Why does sex with a single mom feel so good?

[cassanova]

IMHO...dun pump n dump coz they have been hurts once

Show them luv n b truthful to the them even u married just tell them

All they want is TLC someone to tok too when they r down

[piichai]

Originally Posted by cassanova

IMHO...dun pump n dump coz they have been hurts once

Show them luv n b truthful to the them even u married just tell them

All they want is TLC someone to tok too when they r down

well said, thats exactly what I meant.

Many of the single mom have been wounded. Again I am not refering to those that you read in exotic novel, see in some adult movies or men fantasy. They are also not your usual gold digger, PR status chaser or inheritance grabber.

Many of them are locals have to balance between work and family because now they are the only one taking care of the family. It will take them a while to love again. Their sexual needs (if any, according to one guy said what hormones shit) can be zero. Gals are different from guys. They can dont want. The relationship has taken a toll on them.

Dont fuck and dump them, They are not our GL whores.

[Shawn1469]

Originally Posted by piichai

well said, thats exactly what I meant.

Many of the single mom have been wounded. Again I am not refering to those that you read in exotic novel, see in some adult movies or men fantasy. They are also not your usual gold digger, PR status chaser or inheritance grabber.

Many of them are locals have to balance between work and family because now they are the only one taking care of the family. It will take them a while to love again. Their sexual needs (if any, according to one guy said what hormones shit) can be zero. Gals are different from guys. They can dont want. The relationship has taken a toll on them.

Dont fuck and dump them, They are not our GL whores.

Kind of agree unless they are also into the non committal fxck and I am done. Am sure some single moms whom are just into the sex and then be done with it?

[cassanova]

I believe feel will also knows these women r after $$

Aiya they are not chickens lah

[Buibuicat]

Originally Posted by Shawn1469

Kind of agree unless they are also into the non committal fxck and I am done. Am sure some single moms whom are just into the sex and then be done with it?

Yes agree on communication and some are in for the sex only and some so want $$ in a way and no harm if they ask and get something else out of it ....

These ladies are still human still with feelings and just want to feel wanted if not they will move on ...

[Shawn1469]

Originally Posted by Buibuicat

Yes agree on communication and some are in for the sex only and some so want $$ in a way and no harm if they ask and get something else out of it ....

These ladies are still human still with feelings and just want to feel wanted if not they will move on ...

Such things gotta be upfront and honest bout it. The more open and honest about it, I think both parties will enjoy the sex even more.

[piichai]

I know all about dating single moms.

Putting aside those that looks for sex.
(Then again if they look for it, why they go for us? we look like Andy Lau or we are rich? Or we fcck like energizer rabbit?)

Im always talking genuine single mom who look for companionship
These are the things you need to know

Her timing
Her emotional
Her past hurts
Her unavailability
Her baggages

If you fxxk care all of the above, you must well get a whore.

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by piichai

I know all about dating single moms.

Putting aside those that looks for sex.
(Then again if they look for it, why they go for us? we look like Andy Lau or we are rich? Or we fcck like energizer rabbit?)

Im always talking genuine single mom who look for companionship
These are the things you need to know

Her timing
Her emotional
Her past hurts
Her unavailability
Her baggages

If you fxxk care all of the above, you must well get a whore.

I wonder why we describe single mums as being such damaged goods, but we don't say the same thing about single dads?

As though emotional damage and baggage only exists for women with failed relationships and marriages? Men also can be equally messed up what.

Would we as men be ok with women describing divorced men in such damaged terms?

[piichai]

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

I wonder why we describe single mums as being such damaged goods, but we don't say the same thing about single dads?

As though emotional damage and baggage only exists for women with failed relationships and marriages? Men also can be equally messed up what.

Would we as men be ok with women describing divorced men in such damaged terms?

Actually which part that said they were damaged goods? They are hurt, wounded and went through a bad relationship. Not damaged.

Men also if they have the custody of the children and going through mid life crisis. We dont talk about men here because we are not talking about having sex with single dad .

Dont think them as damaged but delicate woman that dont need men to treat them as sex objects, fuck and dump. They are vulnerable and do not deserved to be in another broken relationship. If they are players, we can forget about what i said.

If they are not, dont prey on them
Thats what Im trying to explain t the brothers here who only have sex in their mind.

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by piichai

Actually which part that said they were damaged goods? They are hurt, wounded and went through a bad relationship. Not damaged.

Men also if they have the custody of the children and going through mid life crisis. We dont talk about men here because we are not talking about having sex with single dad .

Dont think them as damaged but delicate woman that dont need men to treat them as sex objects, fuck and dump. They are vulnerable and do not deserved to be in another broken relationship. If they are players, we can forget about what i said.

If they are not, dont prey on them
Thats what Im trying to explain t the brothers here who only have sex in their mind.

Ahhhh... yeah, makes sense what you said. Thanks for the clarification, my bad for misunderstanding. Lol.

Though my comment isn't really directed against you, just some people on here who say that fucking single mums might as well pump and dump like some commercial prostitute.

Anyway, upped you.

[piichai]

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

Ahhhh... yeah, makes sense what you said. Thanks for the clarification, my bad for misunderstanding. Lol.

Though my comment isn't really directed against you, just some people on here who say that fucking single mums might as well pump and dump like some commercial prostitute.

Anyway, upped you.

Thanks for understanding and have the empathy for single moms.
I have many single mom friends and to be honest, they are so devastated by the failed marriage that they never want to have another relationship again.

Is quite common if you look at the divorce rate today, maybe every 4 couples, 1 of them are divorced. So we will see people around us, colleagues, friends, relatives who are divorced.

Those who are serious, they need a companion more than sex.
Those horny ones, you can find them clubbing

[marcussia]

My ex was a single mum, got a divorce, and was trying to mingle with old friends again. (Both the ex-husband and she were my Secondary school day friends.)

Anyway, she stayed over at my house a couple of times after getting drunk (nothing happened at first), then she started to come over more often to hang out etc... Eventually, we hooked up.

But she broke off with me after I went in NS (i went in NS in my 20s). She needed someone to be constantly with her, and NS didn't allowed me to.

Was sex great, yup (she was older, and after giving birth her ex husband and her stop having sex for around 1year), but what she needed was just someone (anyone) to be beside her (after i went in NS she went back to one of her ex)

[piichai]

Originally Posted by marcussia

But she broke off with me after I went in NS (i went in NS in my 20s). She needed someone to be constantly with her, and NS didn't allowed me to.

Was sex great, yup (she was older, and after giving birth her ex husband and her stop having sex for around 1year), but what she needed was just someone (anyone) to be beside her (after i went in NS she went back to one of her ex)

She is lonely and you being someone she knows is the perfect temporary person to fill her loneliness. Sex is the by product.

Your unavailability did not meet her requirement and she look for someone else. I guess another person she is comfortable with.

NS (around 20 to 23 years old) man.
She is mid 20s at that time. She sure married early

[ralliart]

Men before marriage are generally immatured.
Men in/ after marriage are confident with themselves but don't commit extra-marital affairs unless they have family problems
Men after divorce don't really care about relationship commitment coz career will get them what they want.

Women's expectations of each category of us differs.
Only 1 thing remains the same.
They don't show their pussies like men's dick.
You satisfy their emotional needs and they will reciprocate with great sex.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by ralliart

You satisfy their emotional needs and they will reciprocate with great sex.

So how do you guys prevent the ladies from turning sticky and demanding over time? Many ladies will want to upgrade the relationship right?