What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?

[A1406]

Originally Posted by ah rat

Did your wife allow u to touch her

No wor if she dun allow. If allow that mean she need and can have sex lah

[A1406]

Originally Posted by HelloAngel

I see a lot of unhappy marriages here and my advise is, you should ask yourself if you wish to grow old this way? If it's cos of sex that you are unhappy, I guess eating outside can solve the problem if you still love your wife. I initiated a divorce and took my kid with me cos my ex wasn't providing well for the family. I was paying for most stuffs and he took it for granted. Eventually there were many issues and I lost the emotional connection with him. We stopped having sex and there was no more feeling on my part. The emotional quotient was lost. Now I am single and supporting my son on my own but happier!! I am not advocating a divorce but in this real world, we gotto think hard on what we want in life. Good luck!!

Sis,
Allow me to ask you one question. If your hubby suddenly out of job and not due to his fault (not lazy kind) and can't find a job back for the time being and he is financially strapped. Will you pay the bills for the family first without demanding the amount that you had paid for the family back? Which mean that your money can be spent/share with the family when in tough time.

[ManInCheong]

Originally Posted by A1406

Sis,
Allow me to ask you one question. If your hubby suddenly out of job and not due to his fault (not lazy kind) and can't find a job back for the time being and he is financially strapped. Will you pay the bills for the family first without demanding the amount that you had paid for the family back? Which mean that your money can be spent/share with the family when in tough time.

Well said~

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by A1406

Wow your wife sounded so much like my wife. And yes she also make me lost my job years ago just to show her company that she is capable of resolving matter and eventually she got pay rise etc... Yes she show no respect in front of the maid and kid when like commanding me to do anything! WTF not becos of my son I fuck care ask her fly kite already.

So sorry to hear about your plight. You stayed for the sake of your kid. When you get older, I wont be surprise you get hooked with another woman who will treat you better, and when the D word comes about due to your new partner, it will be " you have another woman " excuse, n she will win.

The darkness is not forever, neither does the sun shines forever. Not I am cursing her, but there may come a day when she loses her job. Or something happens. Not I curse her, but nature has a way to put those who are very high up w big attitude to lows. Perhaps it is not too late for you to take care of her, n hope she realise her mistakes.

[A1406]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

So sorry to hear about your plight. You stayed for the sake of your kid. When you get older, I wont be surprise you get hooked with another woman who will treat you better, and when the D word comes about due to your new partner, it will be " you have another woman " excuse, n she will win.

The darkness is not forever, neither does the sun shines forever. Not I am cursing her, but there may come a day when she loses her job. Or something happens. Not I curse her, but nature has a way to put those who are very high up w big attitude to lows. Perhaps it is not too late for you to take care of her, n hope she realise her mistakes.

Yes every one have their ups and downs. One can be a high flyer today but to zero Tmr which no one can know. We all read from papers report as well. So for those who is riding high now dun need to be so stub out else better maintain it all the way and dun fall one day.

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by A1406

No wor if she dun allow. If allow that mean she need and can have sex lah

any suspect of yr wife eating outside

[A1406]

Originally Posted by ah rat

any suspect of yr wife eating outside

Maybe but cannot confirm.

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by A1406

Maybe but cannot confirm.

If really she eat outside ,she won't feel to have sex anymore .Once of my friend wife too eat outside.When my friend want to strip her panty,she anyhow used her legs to kick him.And told him I don't want to have sex

[guldon]

Reading a lot of post.

Me too, didn't have sex with my wife for long time. Always said tired.
She work part time job. Yes, maybe she's tired, but when not working for days,
also tired. Then, got one time I ask for a HJ. Doing it like unwillingly😔.
The last time I ask for it was the time she told me to do it myself...!
And guys are always tied down because of kids....

Got one time I re-service with my camp mate, he was saying
" can have kids but no wife or not..." Thinking about it.......sad😢

[HelloAngel]

Originally Posted by A1406

Sis,
Allow me to ask you one question. If your hubby suddenly out of job and not due to his fault (not lazy kind) and can't find a job back for the time being and he is financially strapped. Will you pay the bills for the family first without demanding the amount that you had paid for the family back? Which mean that your money can be spent/share with the family when in tough time.

This is a different scenario cos he can't find a job due to legitimate reason not cos he don't want to. I have been paying majority of the bills cos I earn more than him and he took it for granted and refuse to improve himself. I don't ask him for any money back and my boy's tuition fees are all borne by me as he does not believe in tuition nor insurance. Lots of these issues. I endured till I feel there is no point anymore. Then I stopped the sex naturally cos I don't feel anymore connection with him. I need an emotional attachment for sex. Heh.

[HelloAngel]

Men and women programmed differently. Men needs sex from wife to feel loved. Women needs more than sex to feel loved. Of course, some women feel that the more sex their spouse gives, the more the hb loves them. Then some are happy with material goods from the spouse sans the sex. Perfect scenario would be $$ and sex creates a good balance but seldom. No perfect solution to the problems each couple face and ultimately it's up to you to either remain stuck in an unhappy marriage or attempt to improve it. no matter what, do what you want as long as you are willing to face the music should shit happens.

[coolguy71]

Hi bros.. dont u think the reason your wife dont want sex from us as she is getting it from somewhere else. She has her fun.. so when we a she is used. Think about it..

At least this is how i feel.. if not alway tired.. so or not.
.lol.

[williamtkk]

For womenfolk, they can flutter towards any thing as long as it suits them

[dreamlover2010]

Wife don't give you sex. Wife don't give you respect.

Your job is down. Her job is up.

I read from another website about an accountant wife married with kids. She got affair with her boss. Her young daughter stumbled on her sms and asked neighbours how to handle the sensitive issue.

I think bro that it's getting very common for married women to spread their legs outside for others to fuck.

Since already no respect for you, your marriage very hard to salvage. If you want to save it be prepared to tahan for at least a few years. Or until her lover breaks off with her. But not yet proven if she's really fucking outside.

It's very tough.

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by hornyhubby

If you have got gold nuggets in your mouth....then the only option is to pcc hahaha

i LOL at this!