether the guy wife know or dont know. His girl friend is a very simple girl, all she need is some one to be considerate, caring and love her because she does not have all these in the past. So the question is how should this guy going to handle this 2 ladies. Just carry on as per normal like before. Or take only one